I found A New Friends/Fam (JMF)
May 26,2022
#35 Blog
Have a wonderful day everyOne.Im back again ,Please don't forget to eat lunch,me I'm always late eating lunch because we also ate breakfast so late , because my baby and I are awake 9am or 10 hehehe.so sometimes she doesn't sleep at noon because what time does she wake up. she only sleeps when I fight him. 🤣
***Back to My topic***
Yesterday i decided to Download starmaker App.I just want to try it even though i am not Good in singing.Maybe there's nothing wrong with me trying, right?.It's my 2nd day now to use the starmaker app, I feel happy because even before I was there I met a lot of people, they added me to their group.They teach me what to do because everyday there are tasks to do.but I'm ashamed of them because their voices are very nice .They are all good in singing!How i wish i can also.I want to learn to sing but the song doesn't seem to like me hahaha.
I am doing the task everyday so that i can also contribute to their Group.
***Watch vedios***
you need to watch ads vedios 4 times so that you can claim silver coins and Exp.
***Give likes to the post of your partner,bro,bestie or confidant***
You need to visit a post of your friend and give them a Likes to support them.
***Post a cover or a Picture***
here you can sing, you just choose the song you want, then when you're done singing, you can just post a picture, our Captain said, it's better to post a song so that your level will increase quickly.
***Send gifts to a Family Member***
Here in this task, you will give a gift to your friend, the coins you get from the tasks everyday, and the ones that are still used. Exchange the gift while you are collecting, you have accumulated coins.
***Watch Live streaming for 5 minutes***
You just need to visit Live streaming for 5 minutes you can also interact with them I'm doing I'm requesting a song from them so I won't be bored hehehe need because finish 5 minutes to finish the task.
I have a task I haven't done yet because I need to accumulate 100 gifts from them. I need to go to Pr and then you can select the song. Even if I don't sing, as long as I have a song selected, it's ok because I can see of others and someone also gives a gift. It's good that my kind captain let me into his Pr to be able to do the Task.
They are sending me gifts here even im Not singing hahaha,I really need to accumulated 100gifts.I am so much thankful to have them they are so kind to me.I'll just practice here,.They laugh at me because I said it might rain when I sing hahaha.
I end it up here ,cause they are Calling me they want me to join there live my Gosh 🤣but anyway i dont want to sing i just want to join there Live and become one of their supporters.!
"Stop Saying Sorry For"
May 24,2022
#34 Blog
Hello everyone i hope you all is In a good condition today,Earlier ive watch news and sadly another new virus is spreading now called *****"MONKEY FOX"*****..Its scary covid isnt even gone yet and now a new virus appeared again?huhuhu.When will this suffering end,i really miss old Life.I hope it doesn't spread anymore,So please Let's all be careFul.Lets follow the protocols and Also avoid going to crowded places.lets be doubly careful for our safety!
***Back To my Topic***
****Stop Saying sorry For****
***Being busy and Owning your time***
Being busy and owning my time is a natural ,Like me as a mother of course my all attention is always at my Child,its ok if i run out of time everyday as long as i take good care of her.
***Setting boundaries for your self***
I know to myself how far i can really go,like if i want something but i know i cant do it ,i just didnt force myself.Because someday it will come,like the one you like or you want will you get it,so you dont need to force yourself you need to wait.As long as you're willing to wait,you'll get what you want.Everything has a limit.
***Not being perfect always***
Everyone is not perfect we all make mistakes don't we?
And i accept it,Actually there are also others who think they are perfect.I admit that i have done many mistakes and i do not hide it.We are only human beings who make mistakes.
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***Crying or showing Emotions***
Im very Related this,because im a "Iyakin Person"Hahaha,likes when someone told me a word that i dont like or looks likes they are angry at me ,it makes me cry!Even when i watch dramas and then the crying part of story,im also shedding tears hahaha.So sometimes i dont watch dramas when im with my husband cause he laughs at me when he sees my tears Fall.He teases me even more.So i just avoid watching.
I also remeber when i was a sales lady at a Bakery before i was at night shift that time.A man approached,he was known to be there in that place because that man was too vicious. 1Am at that time they were drinking near at the store .When they ran out of alcohol,he came to the store and told me that he would borrow first.But i didnt give it to him because my Boss might be scold me.
And i was shocked because the man suddenly punched the wall.I was so scared at that time ,i just cried in fear.Good thing that our baker man was there inside His sleeping ,and i woke him up ,because i didnt know what to do anymore .What i did is i hide inside i am really afraid to that man .I wouldn't come out i waited to that person to leave first.
Thats all for today ,thank you guys for reading!
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11:35
Conversation with My Mother Yesterday
May 23,2020
How are you friends? I haven't written for a few days. But now I'm forcing myself to make an article hehehe I can't concentrate but I'll still try.
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Yesterday my Mother chatted with me. She wanted us to be able to make a video call, the only problem was that they couldn't handle the signal there because it was very weak. even when sending a message, it was difficult for her to send.
If they want a strong signal, they need to go to a place with a strong signal. They also have a place to stay called "tambayan" in tagalog.Most of our neighbors go there because the signal is strong. others do they just bring food when they go there because it's far from home.
And because Its far from home, mama doesn't go there anymore because she's not with anyone so she's just at home. I don't know why the signal is so weak there with us. It's on a high mountain. But the signal is difficult.!
May 16,2022 fiesta there in our Mama told me that they didn't cook much anymore because papa and she were the only ones at home. But they bought some meat so that somehow they would have something to cook for lunch and maybe someone would come. At noon that they were just surprised because there were guests coming. Mama laughed because she hadn't cooked at that time hahaha.So she quickly seemed to cooked.Those who went there were said to be our cousins on my grandmother's side. They were just next to our Brgy.
So that's it and since mama doesn't have any food to serve for her guests yet, what she did was she gave them the microphone and she said,
*"Here's the microphone, song first while there is no food because I'm just still cooking".mama said to them!*
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When they finished eating, they sang again and it was papa who said he was embarrassed so he had no choice but to borrow some drinks/Alak for their guest.It seems that mama didn't really prepare for that time.Mama didn't really expect anyone to go because last year's fiesta didn't go there because the covid cases were very active at that time so people were afraid to go somewhere else but now it's pretty quiet there.when we were still in the province during the fiesta, we were really preparing for the arrival of the fiesta.
Every Year may sinasalihan sila ni mama na paluwagan duon,Ang makukuha nila ay karne para panghanda sa fiesta.
But this year they didnt join ,We already told them that we cant go Home.l've really missed life in province hays.Seems likes i want to go home!but we still need to save to get home soon, we also plan, maybe next year we'll also go home there, mama also requested. so that she can also see personally her grandchildren.!So i really hope that we can go home soon next year.
While mama and I were talking via Chat, she suddenly asked me if I wasn't pregnant yet hahahaha. *I told her I can't do that yet because I'm a Cesarian and it's okay to have 1 child first because life is hard.*
and she answered "
*said you should have more children while it's still early!!! hahaha.*
I really laughed at mama's answer to me. She also asked me this before and she asked me again!!! hahaha.........she also told me that he wanted me to take my daughter home to the province so that they could take care of her ,wala kasi sila kasama duon sila lang dalawa ni papa sa bahay.so they want to take care of their grandchildren so they have someone with them there.!
*I'LL end it up here ,thanks for reading!And Have a good day!*
At biglang Bumuhos ang Malakas na Ulan
Magandang araw sa Lahat kamusta kayo dito mga Friends.Tagalog muna ako today kay nahihirapan ako mag english hahaha!mahirap talaga pag hindi magaling sa English saklap.
Umulan din ba ng Malakas sa inyo kahapon?dito kasi sa umaga palang makulimlim na at pagdating ng Tanghali ayun bigla ng bumuhos ang napakalakas na Ulan may kasama pang Kulog at kidlat na malakas.Ang anak ko nga takot na takot.
