If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?

Blog 76-5th
Date :May 06,2022
Time :2:20pm

Choosing someone you want to be with forever is not easy. You have to be sure of everything or you might end up like in my situation.

So this is the last part of the questions I wanted to answer. For those who are interested to see the list of the 53 questions just click it here.

Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner and why?

No, even if I already fall out of love with my husband it doesn't mean I want to break up with him. I still want our marriage to work out. It will take time and it takes two to tango so I hope he will do his part.

Will you lie for the sake of your partner’s happiness and how do you define the line?

I will never lie to him just to make him happy. As a blunt person, I tell him what I feel and what I wanted to say.

 Are you in a relationship only because you enjoy the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared about?

I wanted to feel loved and cared but sad to say my husband stops showing love and care to me. I wish he could think about how our relationship started, how he made efforts to pursue me.

Does this partner make you forget the painful feeling of your previous relationships?

No, He just makes me remember all the pain I've been through before. I've experienced the same pain that I feel before.

Do you look forward to your future with your partner?

Yes, especially since we already have our child. I have to think about what is best for our family.

Have you thought about marrying your partner? (If you two have already married, do you remember why you had that thought of marrying your partner?)

As far as I remember, I've been pushing my husband away when our wedding is getting nearer, I told him no one force him to marry me. I don't want him to tie the knot with me just because I am pregnant.

Are you willing to compromise your happiness for a successful relationship?

Yes, I am always willing to compromise my happiness just to make our relationship successful. I know it will require a lot of hard work and effort but I just really hope that we will end up being in love with each other again one day.

When it comes to the future, do you and your partner have the same relationship goal?

I guess no because we barely talk about our relationship. If I told him that he forgot that he has a wife that needs his attention,that needs his love and care, he just told me, "ug magsweetsweet rata ug magsige ug labing labing dili na makaon nato"(if we just stay sweet to each other and show affection, we can't eat it?)I didn't ask him to be with me all day, all I need is his free time and his affection for me. Of course, I know we can't eat being sweet or showing affection. But how can a relationship work if there's no love and affection at all?

Are there more joyful moments than sad ones being together?

Too bad we have more sad ones being together for more than 2 years. I just felt happy when our relationship just started. But I still hope that we can start over again and be happy together.

What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?

Sharing would make someone happier. Sacrificing doesn't make me happy but I just hope one day, my sacrifices will all be worth it.

 If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?

Heck No. I wanted to be with someone who truly understands me. Someone who always has time to listen to me. Someone who will always show his affection for me, his love and care.Someone who exerts an effort to know more about me.Someone who doesn't judge me just from simple things that happen.Someone who will never get tired of understanding me.Someone who will remind me that I am more than enough.

Closing thoughts

I guess this is the end of all the questions I tried to answer. I know most of you wonder why I still stay with my husband despite the situation that we have, all I can say , sometimes we need to sacrifice our happiness just for the sake of the happiness of our kids. I was a single mom for 13 years and I know how hard for my daughter to grow up without her father, as a mom I don't want my son to experience the same thing as his sister. My son's happiness is more important than mine.

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