Behavioral qualities
There are things that need to be done before it expires, and we don't know when it will expire. Life has no expiration date; If there is, we don't know. It's all about a vital value and the beginning or end of life's journey.
Time is a journey, but it does not include a journey that we can make by jumping on a plane, ship or any vehicle. And there is no rest, the journey always flows forward. We can't just ask time to wait, get our work done and then pick up where it left off after we return.
As life goes on, we must do what needs to be done without delay and put our lives in order. As a result, we must be hardworking as if we will live for a thousand years, and ready as if we will die tomorrow.
That's enough advice! Isn't it silly of me to advise you about things I wouldn't do myself? But that's how humans are and that's how things work. We can wish for others what we do not want to happen to ourselves. And what we don't want done to ourselves, we can do to others.
No one can blame me for being selfish and thinking only about myself here. You can be in the same situation and behave in the same way. No one can blame you...
… but everyone has a point to be accounted for. By darkening our conscience, we may have escaped the reckoning of conscience, we may have overcome the pressure of the environment, we may have escaped from the laws and criminal sanctions as long as we do not leave any evidence behind. For those who believe, divine justice will somehow come into play.
When it comes to giving advice, they will not listen to any of the advice given when the same is done to those who are outspoken and constantly give directions. Those who are experts in the lives of others are novices in their own lives.
Long or short life span; Everyone has something they want to do in their own life. They also have priorities in what they want to do. Knowing that each passing second counts from our own time is to be conscious of the shortened lifespan. As the symbols of the clock move forward, some lives begin and some end. It is a luxury for everyone to fill their life time with vain jobs when it is not clear whose turn will come and when.
But despite everything, someone who has only one right to life will be advised what to do and what not to do; It is more effective if the counselor presents sections from his own life!
Of course, he must have a stable life in order to set his own life as an example. Someone with a stable life is likely to be a confident and exemplary person.
The field of intervention is not people's lives, stories, ideas; what they do and what they cannot do. What they do or do not do is how they touch another life.
The lyrics to a song I love to listen to can be the summary of a one-page narrative;
I fell on the prison roofs, there are many who give advice!
If I collect those advices, it will be a road to the village from here!
In original language (Turkish);
Düştüm mahpus damlarına, öğüt veren çok olur!
Toplasam o öğütleri buradan köye yol olur!
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We really are quick to advise other people without looking at ourselves. Advise is something that we have to be careful about cos not all are good or will yield good results