Naghahanda na ako ng pagkain para sa tanghalian.Lumabas muna ako saglit kasi sumilip ako sa labas .Ang asawa ko naman ay pumunta sa kusina kasi may kinuha siya ,buti nalang nakita niyang may pumasok na tubig sa may kusina namin.Subrang Lakas talaga ng tagas ang bilis bumaha sa kusina .Buti nahugot agad ang extension .nako Kung hindi natanggal kuryente ang abot.
Tumakbo agad palabas ang asawa ko para tignan sa may Likod .Kaya pala pumasok ang tubig kasi nasira ang alulud sa labas.Buti at naayos agad,Ang iniisip ko pano nalang kaya kung Kami lang dito ng anak ko nako baha talaga sa loob ng bahay.Kasi hindi ko alam panu ang gagawin.Imbis kakatapos niya lang maligo nong time na yon ,no choice siya ligo ulit sa Ulan hahahah.
Pasalamat nalang talaga ako at ang asawa ko .Pagkatapos maayos ng asawa ko ang nasirang alulud sa kumain muna kami saka ako naglinis sa kusina dami kasing tubig na nakapasok sumakit likod ko kakawalis ,hahahaah.Habang ang anak ko naman nanggugulo sakin ,kaya ang tagal ko natapos sa paglinis.Kaya kahapon pahinga ako kaka celphone kasi naglilinis ako😆.
Sana naman wag na maulit yung pangyayari na iyon nakakatakot huhuhu lalo na pag kami lang dalawa dito!
Ang bilis din bumaha sa ibang lugar kahapon dahil sa subrang Lakas ng Ulan.
Akala ko kanina Uulan na naman Kasi makulimlim na naman ulit at umambon na naman .buti hindi tumuloy Ngayon ang init na naman.!
Gusto ko sana maligo kahapon sa ulan kaso napakalakas ng kulog at kidlat kaya di na ako lumabas baka mataan pa ako mahirap na😆.
Paiba-iba ang ihip ng panahon ngayon kaya wag kalimutang magdala ng payong kapag Naalis kayo ng bahay mga kaibigan.
Salamat sa mga Nagbasa ,pasensiya na po kayo ito lang nakayanan ayaw gumana ng utak ko.Anak ko naman nanggugulo na naman tinupak pa .Kahit papano nakakasulat din kagit kaunti!
Happy Hour (Shopee)
hello Have a good day everyone,!
I'm Sorry i haven't been active here,I just didnt really think about what topic to write,it makes my head hurts thinking about what im going to write heheheh,!
Back to my topic-
I only used shopee once Because i preferred to use Lazada.May 2 i open my shopee account and Play pera panalo .I also intrigued by my friends because they always Do (HAPPY HOUR).Send money to shoppee users atleast 50pesos and youve got a play draw to get coins.Every users can only Send 6x .But sadly im always not lucky i always got 1 coins only and the others get 100 coins .
Feels exciting to play this lucky Draw ,But the Result is------
Here they go Ived got 1 coin 🤗its ok to have 1 coin than nothing.Just join in always until you accumulate coins,Accumulating coins is also a big Help.It uses it when you order from the shopee.The last one when i joined the happy hour i got 10 coins well i also accumulated 60 coins.
That was my last join at Happy hour (send money)i didnt join again.Because my friends Shopee account was banned because of doing send Money.Last day i recieved a message from Pera panalo,And send that i won 200 pesos to shopee pay.It makes me happy because i never thought that i would win.Even if its only 200 pesos ,its a big help for me.!
Also a few days before the 200 pesos bonus arrived ,i just recieved it yesterday,it also expired until 15days so i need to use it.!Gotchaa may pang shopping na heheheh.
Last night i thought if i order ,I remember my friend @Chrisline08 so i just looked for milk for her kiddos i supposed to ordered 700g but my Shopeepay amount is insufficient.So i only ordered 450g.I also have free shipping voucher,but only half has been reduced because the shipping cost to them is 100+.
I already ordered hehehe,Im happy that even in a small amount,i can help.Sarap sa feelings when you recieved gratitude from the person being given.Even if im short on budget sometimes but i can handle it as long as our body is strong and Healthy ,also we can completely eat 3 times a day is enough for me.
This is all for today Thank you for reading!
May 15,2022
Love versus Zombies
for four years, my friend Maria (not her real name) thought that her three -year romance with her bf was going straight to the wedding. The wind changed when she felt the heat gradually disappear. of the man's arrogance towards her. He rarely texts her, and dating is rare. He tries to ignore it (maybe just really busy). Until he receives his Bf's sentence that there is no real "spark" of love in his heart.a few weeks passed without communication. The man could not give any reason for the disappearance of love. maria could not imagine that she did something wrong to leave her Bf. She started to struggle with depression. Their love story ended without proper closure. maria was hurt so much, she couldn't concentrate on work and she was overwhelmed by what happened.
Like maria's experience, there are many zombies in the lovelife of many. Other loves do not want to die even if you want to bury them in the deepest part of the ocean. It is said that it is difficult to bury living things. They will rise and rise again and again. They will visit again.
It's torture for many to move on because of good memories that are hard to shake from your brain. It's hard to just throw them in the trash. Separation anxiety kills especially if you've always been together before and it's part of your system to see his face. Mannerisms and even his weaknesses.You have been attached emotionally.Your souls have been cleaved together that you find separation as ripping your whole personality apart.An inevitable effect of separation is the feeling of "bankruptcy" .Feeling you have been robbed of so much time, emotions and money because the relationship lasted but also had no destination.
Love Germs
Sometimes the relationship becomes like a newspaper or magazine publication, Issues multiply! *****Why do so many separate and what are the reasons for separation?*****
**A relationship dissolves because something is Wrong**
*****First*****, there is a wrong perspective and attitude. Entering into a relationship not because you want to get married in the future but to solve immediate needs.
*****second*****, we also make mistakes with the person we love. they are the ones who don't know how to appreciate the love we give. As a rule of thumb, avoid pouring and relying your personality on your partner. save for yourself. Love yourself first. you must realize your worth in the eyes of god.
*****Third*****, there are also wrong times and opportunities. Even if love is right, if it is not in the timing, there will definitely be a problem to follow. it is difficult to insist on something when it is not yet time to bear bitter and bitter fruit.
Falling out of love is a conscious choice.not all relationships end because it is not "lord's will" let's remember that the lord's plan is good for all lovers only and many follow their own will, selfishness prevails and forgets loyalty to the lover so -eend the relationship.
***Caring for a relationship is like growing a plant. You need to water it every day if possible, talk about it so that it will bear fruit easily. When one is tired of showing love and it continues and gets used to it, watch out for death signs. also "germs" that need to be killed in that relationship if we want it to be stable and last.***
Thank you for reading!
Is it Ok for a woman to Make Court a Man?
A girl of eight years when she liked her friend. Now that she has graduated from college, she is now ready to "bring the ship into the shore". Her question is, Is it ok if i told him my feelings? to the man how does she feel? times have changed.Many women no longer believe that they should be the ones approached and wait for the initiative of guys when it comes to courtship.
Maybe they grow old , when they don't want to. So others, start flirting online. To the progressive women I know, they won't hesitate to tell you, *****"can you be my boyfriend*****? Maybe it's not bad for a woman to flirt with a man. were born with equal rights and freedom.this includes suungin the things that will bring happiness to us.I have always maintained that courting is a social construct, a cultural practice.There are some countries like (Bangladesh, india, Sri Lanka ) performs ***ARRANGED MARRIAGE*** that are not acceptable in our culture. It occurs where there are more women and fewer men in the community. One reason why this type of marriage persists is because it is considered an effective way to last. relationship, due to the involvement of the parents in their child’s marriage.
