@evomeopetrobi 3 November 2020

Thanks, sorry, please

Thanks, sorry, please These words are used less and less, the corresponding terms are less and less expressed. It is noticeable that this phenomenon is not characteristic only for one part, for one layer of one nation, but universally for a large population. So people meet people who are not sympathetic to themselves, or at least people who do not hesitate to show rudeness. Politeness, a way of life acquired from an early age, is developed and designed by years of life and personal efforts to improve (Dale Carnegie sought to make people happy by himself and others - his book "How to make friends with yourself" in the Francophone area is gained great popularity - it was published by the house Ashet).

By unpolished behavior, a subconscious negativism towards her is created around the person who behaves in this way. How does such a person start a conversation? She immediately begins to declare herself, her desires, plans, experiences, her self. Discernment requires something quite the opposite - a conversation should be started or included in the conversation by taking an interest in your interlocutor - honestly, from the heart with an effort to be kind to that person.

It is becoming more and more common to be interested in another only if the desired or any benefit can be obtained from him - if there are no such prospects and it is concluded that there will be none, any interest in that person is lost. Obviously, such behavior loses sight of the simple consequence of this attitude and this organization of relationships with others: people who distance themselves from selfishness or gross disinterest in others and themselves are rejected by such behavior - the vacuum that created and maintains it around them, no one can approach him, not even those who are kind to him or could be kind to him.A clear loser is a person of negativistic behavior. Lack of gratitude (whether it is expected or not), failure to pay attention to how one perceives one's own shortcomings, non-expression and basic forms of politeness are the reason for negative evaluations, expressed or not, that go with people of such behavior and those evaluations quickly become ) assess the personality of those persons.

Everyone has a system of self-defense that allows them to predict what can endanger them - from small to large and the largest intensities of inconvenience and danger. An unpleasant person is very quickly registered by the defense mechanism and always risks being rejected - and as an unpleasant, undesirable, rejected person, he will certainly have life difficulties because of that - the consequences of his unpleasant behavior. Life is sacrifice and it is desirable to make sacrifices voluntarily, with love.