Harsh or hurtful words that I've heard from someone special to me

Blog:120-23rd
Date:June 30,2022
Time:03:40pm

I've heard some hurtful words from the people I love and it's really hard to forget what they have said. I think it's more okay if you hear it from someone you didn't know or who didn't know you.

Here are some hurtful words and phrases that I've heard from someone I love.

Hugaw ka!Hugaw ka nga pagkatawo(You are filthy! You are filthy being)

My ex-live-in partner Michael said those words and I slap him hard. Really hard. I honestly can't accept that a person who told me that he loves me, can say those hurtful words. I told him, O,hugaw ko pero kaning hugaw nga giingon nimo maoy nagpakaon ug nagsuporta sa imong mga kinahanglan(yes I am filthy, but this filthy person is the one who feeds you and supports your needs.)

Moreover, I thought that Michael is the last person will gonna call me filthy but then my dad also call me filthy. It hurts me more because he is my father. He should know me better. Of course, I didn't slap my dad. I just cried so hard not knowing why they have to call me that way. Yes, I have had different relationships before but do they have the right to insult me that way?

Hugaw ka!Hugaw paka sa tae(You are filthy! You are filthier than the poop)

Oh diba!Filthy nga ako.Ito naman yung sinabi ni mother earth sa aking nung nalaman niyang nakipagrelasyon ako sa isang lalaking may asawa na.Alam ko mali kaya di na ako umimik.

Where is your brain? Do you have a brain?

I heard those phrases from my ex-boyfriend whom I had just met online. I never meet him in person. We were talking about the job he wanted to offer me, it has a good salary yet I can't just trust him and leave my current job that's why he told me where is my brain and Why I am not accepting his offer.

Akoy naghimo nimong tawo.Di ka mahimong ing ana ug di pa tungod nako(I am the one who made you like human,if not because of me you will never be like that)

Ano daw?Ano ba kasi ako nung nakilala mo?Tao naman ako ah. Anyway, my ex-lesbian partner told me those phrases when I broke up with her. It's like I owe her a lot.Though siya naman yung inabuso kabaitan ko ,para akong maid nung nagsasama kami.Gageeh siya.

Boang na siguro ng tawo nga mahigugma nimo(If someone gonna love you he must be crazy)

This is the funny one kasi the person who told me this is my ex boyfriend tapos nung sinabi niya sa akin yun andun yung taong in love na in love sa akin inshort yung new boyfriend ko ,di naman kasi alam ni ex na bf ko yung kasama ko.

Anyway ganun naba ako kasamang tao kasi nasabi niya yun?Mabait naman ako ah at mapagmahal kaya dami ko ng minahal .Ahehehe.

Hilas pud ka mura pud ka ug perpekto di raba(You thought you are perfect but you are not)

Luh!Sino my sabi sayo na perfect ako?Yan pala sinabi ni hubby nung nag away kami .Bakit sino bang maysabi sa kanya na perfect ako.Oo nga I am not perfect pero I did everything para sa family namin.

Sorry pero gikapoy nako nimo.Di nako kaagwanta anang imong baba.(Sorry,but I feel tired of you.I can't take you being so talakera)

Hala! Siya pa ang napagod.Sa mga avid readers ko dito I know Alam niyo na sino nagsabi sa akin nito.My article pa nga ako about it eh.Ako na nga yung umintindi sa ugali niyang hirap intindihin at ako na nga ang nagsackripisyo pero bakit siya pa ang napagod?

Ending thoughts

I guess that just all the hurtful words that I've heard base lang din sa naalala ko.Mostly kasi pag mga ganung salita need ng kalimutan para di na bumalik ang sakit.Though tanggap ko naman lahat ng mga pang alipusta nila sa pagkatao ko.I don't know if I really deserve it kasi my mga kapalpakan naman talaga akong ginawa sa buhay ko pero I think no one has the right to insult someone kasi di naman kasi nila alam yung mga reasons ko sa lahat ng naging decisions ko sa life.

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