Do you think someone likes you?

I met a person today and I ran to my close friend. I think I like someone. He likes me too. I am aware of this. So how did I find out? How does someone treat me when they like me? how do i start to behave when i like it. Can the other person understand this?

This behavior has been carried and passed on to us from our ancestors, until the modern age we live in, through the genes we have carried since the primitive times. I'm talking about prehistory, when men shared roles as "Hunters" and women as "Gatherers". The hormones secreted in the brain of a man who is essentially hunting while trying to ensnare his prey with various tricks and tactics, these are cortisol, which is the stress hormone; After all, at the beginning of the relationship, this hormone is secreted at a high level, as it carries the risk of rejection. Secondly, testosterone, the male hormone; we can interpret this as a desire for reproduction and the continuation of our species.

The male who wants to catch his prey will be very careful, attentive and thoughtful. During the first meeting, he will draw a profile that is curious, tries to get to know you by asking questions, and does his best to make you comfortable. Also, his body language will give him away. The first clue is that if he is smiling all the time, but this is really unstoppable, it will be very natural for him to smile. Second, if the pupils are dilated. Third, if he is leaning towards us with his body. Finally, we can look at his shoulders and feet, if possible, because the direction the shoulders and toes point is directly concerned with us. We can also evaluate it this way, let's say that the person we think he likes met a friend, let's take a look at it at that time.

According to the latest research, when we like a person, we release the hormone adrenaline, and the release of the hormone adrenaline can only be measured with minutes, which shows that it does not last for months, that is, it is instantaneous. If we continue to be interested in this person for months, it means that our brain has started to secrete the hormone dopamine. If the interest in the same person spreads over the years, then the oxytocine hormone is secreted in our body, which means that the lifespan of this hormone is three years at the most. After three years, the same person does not continue to produce hormones at the same intensity. Now, the process of connecting two people, which is the task of hormones, is over. After that, people's understanding, friendship, support, conversation and fun come into play. The relationships of people who enjoy each other and continue to admire each other go to that dimension and the life of the relationship will be long.

What are the signs that attract men and women and show they like it?

When an interested person comes near that person, their heart rate increases, their face turns red and clumsy (possibly shaking hands out of control). In order to suppress this situation, that person enters the state of speaking very quickly and without being silent. He might make some weird nonsense from time to time, but that shouldn't surprise us because he'll notice his situation too, and it might turn into a laughter between us.

As for the signs of being affected; After the images of women, men are most affected by their tone of voice and speaking style. Women, on the other hand, are more attracted to men with deep and full voices.

Men are drawn to hard-won women. As for the reason, the process of seducing the other person is much more intense. For a man who works hard, the person in front of him gains much more value. Women want to be persuaded by the person they like. She wants to be sure that she will be trusted, respected, protected, and loved.

If a man cannot reach the woman in front of him every time he wants, he wants the other person more. Women, on the other hand, want to see constant attention from the man they like.

People who like each other want to share very private information about themselves. If they explain the reasons for their separation from their last lover or spouse, which they did not share with anyone despite having just met, this shows their special feelings for the person in front of them.

Another sign of liking is the state of constantly playing with any object while talking to the person he is interested in. For example, constantly turning or taking off the ring on his hand, opening and closing the zipper of the jacket on it, or constantly playing with his hair.

When we talk to the person we like, we do the same movements without realizing it. If the head of the person we like is tilted to one side, we tilt our heads in the same direction. If he keeps one hand on his face and the other on the table, we can catch ourselves repeating that movement in the same way. But we should definitely not stand with our arms folded in front of the person we like. Because this posture gives a signal to the person that we are closed.

Another important sign is that he's more attracted to a woman who laughs at a man's joke. Having the same sense of humor brings people closer together.

The feeling of approaching and touching the person we like is very natural. But the occasional touch of our shoulder is friendly. The issue that we need to pay attention to here is that if the person in front of us compliments us by touching our hand or arm lightly or holding it for a short time, saying "How sweet or humorous you are" and at the same time looks into our eyes, it means that he likes us badly.

I would like to share an important detail while it is here. If we want to make it clear that we want someone we like, not as a friend, but as a lover, we can gently touch the top of his back from the middle of his shoulders to the end of his neck while passing by him or to say something. This gesture will give the other person the sign that we secretly like him.