My motherhood journey

Blog 43
Date :March 20,2022 
Time :3:40pm

Motherhood might be tiring but we all know that it's all worth it. Seeing our kids happy makes us happy too. Being a mom doesn't end even stop if they grow older.

I had my 1st born when I was 18 years old. Being a single mom is really hard but God has given me a very wonderful daughter. In short di Siya iyakin nung baby pa Siya, I don't have to experience sleepless nights. She will only cry for a while if she wants to latch. My daughter was breastfed. She had her first tooth when she was four months old. I never had any problems when she was teething. She had watery poops but everything was okay. She had all her teeth when she was 19 months old. She learns to walk when she turns 1 year old. She learns to talk fluently when she was around 18 months old. She doesn't cry when she's sleepy and She doesn't cry when she wakes up. I might be a single mom at that time but God bless me with a wonderful daughter. God never gave me a hard time taking care of her. She never had tantrums. She knows when I am mad at her. She will stay away from me for a while before she will hug me and ask me if I am still mad at her. At the early age of 2 or 3, she knows that a no is a no. She's very obedient. She always to what I've said. For now, she's already 14 years old turning 15 this June. I wish that she will continue to be kind and respectful to everyone.

However, after I got married I had another kid. A baby boy. When I was pregnant with my 1st born I want to have a baby boy but then God gave me a baby girl than with my 2nd baby I wish I will have a baby girl but God gave me a baby boy. See? How God works. Anyway, the reason why I don't want to have a baby boy is that my husband is hard-headed, pasaway, barkadista, palainom, and most of all he doesn't listen to anyone. I am afraid that my baby will have the same traits as his father. Anyway, when Baby Zee (my baby Boy) was still an infant, super iyakin (he loves to cry) when his teeth are growing he's too fussy and he's too iyakin. My husband and I mostly have sleepless nights especially if Baby Zee is not feeling well. Baby Zee was more than one month old When I got back to work. I had to buy him formula milk. I still continue to breastfeed him until she he is 7 months old. As much as I wanted to breastfeed him till 2 years old but my breast milk was slowly gone. Due to stress and bughat (don't know the term in English) because of my husband. Remember he loves to drink. We always had a fight. For those who still didn't know Baby Zee has Asthma. We knew when he was 13 months old. We knew from his pediatrician. So every time he had his asthma attack he will have a hard time breathing and the only way to make him feel better is to use his nebulizer. Anyway, I bought that nebulizer using my noisecash earnings. Every time he have his asthma attack, we always had sleepless nights. He is being so irritable and fussy at night. He will just keep on crying. Honestly. I had a hard time adjusting because I never experienced this with my Daughter. Anyway, I believe the big difference between a breastfeeding baby and the one who is not. My daughter doesn't get sick easily when she's still a baby till she becomes a toddler. Unlike my son who's been sick every now and then. Do you know any vitamins that you can recommend for my son? He doesn't eat that much every meal. He's a picky eater. He is more into milk. He still drinks milk 5-6 times a day. Since I am at work 6x a week I don't have much time to monitor or to witness the progress of my son.

Ending thoughts

Being a full-time mom is really hard and being a working mom is never been easy too. Been into both and I will always treasure those moments with my kids. I will try my very best to spend more time with them as kids grow up faster. I want my son to enjoy his childhood and my daughter to enjoy her teenage life.

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