Extended Family

definitely right. Having extended family is very nice and happy though there are lots of disadvantages too. One of them is jealousy that might resulted to insecurities because everyone has a uniqueness that captures relatives attentions then others are ignored but the good thing about it is that I think it'll be easier for everyone to overcome life challenges because his family members are living with him and he can easily ask for help. So, my question to you @eommaZel is, which do you prefer, extended or nuclear family ? 😊

if given the opportunity I would rather just be independent because for me being in extended family cause a lot of problems as i perceived in my own family i dont know with the others. Such as being lazy because you hope that someone else will do the task for you, costly in everything, noisy especially having many children and various other reasons. If im going to have a family I do not want to have this kind of situation. Thats all dear and here attache the name of my dear friend @Dasefil @Paulmaon and @Jona

No one is the same in this world, everyone is different and not everyone has the same mentality. There are some families in this world where many members exist and they feel comfortable in a joint family. They are all mingling and working. Again there are some people who do not feel comfortable in a joint family. They feel comfortable in a single family. For example: a joint family has 10 members. 7 of them feel comfortable in this family and the other 2 do not feel comfortable. If these 2 people do not work well, do violence, quarrel with 6 other people, then peace will be maintained in that joint family? I don't think there will be peace. There are some joint families, if 2 women have 2 children, if another child needs more money for education, the other woman feels jealous! First I say from my own experience: We had our first joint family. We were two brothers and one sister and my uncle had one daughter. We needed more money for education than my cousin. For which my aunt used to feel jealous! Did not have their own freedom. My mother worked a lot but my aunt was lazy. One day my aunt said she would not stay in a joint family, she would form a single family, so she did. Now we are happier than before by the grace of God. Now we are not having the same problem as before. In a single family, I, my sister, younger brother, father, mother are all working and studying in peace and I am very happy.

But I think the problem of single family is to feel lonely. Because the number of family members is low and everyone is busy, the children of single family always feel very lonely and insecure. But it is more so in the city, the effect is not so much in the village because there are many people in the village, as well as other children with whom you can talk at ease. In a joint family, the master is usually centered. Therefore, the decision of everything in the family, big or small, comes in the throw of one master. Therefore, the opinion of the rest is less important here except that one. As the number of family members is high, there is often a lot of quarreling, anger, arrogance, etc. among these members and as a result both the family environment and peace are ruined. In comparison, the social or family responsibilities of joint family members are much higher than those of a single family. On the other hand, single family members, especially children, have a better life, Freedom of decision making and implementation by everyone in the family. Strengthening one's personality and privacy. The younger members of the family feel the touch of improvement in the education system. Economically, it is a great advantage for a single family to be relatively more advanced in terms of money. The lives of the girls in the family are comparatively much improved and the views of the girls are very important in any single family. In fact, it is peaceful and best for those who feel comfortable. However, not everyone has the same mentality. Some feel peace in a single family and some feel peace in a joint family.🙂 @Sajib, @Cutie_Angel_Mukta, @Rehenuma

I like extended family because there are many family members and they always enjoy their time and support one another. but i born in a single family

Sometimes some members can be really annoying to bear but the best part of belonging to such an extended family is that they're always there to look out for you when you need them

I like extended family because I was born in extended family where everyone, big or small, encourages me to do anything. I am proud because I was born into such a family.

I don't want to engage with this kind of set up. Because it can lead to unhealthy development. With you build your own family. You must learn how to grow and think about the goods of the family your building up. But if you live in such an environment it could lead you to not care at all because you think there is always someone behind your back. And I also prefer the privacy of my own family. Where I can teach my own child the values that I want them to have. If you are in that setup. Others may intervene. And it can also result in jealousy of something you have and the others don't have.

it will be very loud but I think it'll be fun too