Women give ***DOWRY*** or gifts to the man's family. And when you don't have it, it will be difficult for you to get married. On the other hand, many are relieved because this cultural practice limits the family life of many women. Their slogan : "***I just want you, I don't want dowry***! Only time will tell when this tradition will break.
But this is my advice to Filipinos in the country: You must be sensitive to the culture of your community.
You must be prepared for the consequences that you will take and the stigma that aggression can bring to you.the terms ***"SLUT***" may be applied to you, flirting, or female release. In the current condition of the Filipino culture, it remains ugly in the eyes of many that the woman will crawl to get the sweet "Yes" of the man.
Most filipino men are not approved of women's blatant sarcasm.men call it machismo,but for them courtship is the guy's business .The womans are created adam's ribs.Adam is the one to look for,of his missing rib.This is the supported by the common attitude of many women.Although they declare that they should also have the right to woo,many of them are not willing to do what they say,easier said than done.
**Think girls**,
when you're a lover,can you handle what you do?
Are you ready to free up and pay for food on the date?
Are you ready to pick up the boys at their homes and let the parents know?
can you also give in to the passions of men?
Can your ride with the trip of there life?
you have the decision you must also be ready to be basted!
**NOTE**:
***There also a lot of choosy guys and dont casually give their sweet "YES".Also be ware of guys who are exploitative.Tell your inlive but they will just make you s** playmate.***
Lover's Online
The world has become a much smaller place.You have more choices if you can enter the world of online dating.Now,you just go to the computer/mobile phone and register on a dating website and you can find your future partner.Not everyone looking for partner other is just desperate ,bored with life or just hunting se* buddy.I have some friends who found their significant other through yahoo chat/messenger.They are now happily married although there have been no extensive studies on the impact of online relationships on the resilienceof marriages ,it remains a popular eay to have a relationship.
But we warned,Its hard to have a relationshio through simple text and chat.What you think is the gentlemen/lady in the picture and SMS is probably a bad person in real life.lying is also a trend when answering online match survey-making websites.
We should be aware of several guidelines
****FIRST****, *do not give trust and your personal information while there is no proper relationshio.Remain anonymous until you are sure of the true identity of the person you are talking to.Our technology is so strong now that you think its human,but the truth is its a robot.*
****SECOND****, *go slow dont fall inlove quickly.Many teenagers say that they have fallin inlove with a guy/girl they only met on facebook or forwarded to text them on their celphone.Do not immediately believe the information given to you.Avoid meet-up without knowing fully the personality of the person you are talking online.*
****THIRD****, *there needs to be offline interaction as well.The person you see is still different than the avatar product online.Start getting know each other in online vedio chat and if you ever meet,plan the meet-up properly.The first meeting should be in a public places to avoid bad incidents.Your goal is to get know each other more*.
****OVERALL****,*you need to be careful when using social networking sites(SNS).Be smart and dont be overwhelmed by high-tech scammers.The internet is a juungl,you must know the strategies of survival so that you dont fall prey to bad people in cyberspace*.
Thank you for Reading!
May 4,2022
"The Love Story of Jonathan And Jhona"
Jonathan first felt romantic feelings when he was in 2nd year high school. He was fascinated by the wide eyes and smile of his cute classmate. With the intensity of his emotions, he confessed to the girl. But in that conversation, it gradually dissolved. the young man's heart. Miss Cute said,
***You know, jonathan you're ok with me, you're sweet and smart. But i'd rather have crush on your friend.***
"At that moment, all around him became silent. The sky seemed to darken and pour down heavy rain thunder and lightning.
The young man replied, "***It's ok, I understand. What's important to me is that I can say how I feel."*** When he got home, he quickly lay down on the bed. He took the pillow and put it on his head. And said Its really hurts so much pain! waaaaahh! .that's Jonathan's first tear when it comes to teenage romance.
Seven years later, Jonathan finds himself looking like a nest again. But this is a different level. More serious because he is graduating from college. He wants to have a girlfriend that he will present at the shrine later on. It all started with a joke. .He wanted to be real. The woman with his heart and mind was with him in the campus student organization.
He invited Miss Campus on a friendly date. He even picked up the girl at home and gave her flowers a week before. They ate and talked at the mall. That's the right moment, he confessed to the girl.
*"Is it okay to you*? Miss campus answered in a low voice and explained. Jonathan heard his words again in high school. The girl replied,
" ***You know Jonathan is ok You're ok with me, but I don't see myself getting married because I'm the eldest and I have to help my*** *****siblings***** ***".***
An atomic Bomb fell. Boom! Mushroom cloud. The young man stupidly delivered the girl to their house. .War shocked.
A few weeks later, jonathan had a dream. A dream that will never be erased in his mind. He saw a very beautiful young woman, the churchmate Jhona, wearing a very beautiful dress and carrying a cake. Jhona gave the cake to young man.jonathan knows the meaning of the dream.The cake is a symbol of the maiden's heart. the heart wants the lord to take care of her. What the young man doesn't know is that the girl is also praying to the right man for her. There the lord begins the strange romance in the lives of Jonathan and jhona.
The man called Jhona and told him about his dream. During their more than 30 minutes of conversation, he felt that the girl was also looking at him. Woot! Before that, the two were full of temptation in the church. They were both members of the music ministry. Jhona sang well while the young man was a guitarist. The young man's love for the girl gradually developed. He wrote to jhona. the flesh of his heart.They had a long time to get to know each other when they joined a 4-day retreat camp.There, jonathan freed the girl a cup of noodles, sweet di, right? they are not yet "officially yours" to each other but they seem to be.
The girl is hesitant to answer the young man because he has just recovered from an ended relationship. The man promises that he is ready to accompany jhona until the wound of his heart heals. Because jonathan's love language is gift-giving, he gives her a ube cake as a gift,jhona on her birthday. There, the feelings of the two became even closer. The ube cake has romantic powers.
Jonathan decides to officially woo. but they have an agreement with the woman. the family members have to approve each of their plans. jonathan schedules private meetings with the woman's family he puts the mother first, the sister and siblings follow lalaki.lastly her dad (It's hard, maybe it's simple right away). With the mercy and mercy of god, the parents and siblings agreed. jonathan's parents and siblings had no problem with the girl.
At a church gathering, Jonathan asked the girl,
*"Shall we go? I've been dating you for five months".*
The girl was silent. The young man was getting bored. In his mind, when jhona didn't answer me, there was nothing left, .Bokya really. "The girl was silent.
*"if I don't answer him, he might disappear. I don't want to lose the person I love so much"*.
Before the gathering ended, jonathan took home Jhona's sweet "Yes". Wohooo! Fireworks! That was september 22.
But it's not always a bed of roses for the two to be together. Because of so many immaturities, they fight here, they fight there. They also almost break up a few times. But god didn't want them to be separated. jonathan and jhona that they will never be like dogs and cats again. While serving in the ministry, they both deepened their knowledge of the lord.
After five years since they became “they”. they mentioned the term “I DO” to each other.And the rest,as they say,is History.......
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End it up here ,im not feeling well today .I need to sleep.Today is the last day of April !
#27th
April 30,2022
**Thanks for reading!**
Ived missed My Home town
#26th
April 29, 2022
Hello there read.cash fam ,is everyOne is Okay?I haven't write an article earlier because my Daughter wants to watch youtube Vedios and i have no choice ill give my phone to her.If i didn't give it to her she will cry .But she still crying because the vedio is always loading because the internet is so weak, PLDT is always confusing.She really doesn't want to be bothered while watching needs always continuous.Pity my phone when it's always loading because he throws it away because she feels disgusted.
