Being human is hard work!

People may have different judgments and different decisions based on those judgments. Everyone's truth may contain changes in their own way, as in decisions and elections. One's right is the other's wrong. So what is the criterion to determine right or wrong? Two choices are true or false in a variable situation. It may also only be related to whom and according to what it is evaluated.

Life is a series of decisions. These decisions shape our roadmap and take us through ups and downs. The same person does not always laugh or cry, and can experience many contradictory emotions even in the same hour.

Just like in the match of the team he supports; For 90 minutes, he will be sad and happy, but the end of the match will be a definite reflection of his general feeling. Sadness or joy!

Do people regret the decisions they made more, or the decisions they didn't make?

We can somehow see the result of the decisions we have made, because we have gone through that process by living those moments, and if we regret it, we know the reasons. But we never know where the decisions we didn't make will lead us, so the decisions that weren't made may be more regrettable.

Just like the past and the future; No one regrets their future because it hasn't happened yet and we don't know what's going to happen. Anyone can regret their past because they know how things developed and how they turned out.

So, we can say that the determining factor in regrets is the result.

When we make a decision and view it positively, people might call it a good decision or a right answer. Both will mean the same thing. Those who see it as a right or a good decision definitely have an area of influence and multiplier in their own way. In short, we can call it an assessment skills or perspectives.

What if we evaluate it from a negative point of view, what would be the result? They can cut it off by saying it's a bad decision and wrong answer, but it's still a situation that needs to be explained with its reasons.

We can develop the above discourses by having good thoughts at the point of evaluating all these and assuming that those who make the evaluation are the people who can contribute to this optimism.

But what if they become people who have lost their optimism and have extreme prejudices….?

In this case, whatever the decision or the work done, the result will be dissatisfaction, jealousy and mischief. It is next to impossible to persuade or please a biased person, or have them contribute to positive thinking in consequential relationships.

In bilateral human relations, there is no rule that the feelings will be mutual. You can love someone who hates you, or ignore someone who will do anything for you. These are decisions or phenomena that can be evaluated as good or bad in our lives and contribute to our ongoing life.

It is not easy to accept being judged by others for your decisions or actions in an environment where beliefs and laws sufficiently limit human life. Our spheres of influence should not be their spheres of reaction. Those who make it a habit have no response to what you say or show them because their interests are often offensive rather than defensive.

A person who says "I just want my bitter life to be sweet" indicates that he wants to get rid of the difficulties in his life and start a different life until he says that word. There's no point in reminding him of his past life still, instead you have to do whatever you can to contribute to the life he wants. If you can't do that either, it will be enough to get out of your way and, if possible, out of your life. Maybe it can be the most ideal choice for both him and yours.

The recent increase in "love writings" can set a good example. Although it is nice to know that there are still those who believe in love, it is an inevitable fact that what is desired will be at the level of expectation. According to expectation, there is love, maybe not at all. Competing with those who say yes and those who say no, or marking someone as the right choice may be the biggest mistake that can be made, and it will be nothing but nonsense.

Everyone knows that he is just living, and not every experience can be told. No one opens up 100% to anyone else! He must have information, secrets and mysteries that he hides.

Not every criminal in the world is punished, but those whose crimes are revealed are punished. Some humans are the best camouflaged creatures in the world. Even with these features alone, they give the right to be "dangerous".

Everyone knows who they love because no other mind or personality is needed to understand it. You just need to know yourself adequately.

….but no one can be sure that they are truly loved. A "what if" question is always about to pop up in his mind and he is just waiting for the opportunity. Once doubt falls on your brain, you feel that a rodent is gnawing at your brain. This doubt is equated with danger. You never know where it will take you and where it will take you.

Thank you for reading.