Have you tried being ghosted?

Blog:164-1st
Date :September 1,2022
Time :4:15pm

I have never known this word if I didn't see a show on television about people who have been ghosted by their partners or lovers.

Then the other day I think I read an article related to ghosting. So I decided to write my experience of being ghosted a couple of times already.

It was the year 2006 when I met the father of my eldest. We started as friends since I had a boyfriend at the time we met. I was in a long-distance relationship at that time. My boyfriend is in Bohol and I was in Cagayan de Oro City.

Then my boyfriend broke up with me. His reason was he is already happy with someone. He even blames me for being away that's why he finds another woman. One is for sure his love is not enough to fight for our relationship. Anyway, let's go back to the father of my eldest daughter. Let's call Him Paul. We fall for each other and become a couple after he courted me for a couple of weeks. He is so sweet and caring. I can feel his love and concern for me. But that love and sweetness were gone when he suddenly ghosted me after a week of being in a relationship. We never had a fight or any misunderstanding. I was left wondering why he suddenly left me hanging. We work in the same but I have never seen him in his workplace. He really tried to hide from me. I tried to contact him but his number is unreachable. I am too shy to ask his workmates about his whereabouts.

Until one time I see him walking on the road, when we were to bump each other, I had no idea what to say or ask. I was speechless seeing him again after he ghosted me. I can't remember anymore what words I said after seeing him but all I remember is I was trying to hold back my tears from falling down my face.

Then I can't remember anymore what happens next. He was the reason why makaingon ko nga dili diay jud basehan ang dagway sa taw if seryoso ba siya or dili nimo.(I can say that you cannot say if the person is serious with you or not base on their physical look).He looks so innocent and respectful. Because of him I always listen to the song "Till my heartaches end". If you wish to listen to the song just click the highlighted text.

Here are some of the lyrics of the song

And then you left without even saying that you're leaving
I was hurt and it really won't be easy to forget yesterday
And I pray that you would stay
But then you're gone and, oh, so far away

See how it hurts? I honestly don't know how did the heartaches end.

Moreover, I experience being ghosted not that once but three times. But the two experiences don't hurt that much unlike the first one since I was numb at that time. It's like when someone hurt me or leaves me, I will never blame them. I usually blame myself because I allow them to hurt me.

That two people who ghosted me were my shortest relationship ever. I only had a relationship with them for just one or two days.

One of them visited me at my parents' place once then after that he never contacts me again and when the time I see him in person he acted like he doesn't know me at all.LOL

Ending thoughts

To be honest, it is better for someone to tell me frankly that they don't want me any more than to just left me hanging. As no one will answer all the questions that were left in my head after that person leaves.

How about you guys? Have you tried being ghosted?

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