How did I meet my husband?

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Date :December 07,2021
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This is a story of how I met my husband and how our love story started. Our relationship is not the typical type of relationship. So here's how it started.

I am working in a computer shop and he was one of my customers.

My workplace

Since we also offer ID pictures, He went inside the Cafe and ask if I can take a 2X2 ID picture of him. He is a very friendly person. He was smiling while talking to me and the silly side of me was thinking like do I know him why he is acting like we know each other. Anyway, when I was about to take pictures of him he told if I can make him a bit lighter as he looks darker and I just smiled. Take picture of him and print it out then he leaves. A few days after He was back at the Cafe, He wanted to use a computer, I told him to wait and don't press anything but then he turn off the avr so I scolded him, told him that he was not listening, he was sorry for what he did, he even called me Ate(older sister). Later did I realized He was my customer the other day. I felt bad about what I did though.

The reason why we meet

Then few days after he was rushing to go back to the Cafe and told me to Laminate his ID. By the way, he just started working as a GIP(Government Intern Program) in our municipal hall. It's a short-term job only for 2 months. Anyway back to what happened. He was back after 3 days because after I laminated his ID He realized he forgot to sign it and write the important details at the back of the ID. He just left his ID at the Cafe at that time because he was in hurry to go back to work. That was the afternoon when he decided to Pick up his ID. After that, I added him to Facebook since I know his name.

Then we started chatting then sometimes he will drop by at the Cafe just to say hello. Funny about him is He used to talk to me in Tagalog and I don't like to speak Tagalog it's not that I don't know how to but I just find it OA when someone who literally pure Bisaya (our dialect) and they will talk to me in Tagalog.

Since we're already chatting on messenger He started courting me but I told him that I am in a relationship at that time. Yes, I have a Canadian boyfriend. He was been my boyfriend since the year 2013 (Another story about him LOL). So I told him if he is willing to take risks there will be us. He still pursues courting me. So after courting me for almost 2 weeks we are finally official.

That was September 20, 2019.

our conversation in messenger

Three days after I said yes He invited me to visit their house as he wants me to meet his family.

Messenger conversation

LOL Imagine only 3 days. So I got the chance to meet his family. His mom knows me already maybe because I work at the computer shop. But I'm sure you will be shocked at what happens next.

Sept 23,2019

Something happens to us that night (I go to their house after my work) At first I don't want to because it was too early but then still it happened. Fast forward to that night. He always visits me at my parent's house and we just love to spend time talking. His house is just a few minutes away from where I live but the road going to their house is a bit scary as you have to pass a jungle so I told him maybe he can visit me once a week so it won't be a hassle for him to travel at night then he agreed. But then I was the one who keep visiting and sleeping in their house. I wanted to be away from my parent's house as my dad was always drunk and too annoying when his drunk. In short, going to my husband's place was my sort of escape from all the dramas at my parents' house. It continues to be that way until the month of October.

Since my husband's place is just near to Bugwak Spring we use to spend our morning time swimming there.

captured in Bugwak Spring

The road going there is really rough and very stiff. I have my own motorcycle so it's easier for me to travel and my husband still has his motorcycle at that time. After going through that daily morning routine of going to the Spring I felt something strange in my pelvic area. It hurts a little bit but I taught it's just my period was coming so I didn't mind it. But then I realized what I am I am pregnant since it's been more than a month after my last period so I told my husband to buy a test kit because If ever I am pregnant I wanted to take care of my baby.

The Pregnancy test result

November 1 was early in the morning when I did the test and yes it's positive I am pregnant. My husband was really happy that time I told him the result. Then he told his family that He will be a dad soon. That's how excited he is. Then a few weeks after his family decided to (Mamanhikan) so my parents will know and they want to settle down. Wait wait. Hey, things happen so fast. We're just in more than a month relationship and they talking about marriage. Whew. The Pamamanhikan happened and was successful. We are just supposed to have a civil wedding because they can't still afford to have the church wedding. They agreed that the reception will be at my husband's place. But the plan was changed as my aunt who lives in Singapore wants us to have a church wedding. She was the one who ask my other relatives to help me with the expenses of the wedding yes it's not the typical kind of wedding though. My relatives sponsor almost everything from the cakes and desserts, decorations, whole entourage outfits, giveaways, the lechon, the wedding photographer. Food for everyone was taken care of by the family of my husband. We got married on January 18, 2020, just 4 months after we got officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

Here are some animation pictures from our Wedding

However, our relationship was never been smooth sailing, we almost broke up for how many times as we always had misunderstandings. We were still in our knowing each other stage in our relationship at that time. In the early stage of our relationship, my husband made a lot of mistakes and makes me decide not to pursue the wedding. But we still end up marrying each other.