****Back to my Topic****
Ived really missed my Hometown,how i wish i can.But sadly i can't because we dont have enough money to go home ,Fare is so expensive i cant afford.My sister booked a flight and it's 3500 each person .Haysst Its really really expensive I remember before its only 1200 each person ,but now its already 3500. How i can Afford it especially now its really hard to make earn money ,I dont have work and only my husband is working.He's salary is just right for our daily expenses .pay the water bill, electricity,Internet and Also sent money for his daughter's allowance.It really difficult make Budgetting,especially when there are Lack of money.But its ok for me as long as we can eat completely three (3)times a day it makes me happy.
The fiesta is near at our place on May 15-16, its really fun there if its fiesta , I will never forget .Especially when the night comes because we are excited about the disco hahahah .There are also a lot of guests coming there from different brgy so you will get to know a lot.I remember when we are in disco ,Do you know (Kuratsa dance)? i dont know whats the exact name of that dance hahaha,ill write in it Tagalog language .So ito na nga hahha tagalog muna tayo kasi nahihiraoan na ako,noong nasa discohan na kami ,Madami ng tao ang saya-saya nong time na yun .Sarap sumayaw eh hahaha kahit na hindi naman talaga ako marunong sumayaw ,pero sumasabay padin ako kahit Clap-clap lang hahaha,pinapasama kasi nila ako eh kaya i have no choice .Gusto ko lang naman sana sila panuorin sumayaw ,pero hinihila talaga nila ako.Ang ideya ko umiinum muna ako kahit isang tagay lang hahaha tuba iniinum namin duon sa probinsya.Umiinom ako para kahit papano mabawasan yong hiya ko hahahah.Jusko nakakaloka.
Pero yong iniiwasan ko yong sweet music hahahah pag nagpatugtog na ng love song nagtatago na kami niyan hahaha,kaso kahit nakatago nilalapitan padin eh ,char!!!nakakamiss lang talaga ,yong isa pa pinakaayaw ko yong kuratsa jusmiyo nakakahiya sumayaw pag ikaw lang tapos yong kapartner mo tapos nasa gitna pa kayo ,para akong matutunaw sa titig nila ,Nakakahiya.But i enjoyed it hahahahha.kaya gusto ko umuwi para makaranas ulit ng ganong Eksena kaso sorry nalang kay May anak na akong Sasama pag naalis hahhaha,di katulad dati single Days .Hanggang Alala-alala nalang ako nito.
The next day we bathe in our river there the river is beautiful there people from other places always go there they also want to bathe there.
This is all for today i feel sleepy now i need to rest my eyes .!thank you for reading !!
#26th
"More Post break-up Suggestions"
#25th
April 27,2022
03:22pm
No more Hello
*Initiating break-up requires courage and decisiveness.It is often better to do it sooner rather than Later.Resist the urge to kept in contact.avoid texting even "hello" or how are you ?. the situation will be even more confusing because you can't stand your decision.You will have difficulty starting afresh if you keep on clinging to the past.*
Don't keep the memories
You will not be able to move if you continue to wallow in the memories of the past. Cherish the things that will help you to be a stronger and better person. But discard the things that will make you even more depressed. no matter how much love is given to you, if that makes you worry about bad memories, get rid of it so you don't remember him anymore,like pictures or Etc that you have things from him/her.
Identity High-risk situations
This is when the resentment you feel is really strong. Don't go to places that will remind you of many things (i.e. cinemas, parks or restaurants) that you always go to. You will only hurt yourself more.
Have a support group/emotional outlet
Support groups are important if you want to have quick emotional recovery.when sad and there are cryinf spells, call the friend now you need to be more genuinely concerned with you.Seek emotional help if needed will also help to talk to the formerly broken-hearted who have recovered.You can even join online communities that can help you cope with loneliness.just make sure you know the implications of you will be opening hearts and emotions on social networking sites.
Don't Hurt Yourself
Never think of hurting yourself. You and your loved ones will lose. Especially to others who think of committing suicide, that is very wrong and a great sin against God. There is not only one man/woman in world you can still find someone who will truly love you. We are all going through this test. So the better thing you can do is pray to god and ask that the day will come when you see him. Just focus on the family first and to friends.But sadly there are also people who commit suicide because of love because he loves it so much. When it comes to this situation, you must be strong and don't think badly.
keep yourself PreOccupied
Nothing will happen to you if you lock yourself in a room and always iemo.Maintain your daily routine.Work and pour energy into meaningful things.Don't go through the problem of drinking alcohol because it is not good for your body.you can drink but the right thing is not the same as if you drink it seems like there is no tomorrow. Have transformative travels with your friend.traveling gives you a breather in everything that has happened in your life.You have a time to reflect and plan your life after the painful experience.And All you can Say is *****"Its more fan to be single!".*****
**Don’t be afraid to open your heart again or to love again**
After a considerable amount of time has passed and you have recovered and hopefully from your failed relationships,you may consider meeting people again.You have the right to be happy, to love, and to love again. Allow others to love you. Also allow your own to love again. Remember that love always has risks no matter how careful we are. When playing safe always, nothing will happen to you. ****Have a courage to Love again.****
Thank you For reading!
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**"My Eloading business"**
**Did you play Online Casino?**
**To ladie's who accept Courtship/Lover**
"Me while Watching drama's on (Television)
#24th blog
april 26,2022
Hello to all Read.cash Fam Goodmorning,I would like to have coffee but I just don't want to drink.Kasi nangangasim Ang sikmura ko.But sometimes i take coffee masarap kasi."Masarap kasi Ang Bawal".
I rarely watch dramas on television because I'm purely a cellphone user, I prefer to watch vedios on my mobile phone, so earlier my celphone was battery empty and I need to charge first so I just watched tv. Are you watching widow's web?I didn't follow it in the beginning but this story was good. I just found out Yesterday,hahaha !If my celphone isnt battery empty i wont know and i wont be able to watch this drama maybe it will end this week Im not sure.
So,when while im watching,i didn't realize that my tears were dripping hahahaha(Kaloka tong mata ko)I really dont want to watch drama's because ill cry too when it comes to the crying part.I cant stop my tears from dripping My Gosh!So earlier while i was watching my Daughter was looking at me maybe she wondered why i was crying hahaha,then she took the facetowel that was placed on the chair and gave it to me!Exactly because what i saw was the crying part of the story.Ellen's character was super Galing Kaya mapapaiyak ka nalang talaga!While i was watching i was writing an article too,I immediately thought of the topic when i watched it.Ellen's role is she will do anything to free her boyfriend from imprisonment because she doesn't believe that her boyfriend is Guilty.So she did everything to find out the truth.
And i hate's Barbara's ROLE ,especially when he said that the people in the hospital were stupid because it was just a simple question that could not be answered. annoying, so sometimes it seems like I don't want to watch this insulting scene because I'm also affected hahaha because I'm serious about watching.even though I know that's not true because it's just a story .but in real life there are also people with the same attitude, porket Mayaman na they are able to trample on poor people .
So I also avoid watching the crying Part when my husband is here haahaha because they will only tease me when they see me crying.
I choose Scary movies to watch than Lovestory or dramas.Panigurado pag drama or lovestory ang pinapanood ko Hindi pa tapos yan namaga na mata ko kakaiyak hahahaha .
**#******Taglish na this!****
And because google translator doesn't want to follow so its just a Tag-Lish ,because somehing else out when i translate google translator is Fooling me,he's teaching me wrong grammar hahaha.Its really hard when you are not good in English because you cant write Continueosly.What can i say to those good in Writing was "****SANA ALL"**** na lang talaga how i wish im One of them but sadly im Not .
I woke up early because my partner was too noisy,good thing that my daughter was not awake, I slept at Late 2:30Am , I enjoyed watching videos, I didn't know the time.I remember I hadn't finished writing the article yet so I finished it now.
End it up here I feel so sleepy and ill be back to sleep .I Feelpain in my eyes while I was typing on my celphone, my left eyes were closed!
