Feeling inferiority can affects your personality....

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Today, I want to discuss about the major problem that mostly peoples face on daily basis. It is the feeling of inferiority. Different peoples have complex for different things.
Sometimes peoples have a lot but when they see the others, they think they are inferior to anyone else. During my daily routine, I met with a lot of peoples who suffer from different kinds of inferiority feeling.

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Feeling of inferiority by appearance:-
It's true that your appearance controls your confidence level. Whenever you go for a job interview they first thing that they notice is how well you dressed up, how well your manners are. However, whenever you dressed up well , whenever you look perfect you feel that your confidence is increasing with every moment. And when you become more confident, your way of spoken is at another level and the person In front of you thinks that, you are the one who is perfect for this job. But it's not matter in all places. In some places your knowledge, your experience matters to justify whether you are perfect or not.
Sometimes some peoples have not enough resources for this. But keep believe on yourself that you are perfect if you have done  what you can. Sometimes peoples are looking perfect from every aspect, but they underestimate themselves. And due to their feelings that they are not perfect, they are inferior than other lowers their confidence and due to this feeling they lose many opportunities.


People feel inferior by seeing the life style of others:-


Not everyone in the world is at the same status. Some people take it serious and undergo complex. They hesitate to attend events, they hesitate, to invite someone at home, they feel inferior. They see that some peoples in the world has cars, Bangalore, business empires etc. but at same time when they think what they have they become complexed. They become rebellious, their desires are more than their income when they not gain what they want in his life, they chose the wrong path to fulfil his dreams. Or in some cases they become depressed.


Feeling of inferiority by job:-


Sometimes people face inferiority because of being jobless. For example, two persons completed their education from the same institute at the same time but one get the higher post but the second one continuously searching for job. This makes the second one to feel inferior.
People feel inferior because they think they have no talent.
Sometimes people feel inferior because they want to do something but succeeded and degraded by others. For examples,  A person love singing but whenever he tries to sing some song people not appreciate him.  They make fun out of it . They start insulting him. And this person undergoes severe complex that lead to depression.


Feeling inferior by color complexion:-


Some people has a sever complex just because of its dull complexion. But they not know that people with little bit dull complexion are more attractive than others. They feel inferior because peoples are taunting them.


Feeling inferior by their work:-


Some students have completed their project with perfection, and they were very happy but when they see the other students project they feel they are inferior . They think there work is not perfect. They think that they can do more better.
Some students feel inferior because they have no trust . Today, when l was in class six, a student tell me to write her name with colorful markers because she  feel ashamed on her writing. Then l boosted her confidence by saying that keep believe on yourself. Do  this by yourself. Your writing are very beautiful, don't underestimate your self than they feel little bit superior.


Avoid feeling inferior:-


We all need to be avoid the feeling like that because God make us perfect and no one can challenge him for this. And not the everyone should be perfect.  God bless every one with some unique quality. So keep believe on yourself and never think that you are superior than any one else. you are perfect because God made you perfect.
Sometimes peoples feel more superior even we say that they are over confident and their this feeling can lead to the lose.


We need a balance between the feeling of superiority and inferiority:-


Yes we been to maintain balance between these two feelings. Not only feeling of inferiority lead to lose , the feeling of be a superior can also lead to severe loss. We just need to balance them.
Thanks for reading.

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Just like what you have said, we really need to invest on balancing things to avoid conflicts. 😉 Also, we should know what we can do & that we are all enough and unique.

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Thanks for your appreciation .yeah , we all have some own qualities, we all are unique, we just need to know about it.

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We all need to know we are enough. The reason why most people appear better I'd cause they work on their selves and hold their head high. We can get whatever we desire, we are all very capable, no feeling of inferiority.

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The thing is If you have true belief you can get whatever you desire. If you don't trust yourself It dump your personality.

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Inferiority complex is just like termites it makes the person hollow ... Sometimes people & sometimes past events induces inferiority complex in a person ... it causes anxiety , depression and overthinking ... I totally agree with you article ... Perhaps we should endeavour to release someone who is suffering with this problem in our friends, family members or siblings ....

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3 years ago

Thanks for being agree with me. sometimes this inferiority complex lead to suicide. So, we should have to help those who are suffering from the inferiority complex, before they took any worse step.

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The feeling of inferiority makes a person hollow inside. We should be safe from it. We should be happy with everything that Allah has given us.

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I have experienced these things you mentioned. But what I did to overcome it? I tried to assess myself and work on the things I need to improve. But I still need to make sure that the real me will still be seen.

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3 years ago

Thanks to sharing your experience with me . According to if you want to over come it . you should have a true belief on your self that you look perfect, what your are doing is perfect, your are perfect at every aspect no matter if you are low in some point but you are strong in other points. just keep believing yourself.

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Yes. After all, we only have ourselves that we can lean on.

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yes , that's the point. You take yourself out of it by your own if want to overcome these feelings than first give respect to yourself . It matters a lot.

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