In conclusion, it's not about how long you know that person or how long you are in a relationship with him/her but how willing you are to take the risk. We choose to love and accept each other's differences. We might not be a perfect couple, we fight and had misunderstandings but at the end of the day, we still choose to be together and tried our best to be the best for each other. Each one of us has a different love story. Mine was a bit unique though.
How about you? How did you meet your husband?
Are you also in a short or long-term relationship before you got married?

Meet our son Elijah Ziel "baby zee"

Anyway, this article is originally written by yours truly and it's been checked by https://www.duplichecker.com/ and it's 100% unique

Photos used in this article are all owned by yours truly.

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Comments

I don't want to say much as this was written 10 months ago. Much better than your first born experiences I assume. I will say this with confidence you were a beautiful bride!!

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2 years ago

I had a better and happy life when I was a single mom.

Thank you

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2 years ago

I can say the same. I lost so many friends getting married.

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2 years ago

super que des belles histoires que j aime oui DIEU et son temps et ses merveilles .....happy sunday

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2 years ago

This is really a very lovely story, I wish you both a good future.

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2 years ago

Thank u for dropping by Trofi01

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2 years ago

Wonderful story sis. Naiyak ako haha oa ako pero true. Nakakatouch ang pagmamahal ng asawa mo sayo.. Keep the love burning sis,

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2 years ago

thank you so much for dropping by sis..aww sorry to make u cry

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2 years ago

Awww🥰 ganun talaga siguro pag meant to be sis. Ang ganda ng wedding nyo. And magkahawig din kayo ng husband mo. Hope maging strong and loving pa yung relationship nyo together..

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2 years ago

Sakto gyud ka sis.Kami jud ang gitadhana ky unexpected gyud ang tanan.Salamat sis.Mao sad na akong hope nga unta iguide mi Ni God para mas mulig on pa ang among kaminyoon.

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2 years ago

Uso naman ron ang dili typical na love story. Heheh! kay sa ako pod sa Thailand man mi nag meet. nauna pa akong panganak sa 2 ka bata before pa na minyo. Thanks covid.

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2 years ago

Wow. Murag nice pud na imong love story sis bah

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2 years ago

Hmm this is another story about you. Weren’t you scared that you were pregnant? Even before marriage? What about the other kid you had before this one? Did you husband accept the kid?

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2 years ago

Wow I'm pretty sure that you've read my last article. Thank you so much. Honestly I'm happy that I got pregnant as I prayed to have another baby. My son is an answered prayer. (Story to tell about it). Our plan was supposed to build our own house first before getting married and have kids but God gave us our baby boy 1st before we got married and now we are slowly working on the progress of our house. Anyway my husband my 1st born and treated her like his own daughter.

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2 years ago

Awiehhhhehhhhh, bay sinulo agad si bataan hahaha. Pero masaya naman kayo pareho so yiehhhhh. To more years pa sa inyo together 🥰

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2 years ago

Yay ganun na nga sis. Yes sis we work hard for our relationship to work. Thank you sis. Yan din hope ko na we will live a simple yet happy life Sana tumagal pa pgsasama namin

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2 years ago

Wow. Kasweet sa relasyon ui .. Mka heart2x kaayo ang lovestory. Bsan tuod dali lang mo nagka uyab pero wla man gud pod nag base da kadugayon. Hehehe love always prevail. Hehehe congrats sis. Happy married life. 😊😊💕

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2 years ago

Wow salamat kaayo sa pag effort sa pagbasa though taas taas jud siya. Unexpected jud ang tanan pero I'm sure it's all God's plan. And thank you again

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2 years ago

Hehehe way sapayan sis. Padayon lang mo sa paghinigugmaay😊

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2 years ago

Ang sweet baman ng way nyo na magkakilala sis. And tam ka, masyado nga mabilis yun pagpapakasal mo kaya madami kyo misunderstanding na naranasan. But the good thing is that you're still together.

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2 years ago

Thank you sis. Yes we both work hard for our relationship to work and Sana tumagal pa pgsasama namin.

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2 years ago