Thank you For reading !
#24th
April 26,2022
"My Eloading business"
#23th Blog
April 25,2022
Hello to all im here Again "Zyrel04 at your service wishing you all the best and Keep safe!
It's April 25 already and voting day is comming (Election Day May 9,2022).who do you think is worthy to be our president? We have different decisions so please choose those who can be trusted carefully and can help us.we need someone who is really capable of helping us, like he/she doing it first not just up to words.So goodluck to us Lets just choose Correctly.!
*****Fast forward*****
Back to 2020 i was scrolling at Facebook App then I saw a post promoting her eloading business. so i commented on her post i asked about eloading and its interesting so i told her that i also want to try eloading business.I'm not his friend on Facebook but I trusted her because I really want to try. Fortunately, I asked the legit person first. Because there are also a lot of cheaters pretending that they are activating a number, they are scammer. Payment first kasi sila so if you went to the scammer person, you are really miserable.
It's ok because the activation is 300 pesos, then he has 100 pesos for free load and also has 5 free sim activations.So if you can activate a sim and you use up those 5 free activations, you will get back your investment of 300.when you activate sim you also charge 300 every sim so 5x300 = 1500 .size of your income right? just don't be lazy.If you want to make money be Positive .
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I started my eloading business At a month of April 2020.Waah its already 2 years now Its really Fast.Besides of retailer you can also upgrade to Become a Dealer of Load !when I ran out of my 5 free activations, I thought of upgrading to a dealer for those I invited as a retailer, it won't be difficult to load a wallet with their SIM. So in the month of May 2020, I immediately chatted there with the one who activated me as a load retailer.She told me that she is happy because i trusted her.!
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***Why i push myself to be a Dealer?***
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2.Rebates/discounts on load Retail us a dealer,you can also make retails of load at your customers.
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4.p270 unli direct referral bunos.
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when I became a load dealer, it was fun because I had an income, even if it was just a little bit, at least I was able to activate 22 people, so I got my investment back.And the good thing is that also add another account .I already have 78 free activation if who are interested feel free to ask me https://www.facebook.com/lenyrosebaloro28 💚
Most of my retailer was my co worker before but when I resigned from work they were no longer active in loading but it's ok hehehe im still available as always if they need load wallet I'm just here. The others also just use Gcash or paymaya to load. I don't regret that I tried this eloading business because I also learned a lot.
Even if the income is small if people need it every day repeat purchase is the best "LOAD IS LIFE" let's admit that others who want to try the eloading business but are skeptical may not make money.
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Thank you for reading My Lovely Read.Cash Fam!To my sponsors Again thank you.
#23rd
April 25,2022
Did you play Online Casino?
#22th blog
April 24 2022
8:57am
Hello there my Read.Cash friends Happy sunday to all.I feel lazy to get up this morning ,and i still want to sleep but i can't,because of the sunlight it wakes me up too.My stomach is also rumbling Looking for Food hehehe.So i have to choice i really need to get up.Im still looking for what to cook.Its makes me stressful to think everyday about what to cook,especially when you dont have a budget .So i went out for a while to buy !The good thing about where we lives is that "Talipapa" is just in the door.
Every sunday I really woke up early because my husband is here he's not used to being hungry hahhaah so i need to cook early but when he has work i really wake up at 9:00 or 10:00 Oh taray diba puyaters kasi kaya Late na nagigising same with my daughter puyaters din !Streghten the two of us sa puyat,sometimes her papa gets angry because he can't sleep well,because we are so very noisy😆.
***Back to my topic, about did you play online Casino!?***
So i thought of this topic because sometimes i also play this online casino before but now i stopped because the result is not good,Its ok if you always win it makes you happy but when you lose you're always miserable. I know many people also playing it especially in the pandemic the rest of us are hopping to have instant money to win so they are trying to play.But its a big mistake if you thought of entering online casino games.Because you need money to be able to play,what if you will become addicted to gambling?you dont even know that you have already spent your money on useless gambling,you are already in difficult life and you are making it worse.Instead of saving up,you can't go on because you've already played it.Its making you addicted at all.
Its hard to gamble in online casinos,so dont try it!others,really take their risk playing the size of what is entered amount after the ending,you dont even realize that its gone.You're just lucky if you win.When you lose ,you have in mind that you need to put it again cash in,in case you can recover the amount you are lossing.But instead of recovering,your loss increases even more because you are aggressive in recovering.
Like Online sabong i was shocked when i heard/watch a news about a mother getting addicted on that sabong online and had a huge debt "Utang" So she thought of selling her daughter at the amount of 50k Oh my God,looks she's crazy .And the buyer even offered 45k and she just agreed .Worthless mother was able to sell her child because of gambling.fortunately,the child was recovered with the help of the authorities,so now the mother who sold her child is in jail.She no longer has the right to see her child anymore,because of doing something unacceptable.She should really be imprisoned because of the injustice she did her daughter,even though she will regret it she cant do anything.
***So if you are planning to get into this,dont do it so wont regret it later.Just take care of your children ,or if you really want to earn money ,look for online earning apps ,there are legit ones or you just stay there at read.cash all you need is diligence and perseverence so that you can make it.***
***NO TO GAMBLING!***☠️
`This is all for today Have a bless day to everyone wish you all are In A Good condition stay safe everybody!`
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Finally im done i am start writing this at 5:30 in the morning waah it takes almost 3hours its just a short article this is all i can do with matching google translator OMY hahahaha.Sorry for those mistaking words/Grammar !To my sponsor thank you so much and my neawest lovely sponsor @joydigitalsolutions thank you💚
#21th
To ladie's who accept Courtship/Lover
#21th
April 23,2022
***Use your Power wisely***
The truth is, women are powerful when it comes to the stage of courtship. We are the ones who hold the key to the door of our hearts. We will decide whether we will give our sweet "Yes" to our lover. situation and don't just give the key, because we might give it to a thief or an unreasonable person. This stage is important in our lives. If we are not careful, we will be tortured by men when they become part of our lives. if you type the guy, let him polish his armor a little bit more for it to shine.
***Know your negotiables and no-negotiables***
It is said that love breaks our standards for our future partner. But you will always get what you settle for.On a sheet of paper,make two columns where you would write the following :
Things you cannot compromise (Non-negotiables),and can compromise (minor-issues).There is always an exception for the one you love. Non-negotiable things are the things that are a BIG DEAL to you because they will affect a large part of your life. There are women who don't want to marry a smoker because they have asthma or breathing problems. Negotiables are things you can miss because they don't matter that much to you (i.e. skin color and nose).
*****Don't be hopeful*****
Some ladies do power trips sometimes. They have a lot of boys toys. Let's not make milking cows (i.e. just to get you free of what you want) men. They also know how to get hurt. Straightforward to say if you don't like a man. The pain is more severe if you will prolong their efforts then nothing will happen. Direct the lovers. They will be discouraged but they will not die.
***Don't get too serious too Soon***
Many women are super excited to fast forward the relationship and plan for the future, why prolong it if that's where it's going, right? FAIL! Gradually, the aggressive woman can turn off another man once in a while. She's only been dating for three weeks but she wants to talk about the future, how many children she will have and where to honeymoon. It's easy. Get to know each other first.
***Don’t entertain men with gallows and unbelievers***
Close your heart to men who already have a GF/wife. that's a big headache. Many women who dated married men usually wasted lives. for committed christians, the 6:14 principle is non-negotiable. those who do not love the lord should not be on the list.
Unbelievers say that it is "discrimination" for Christians to reject unbelievers as marriage mates. They are still hurting. They are not strong enough to understand that the pain they will feel will be more severe if the lord rejects them. Because they do not believe in him.
