Remove Anger From Your Head

I watched a video of a child whose parents took to school to resume with the school. The little girl was so adamant and stubborn. She wants to avoid listening to anyone's words. It might be that that's what she was taught, or she has been seeing people filled with anger.

She was so angered and decided to spoil things. She truly destroyed many things, including her books and all her clothes. Before then, she was taken to a hostel where she has to stay. She initially accepted, but later refused while alone. Her anger was just too much and while scattering her items and the items in the room, many teachers were watching her. They were not ready to calm her down, but wanted to wait to see her best actions before taking her out or dealing with her.

Now, I have some ways I can deal with such a child.

• Flogging: According to God's words the best is to use cane and remove that madness in her mind as it is said in the Bible that spare not the ride and spoil the child. So, it is better to use cane to flog her to correct her senses. In another way, flogging is not adopted in schools, so one can also use another method, except if the child is at home.

My child cannot try such madness but must ensure to be quiet or else, I have to discipline her by using cane.

• Watching from a distance allow the child to vent the anger in her but making sure she does not injure herself/classmate. The teachers initially left her alone to kept on with her anger before looking for solution to correct her. So, such child must be kept and left alone to act, and after acting, comes next will be punishing.

• Ask her or investigate the cause of her anger and venting. As a teacher or a parent, seeing your child in this condition supposed to make you to call her to know the true reasons she has this kind of behavior.

  She might have one or several reasons to have put up this act.

• After the venting and cooling, make her clear, clean, sweep and rearrange all the mess she has done without leaving a pin. This will make her to get a little sense because she has overreacted. No one will help her to pack those mess she has done, so she has to pack those things herself or else, she will be made to sleep in the mess just like that.

• Sit her down and make her realize what she has done, and tell her the parents will be responsible for all the damages she has caused. Remember she is not at home, but in the school, so you must make her to know what she has done so that she will not try that again. As a teacher, you wouldn't want others to see what she has done because there are many who will copy her behavior. So, take her to where you can give her lots of advice to calm down her brain.

• After that, let her tender apology to the whole class in front of the class, especially the teacher. This will make her know the wrong she has done and will also make others who have seen her not to copy her rude and unruly behavior. So, she must apologize to everyone in her class and will also give round the offices to apologize to the teachers one after the other.

• Let her be isolated, sit alone for about two days without anybody interacting or any form of interaction, but her class work and activities should not be affected. This is a character that demands proper isolation so that next time she will learn the effect of what she has done. Isolation should be the best option.

By the end of the isolation, she should have realized the usefulness of human relation and the effect of 5minutes madness in her.