#21th
April 23,2022

Use your Power wisely

The truth is, women are powerful when it comes to the stage of courtship. We are the ones who hold the key to the door of our hearts. We will decide whether we will give our sweet "Yes" to our lover. situation and don't just give the key, because we might give it to a thief or an unreasonable person. This stage is important in our lives. If we are not careful, we will be tortured by men when they become part of our lives. if you type the guy, let him polish his armor a little bit more for it to shine.

Know your negotiables and no-negotiables

It is said that love breaks our standards for our future partner. But you will always get what you settle for.On a sheet of paper,make two columns where you would write the following :

Things you cannot compromise (Non-negotiables),and can compromise (minor-issues).There is always an exception for the one you love. Non-negotiable things are the things that are a BIG DEAL to you because they will affect a large part of your life. There are women who don't want to marry a smoker because they have asthma or breathing problems. Negotiables are things you can miss because they don't matter that much to you (i.e. skin color and nose).

Don't be hopeful

Some ladies do power trips sometimes. They have a lot of boys toys. Let's not make milking cows (i.e. just to get you free of what you want) men. They also know how to get hurt. Straightforward to say if you don't like a man. The pain is more severe if you will prolong their efforts then nothing will happen. Direct the lovers. They will be discouraged but they will not die.

Don't get too serious too Soon

Many women are super excited to fast forward the relationship and plan for the future, why prolong it if that's where it's going, right? FAIL! Gradually, the aggressive woman can turn off another man once in a while. She's only been dating for three weeks but she wants to talk about the future, how many children she will have and where to honeymoon. It's easy. Get to know each other first.

Don’t entertain men with gallows and unbelievers

Close your heart to men who already have a GF/wife. that's a big headache. Many women who dated married men usually wasted lives. for committed christians, the 6:14 principle is non-negotiable. those who do not love the lord should not be on the list.

Unbelievers say that it is "discrimination" for Christians to reject unbelievers as marriage mates. They are still hurting. They are not strong enough to understand that the pain they will feel will be more severe if the lord rejects them. Because they do not believe in him.

Be a sherlock Holmes

ask questions about the character of the person teasing you. Find out if he is sober and really boyfriend/husband material. Beware of negative signs. See how he gets along with other people. if you can't trust him in small things, don't expect that he is easy to trust on the big issues of your life. Also listen to the exes of the lover, when many of his relationships say that he is a "Jerk", they may not say yes because they are jealous of you, but he is really a jerk.

Marriage should be the goal of dating

It must be clear to you that the relationship is a preparation for courtship. Why would you go astray if you have no intention of marrying a man? Pity the young man if you just enjoy being her bf but you have no plans to face the altar with him. it's good to just woo the woman he's ready to be with for life.

Top five signs that he like's you

• 5. There is a special treatment for you that he does not do to other girls.

• 4.He always texted/called you to say hello or chat.

• 3. He wants you to walk with him (with barkadas or just you exclusively)

• 2. With effort there is always time for you even if he is busy.

  And Lastly,

• 1. he immediately tells you that he likes you.

Thank you for reading !

#21th

April 23,2022