***Be a sherlock Holmes***
ask questions about the character of the person teasing you. Find out if he is sober and really boyfriend/husband material. Beware of negative signs. See how he gets along with other people. if you can't trust him in small things, don't expect that he is easy to trust on the big issues of your life. Also listen to the exes of the lover, when many of his relationships say that he is a "Jerk", they may not say yes because they are jealous of you, but he is really a jerk.
***Marriage should be the goal of dating***
It must be clear to you that the relationship is a preparation for courtship. Why would you go astray if you have no intention of marrying a man? Pity the young man if you just enjoy being her bf but you have no plans to face the altar with him. it's good to just woo the woman he's ready to be with for life.
Top five signs that he like's you
5. There is a special treatment for you that he does not do to other girls.
4.He always texted/called you to say hello or chat.
3. He wants you to walk with him (with barkadas or just you exclusively)
2. With effort there is always time for you even if he is busy.
And Lastly,
1. he immediately tells you that he likes you.
*Thank you for reading !*
#21th
April 23,2022
"Papa's Girl"
#20th Blog
April 21,2022
**So im Here again Read.cash Fam!I am writing about my Daughter Her name is Zyrel Joy And she is two years old and four months.**
Super duper Hot afternoon to everyone,ive been thinking of writing an article earlier,But my daughter is bothering me i cant concentrate what im doing.So ill let her sleep.Then when she feel asleep,i didn't write first because i have a lot to do,like Cleaning the house and Cooking for our food.Because later my husband came home and i need to Cooked first so that if he's home ready to eat na.I knew he's already hungry kasi pag alam niya maaga ang uwian nila ay di na siya nagbebreaktime sa Hapon .Its always when he arrives after getting dressed he will invite me to eat.So the result was when night comes we feel hungry again hahahaha.
*****Fast forward*****
Back to Our topic,when her dad is here she feel happy because she know's na may kaharutan na siya hehehe.specially sunday because her dad had no work so his here all day.Makakapag play silang dalawa.Then she can go outside to walk with him.Then if her dad doen't pay attention to her ,she gets angry.If she's angry,she says a lot and you can't understand,you'll just laugh if you heard it.She cant pronounce properly.Kaya matatawa ka nalang talaga lagi din kasi siya inaasar ng papa niya.
looks like she's getting sawa of my face because I'm always with her, here at home hahaha so she's looking for his dad , because her dad leaves too early and she's still asleep then he goes home at night .He only comes home early when they don't have overtime.but only once in a while does he really come home at night.
Sometimes my daughter wakes up early and her dad is still here, straight to her dad, she doesn't want to part hahaha when she knows that she's leaving, her dad will come out first and she'll get on the motorbike and say goodbye to me right away haha she thought she would take him with her her dad.He just cried when she saw her dad leave.so unfortunately he really wants to come. so I tell my husband when he wakes up early don't make too much noise so that our daugher doesn't wake up.
If Sundays, she already knows that her dad is there, she wakes up early in the morning because she knows that she can go out.When we're the only two here at home, I only take her out once,because when she's out she goes everywhere it's scary because there are a lot of dogs out here.She so naughty hehehe.
so I only let him out once because we don't know the weather sometimes it suddenly rains what if it rains and then your child is outside the result will be sick so that's what I really avoid. It's hard when your child gets sick you don't know what to do especially when shes a baby she cant tell you yet what hurts with her.one time when her dad took her out, it rained on them and in the evening he had a fever so I scolded her dad because he was outside knowing that the aura of the weather was changeable.
So when her dad was here she was really happy.She's really a papa's girl .
What I can't really forget is that was accidentally the hot water was thrown at her that was still in the heater.Its early happened i was upstairs at that time ,she woke up when her dad got up.she was just in the living room playing. her dad was in the kitchen then he went into Cr to turn on the faucet when he opened it there was no water so he went out to see why there was no water. I was shoked when my daughter suddenly cried . I was immediately looking for her, she was already there in the kitchen and the hot water had already been poured on her legs. I was shaking with fear at that time, he was crying so hard, we didn't know what to do. So we took him to the hospital immediately.
We didn't have any money at that time, it's a good thing we borrowed it from my sister, she didn't really stop crying.I know if it's too much pain because of the size of the rupture of her skin. Even a small burn is very painful. The hardship we experienced at that time.she was so miserable that I just cried when I saw her.
It also took months before her wound healed. I am also very grateful to the people who helped us then especially @bbghitte who made an article to help us financially I just met them on the @noise.cash platform but they didn't hesitate to help us so I'm lucky that I met them also Maam cathy also provided help.By the mercy of god everything went Ok.!Im always thankful to God.Those big scars of her now I hope they will also disappear.They said it would disappear because he was still a baby, his skin was still taut so it would disappear.
This is all for today,Thank you for reading !My daughter is in outside waiting here dad came hehehe.
#20th
April 21,2022
"Sensationally single"
#19th
april 20,2022
10:14pm
*Being single doesn't neccessarily mean you're available.Sometimes you have to put uo a sign that says,"Do not disturb"on your hear.*
-Anonymous
In a couples-crazed world,singles are often perceived as misfits and virtual outcasts.Many people think that something is wrong with you, that your personality is maladjusted, when you are still single. There is something called the imaginary magic age, such as 18 or 21, that when you step into this age, you have to have nang significant other.If we follow this logic, dapat daw na by the age of 25, either may engagement/wedding ring or you are taking care of your baby.In showbiz, when you are in your thirties, you can play mother roles. Because women have a biological clock, there is more pressure on them to have a boyfriend. There is an inverse relationship because the age of the woman to their prospects will be noticed by the guys, who prefer to date someone younger than them.
Let us accept the fact that not all singles can marry, The lord gave the example of the lives of the "EUNUCH" .They failed to marry either due to personal choice or unforeseen circumstances.As Matthew 19: 11-12 (NIV) reveals*."Not everyone can accept this word,but only those to whom it has been given.For there are eunuchs who were born that way,and there are eunuchs who have made eunuchs by others.Abd there are those whi choose to live like eunuch for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.The one who can accept this should accept it".*
"Eunuchs" (or "bating" in Filipino) are servants in the kingdom. In particular, they serve in the rooms or courts of the queen and princess. Eunuchs are paid more than other workers. They cannot get married. because they do not have the ability to have children. They go through castration (Captivity) so as not to be a threat to the king in case they are tempted to have sexual affairs with the queen. In ancient Chinese dynasties, castration was used to punish slaves or prisoners of war. .
Likewise, there are also those who prefer to be "spiritual eunuchs" to serve God. This includes monks, nuns and priests. This includes Pablo who decided to remain single because of his ministry. He considered singleness as a high calling. he could better fulfill what the Lord asked him to do as a missionary in different countries. He poured his time into serving the Lord because he had no family to think about and take care of.
Presenting The singles
***The Huwag na Muna squad***
They are really not qualified to enter into a relationship because they are not yet in the right season of their lives. they need to prioritize education to find a good job. They will only be distracted by a romantic relationship so don't do it first.
***The Besides, I'm a breadwinner or I'm not ready yet***
With so much to do and responsibilities in life, they decided to delay the relationship or marriage. This includes those who work and support their family. Others want to enjoy single life first.They enjoy being single while others dream of having an established career.They wait until the right one comes along.
*The over Busy Cluster*
They have no time for romantic endeavors.They are simply too busy to be in love.They work all day and coming home will just sleep.And since work is until the weekend, there is no time for socializing.And if there is invited to date, they prefer to go home and rest because of extreme fatigue and stress at work.
*The high Value Group*
They have high standards for their future partner. These are the delicate ones. Because they have a high salary, have a lifestyle like the rich and famous, and can afford to have a family anytime, they want a partner who is equal to their "value".They worked hard to establish a career and they will not easily give it up for a relationship that is not worth it.
