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Remove Anger From Your Head

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Written by   46
1 month ago
Topics: Anger, Mind

I watched a video of a child whose parents took to school to resume with the school. The little girl was so adamant and stubborn. She wants to avoid listening to anyone's words. It might be that that's what she was taught, or she has been seeing people filled with anger.

She was so angered and decided to spoil things. She truly destroyed many things, including her books and all her clothes. Before then, she was taken to a hostel where she has to stay. She initially accepted, but later refused while alone. Her anger was just too much and while scattering her items and the items in the room, many teachers were watching her. They were not ready to calm her down, but wanted to wait to see her best actions before taking her out or dealing with her.

Now, I have some ways I can deal with such a child.

  • Flogging: According to God's words the best is to use cane and remove that madness in her mind as it is said in the Bible that spare not the ride and spoil the child. So, it is better to use cane to flog her to correct her senses. In another way, flogging is not adopted in schools, so one can also use another method, except if the child is at home.

My child cannot try such madness but must ensure to be quiet or else, I have to discipline her by using cane.

  • Watching from a distance allow the child to vent the anger in her but making sure she does not injure herself/classmate. The teachers initially left her alone to kept on with her anger before looking for solution to correct her. So, such child must be kept and left alone to act, and after acting, comes next will be punishing.

  • Ask her or investigate the cause of her anger and venting. As a teacher or a parent, seeing your child in this condition supposed to make you to call her to know the true reasons she has this kind of behavior.

    She might have one or several reasons to have put up this act.

  • After the venting and cooling, make her clear, clean, sweep and rearrange all the mess she has done without leaving a pin. This will make her to get a little sense because she has overreacted. No one will help her to pack those mess she has done, so she has to pack those things herself or else, she will be made to sleep in the mess just like that.

  • Sit her down and make her realize what she has done, and tell her the parents will be responsible for all the damages she has caused. Remember she is not at home, but in the school, so you must make her to know what she has done so that she will not try that again. As a teacher, you wouldn't want others to see what she has done because there are many who will copy her behavior. So, take her to where you can give her lots of advice to calm down her brain.

  • After that, let her tender apology to the whole class in front of the class, especially the teacher. This will make her know the wrong she has done and will also make others who have seen her not to copy her rude and unruly behavior. So, she must apologize to everyone in her class and will also give round the offices to apologize to the teachers one after the other.

  • Let her be isolated, sit alone for about two days without anybody interacting or any form of interaction, but her class work and activities should not be affected. This is a character that demands proper isolation so that next time she will learn the effect of what she has done. Isolation should be the best option.

By the end of the isolation, she should have realized the usefulness of human relation and the effect of 5minutes madness in her.

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Don't make any decision if you're angry. It will only worsen the situation. If we feel mad, go out or shout it out, it will help but never say words that will ruin your relationship with your family.

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1 month ago

Anger and madness leads to nothing but bad things. I experienced flogging before. I learn from it but from being scared that i wouldn't want it to happen again. I hate flogging it doesn't teach child to be better but just to scare them.its better to talk to them and teach them good moral from the start

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1 month ago

I don't think that part in the Bible necessarily meant the use of canes. In my opinion, it simply means that one must discipline one's child. And there are several methods. But I really love your other methods... Good work

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1 month ago

This topic you've touched en will cause a lot of controversy 😂. So many countries and cultures don't believe in the use of cane. Even herein Nigeria. People are gradually adopting the same culture. Spare the rod and spoil the child- so the bible says. What i will say is, everything should be done with moderation. There are different ways to punish a child without the use of cane, although there are some kids that won't listen until the see it.

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1 month ago

I think flogging a child will make her repeat it next time. I can still agree with other ways you have listed. Most schools do not allow flogging. Perhaps scolding will be good instead of flogging. Children should be trained and taught not to be angry to the extent of damaging things. They are still young and the earlier the better for them.

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1 month ago

I hate the idea of flogging ever since my dad flogged me till my head tear 😓, I prefer to talk to the child

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1 month ago

I don't believe in flogging children. Through the bible said spare the rod, spilling the child but it didn't necessarily mean flogging. There ate so many ways to correct children such that they will feel remorseful and wouldn't repeat their mistakes. I don't believe in inflicting pain on children, inflicting pain by flogging isn't equivalent to correction. My opinion though.

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