***The there is really no circle***
for women, not because they want to be single but because they have not yet found anything captured in their heart. They also think that all eligible men have been taken. Its counterpart to men is the "The always Basted" clan .Bagsak sila sa all attempts to get the sweet "YES" of the women they dated.Kaya others are discouraged to flirt and gradually accepted to be "Soltero" (bechelor) for life.
***The love hurts Society***
They are the ones who are very careful to give their heart. They have had bitter experiences in the relationship. Some still suffer from loneliness and grief due to a break-up or loss of a loved one. Or they are affected by a bad experience loved by their friends or loved ones.They need intense emotional rehabilitation.only they know when they will be inlove again.
*The last trip/Chance passenger clan*
They are on the road to spinsterhood/Bachelordom. They are past the calendar so they are in a hurry and hope that they will be together on the last trip. Some are desperate because they are stressed with the wait. While others, just relax. Whether they come or not their prince charming/princess, Ay okay lang!
*The single-blessed Assembly*
They are the ones who are convinced that they are not called to get married and have a family. You can call them different names but they are not affected by any teasing. the hassles of being single.They have discovered that being single is their "DESTINY"And they won't regret it.
Facing the Emo part of being single
It is not easy to be single. You will encounter many ghosts who will visit you over and over again, especially if you are alone in the room and only your shadow is with you.
*Emotional Panic*
As the day on the calendar rapidly changes, many are nervous. Especially among ladies, torture is gradually approaching their biological expiration date. It is inevitable to feel envy or frustration every time they see couples who are so sweet. the pressure intensifies when your friends get married one after another.You also fear the shrinking pool of eligible men.
*Loneliness*
even if some smile when you ask if they are ok, they often feel the opposite especially when they are alone. Despite your career success, you miss having someone with whom to share your victories.You miss hearing the saccharine words and sweet nothings from a partner.
*Low Self-Esteem*
for the people around you. any success you achieve when you don't have a partner is incomplete. Here many singles think less of themselves no matter how beautiful they are, they feel like they are the ugliest person in the world. that there is no X factor that many can notice.
*Uncertainly in life's direction*
Because of the monotony, you don't know where your life is going. Your major question: What is the purpose of my life? Many singles become self-absorbed because they only care about themselves. others try different things just to have a unique spice to life (i.e.Sexual activities).
*Relentless Social pressure*
One of the most annoying parts of single life is the overwhelming criticism, ridicule or teasing from those around you. Even churches are often not supportive of the idea that oj just be single. Even singles Ministries are may subtle attempts to pressure its members to get married.Due to unwanted social pressure, many women settle for guys who are below their standards.
*so, how do you face the unstoppable temptations*?
First, you're just dedma. Never dignify the issue. Just smile. They will also get tired. Second, you can comfort them head-on. you must have the gentle audacity to say:
"**I don't need a partner to be happy!** Third, if the teasing is really annoying, decide to avoid people who are bullying. Don't go to places where you will be the target of bullying. That's how easy it is you will be affected by their sarcasm.
**As you Wait**
The single life is not necessarily better or worse than married life,only different.Regardless of your relationship status, God has a good plan for you. There are many things a single person can do that a married person or family can no longer do. Stop blaming yourself for why you are single. And don't be bored with waiting.If it is in god’s plan that you get married, a good love story he will carry out at the right time.Especially if you let the lord be the scriptwriter and director of your life.
***Maximize your Freedom***
while single, enjoy life.Because when you are old, you will not be able to do many adventires of life.Develop healthy relationshipshios apart from marriage.I have many acquaintances who are fulfilled in their lives even without a husband.Because they have learned to be close to friends and relatives. Show others that it is fun to be single, that you don't need a partner to say that life is colorful.Marriage is not the only remedy to loneliness,nor is it the whole purpose of life.
*Develop your personality*
Your identity should be complete before ypu enter into a relationship.if you make the relationship a reason to develop your personality, you will become accustomed to relying on others to be happy. So, many when a girlfriend/boyfriend leaves, the world almost collapses because happiness depends on your partner.Hone your skills and talents.Men and women are attracted to the member of the opposite sex who is talented.Build your self-confidence.Their energies are so focused on imagining how life will be better if they get married.Other things in their life seem dull.You should never be Consumed by the idea that you need a woman/Man in your life to feel complete.
*Have an Accountability group*
Don't think that you are alone in your struggle. There are many of you. Your Christmas and Valentine's Day will not be cold if there are many of you who are united and work together.If you feel helpless,help other people.Nakakagaan ng feeling.you are not called to be grumpy everyday.Celebrate your singlehood with others.
*Never compare yourself with others*
You have a different path in life. If your eyes are focused on others, you will always be disappointed because there will always be someone who can surpass your achievements, performance and beauty. This can lead to jealousy and envy. See yourself as God sees you .God has a unique purpose for you and he will surely fulfill his plans for your life according to his timetable.
*Find your Happiness in the Lord*
we need to find true happiness in the lord who first loved us. He is the only one who can tell you. "I will never leave you or forsake you". the Lord's love is enough. To him, there is definitely no heartbreak. The psalmist wrote. "Delight yourself in the lord and he will give you the desires of your heart" Let him fill the hole in your heart that you think can only be filled by a signifficant other.***If god is all you have,you have everything you nee***d.
Thank you for Reading!
#19th
April 20,2022
You were Born this way
#18th
April 19,2022
*God created woman and man with distinct characteristics. He created them male and women. These qualities complement each other. When you know the wants and habits of the opposite s **, you will better understand how to deal with them.Also,it will increase your likelihood of finding a partner.Again increase,not assure.This does not mean that it can be seen in all women/men. Of course there would always be exceptions.*
It's in the brain
Some academic research states that the difference between men and women is a result of the nature, shape and ability of their brains. 10% bigger is the male brain but 5% more are the nuetron cells of the female brain.because the more neutrons the woman noticeably the more effecient and more active the woman thinks in many things.
Men accuse women of being too emotional while ladies accuse boys of not being too emotional enough.why? Boys tend to use their brain's left hemisphere-the logical/rational side.
Women, on the other hand, use both the left and right sides of their brain because their corpus callosum, a bundle of fibers that connect the two sides, is also more developed. -smell, emotion and feeling. Because of this women are more expressive and more prone to depression. Add to this the fact that they produce less serotonin, the neurotransmitter chemical which gives a "feel good" state. this chemical, intensifies negative moods such as anxiety disorders, panic and pessimism.
It is easier for a woman's brain to transfer information from left to right hemisphere (And vice versa). This is why they are alert to what is happening around them. If the woman is a multi-tasker, the man concentrates on one task at a time.
Women have qualities that men need to know
*Emotional And Romantic*
It is natural for women to be thrilled with stories that show that they are a princess or a young lady being taken care of. They imagine a TDH (Tall dark and handsome) man who will save them from the whirlwind of grief. That is why edward cullen became famous. twillight because it is said that a man who is ready to stay up (although he is not really sleeping) can eat-inlove just so you can sleep soundly on the other hand, ladies also cannot avoid being moody (influenced by our mental cycle).They often struggle with the need for intimacy and emotional closeness.They are also prone to emotionalism which can result in "imagined loved"and "self-created romance".
*They crave words of affirmation*
Some people say that the way to a woman's heart is through her ears.compliments and praises are important to a woman. Guys should never forget it. Appreciate their loveliness. They will also make the expressions of your love ones happy.
**Girls**, ***don't be immediately carried away by the sweet tongues of men. You must learn to discern if they are just rounding your head.***
***proper suspicion***
Call it "correct suspicion", intuition or gut feeling "but a woman really feels strong, especially when it comes to men's activities (including bullshit). It is her brain. Ladies' brains are active in all things. chances are so much more noticeable. For Husbands who have a lot to hide, be prepared to hear classified investigative research when you go home late and you don't let your wives know.
*Ladies are talkers*
They connect verbally.Their day would not be complete if they did not talk about the many things they have experienced. to those who cannot control their mouths. Excessive speech is the reason why they are no longer mysterious to men. , emotions and best kept secret.
***There is jealousy***
Admit it or not, some girls don't want to see their partner flirting with others. The reason is valid. So boys, avoid comparing them to other women. Never show more of your treatment than other girls. They'll just keep quiet you don't know, their blood is already boiling and they're accumulating resentment.
*Faithful to love*
Exception to the rule are women who are men. It is not normal for a woman to have a relationship with two men at the same time. They are also not in the habit of flirting with other boys if they are already committed to their Bf or awasa. Men should, therefore , reciprocate by being affectionate and honest.
Long for protection and Security
It is not because they are weak but because they want to feel the love of the man. The real man is able to defend and protect his beloved woman. Backboned-challenged men can be married. They are expected to be the pillar of the relationship. They are mandated by GOD to protect their wives and provide for them.Women also long to be pursued.should be the seeker and not the claimant.
End It up here ,thank you for reading !I still have a lot to do today, it's tiring but it needs to be done, including in the life of being a wife and mother. While my child is still asleep, take a nap first. good day to all, may you be in good condition. We are just fighting the challenges of our lives.
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"My beloved Neighbor's."
#17 Blog
April 17,2022
Hello how's everyone?I havent write an article yesterday because i was so tired i dont know why!but now i was decided to write im in the mood ,I already done preparing for our breakfast!I am thinking what to write and i remember one of my friend @Indojongeren requesting me to write about my nieghbors.So here we Go .
Are you Lucky with your neighbor's?
Me i feel so lucky to have them because they are kind.I know a lot of people who don't like thier neigbors because other are rude and etc .Like my Older sister's neighbor Because it's supposed to be nice when in front of you or talking to you,and then when you left ,you didn't know that she was Gossiping or (Chismis)Tagalog term,about her other friends.What's worse,you don't know that its being slandered.Why i said that?,because that girl was my neighbor too before when im lived with my older sister.When i pass by them,she pretends to be kind ,she greets me.!But the truth is she's angry with.
Why she's angry?
My older sister told me that our neighbor i angry with me.Do you know why?The reason is she feel jealous hahaha,She tought her husband was handsome LoL.she tought that maybe i like her Husband duh.That't the big NO,NO!The only thing that's not acceptable is that shes really very rude.He despised her neighbor so much ,that she did not look at herself with contempt.Good thing that i left there.
Why did i say i was Lucky with my Neigbor?
I was happy when we moved here to where we live now because my neighbors are kind, especially to @Geoh and @ajlove14 thank you for being good to me.!I hope you both get not Bored with me hahaha.
I was shy this time Hahaha .More bonding to come.We would have talked about our swimming today but I wasn't with them because my husband is doing something at home. He has work tomorrow so he needs to finish today. So the result is that I'm not with them te @ajlove14 let's go next .
To my sponsors @Jeansapphire39 and @mhy09 thank you as always !
photos are mine Edited by Pic.Collage
#17
April 17,2022
Courting or Getting lost?
#16th
April 15,2022
*You are beautiful, my darling. Your eyes are wide, shining, seductive as you watch*
***Song of Solomon 1:15***
Courtship comes from the French word corteare which means to pay homage. This is also where the words "courteous" come from in front of an adult or if you are in a formal setting, and gathering.There is no one method or standard on how to work.It depends on the culture you belong to
Read the novels of Jane Austen, an English novelist, to know how rigid the courtship rules were in her time. When it is said Oerson is courting, there is effort. Why? Because, a man wants to be a wife for life the woman he likes. The desire to marry cannot be separated from courtship. Courtship rules were strict in the Victorian era In the united kingdom (1837-1901).
A man and a woman can't just talk. A formal introduction is needed. After that, men who want to woo give a romantic card to the woman they like. The woman decides which card to choose. All courtship is took place in the woman's house while the parents were watching. And when marriage proposals are discussed, they have to be in writing, because it is a formal expression of love.
The philippines is one of the most colorful courtship system. if you can read old works/literature and watch old movies, you will better understand how young men make an effort, only the young lady he loves can answer. the love story begins with the man's allusions about a woman's beauty or modesty.
A man often has a bridge especially if he is stupid so that he can express his feelings. The best friend of the man or the woman usually sends a message to each other. maiden at nightfall. in this state the young man begins to show his chivalry. Meanwhile, the woman is all about projecting Maria clara attitude which is always "Hard to get".if the girl's parents approve of the man,they will let the boy Courting there Daughter.
***Remember that there is a right time to courtship***
if you arrive early at the bus/jeepney station, you have to wait for the vehicle to arrive. You will also have to wait for the next bus to arrive if you miss the trip. You feel the climate. (I.e. priorities, feelings) of your life and the life of the person you are dating. Everything is made perfect in gods time. When you have been rejected twice, you must have an idea if you type a woman. you're desperate if you cram yourself into him, It's hard to hope if you think you're just "Until Friends" really.Kaya Move Kana lang pag ganito mangyari sayo!
***Court with the right reason***
the others are just Courting because of social pressure or they are just forced by friends. They are just tempted, they have stayed. court her if you are serious about how you feel. and not just games.
***First check the will of the suitor***
When you are young, you think that everyone who is beautiful and handsome can get married. As you get older, you will realize that the goodness of your will is more important for your marriage to be good. It is said in a song, beauty is like a garment and painting at home, transient and finite. so, never be deceived. Also pray that the lord will give you the person who can accept your whole being warts and all.
***Coax the woman's family***
If western culture flags individualism, it is important in Filipino culture to love family and community. Recognize and love the loved one of the person you are courting. Think that you will not only court the girl but also her family. you learn to love and respect your future in-laws and in-laws. It shows you are serious about how you feel. and keep your motive clean.
***Be a gentleman***
court with the woman at home, not in text or in the corner. Do the courting at the woman's house where you will meet her family. Make sure you can be trusted if you go out to take the woman home, completely and ok!
***Display sincerity and genuine Character***
The man's approach to courtship is often the best foot forward. Polite, fragrant, waxed hair and gentleman in everything. Pretending has an expiration date. You need to be honest and true in what you show. and others are expected of you. It is difficult to maintain a fake character. Many relationships are destroyed because the partner has a cheating race. Whether what you see is what you get or (WYSWYG).No pretensions.
***Learn that patience is a virtue***
If a man is serious about how he feels, he will try to make the woman fall in love. The impatient, nothing is cooked. when a woman lets you go astray, it only means that you have hope in her. so don't feel broken plaque question after question of "Do I still have hope?" that's why you're flirting to increase the chance of being liked, isn't it? even if the woman looks at you, don't expect you to be right away. Expect a little challenge for prove true. Unless the woman tells you to stop, just go straight. Prove that you are honest and serious about how you feel.
***Remember that marriage should be The goal of dating***
Why are you a lover if you have no intention of marrying the woman? Pity the girl if you just enjoy being her Girlfriend but you have no plans to present her to a man with a future in her life. You will just waste the precious years of her loving life her.Show real commitment, Plan when marry her when you are with her.
*Top Five signs that you have a chance to the Girl you are courting*
1. He will tell you directly that you have hope.
2. The response to your courtship is positive. You just let it go.
3.His friends tell you that he is looking at you.
4. Quiet, becoming tongue-tied or shuttering when you talk.
5.when you look at, smile at you, become concious, or show gesture clues (I.E. fixing hair, posture).
Thank you for Reading !
#16th
Your's truly
Zyrel04
"Random Topic about ME"(past/present)
#15th Blog
April 14,2022
*Have a good day everyone ,its Holy thursday .Most of the time when the resurrection of jesus comes , they often go to the sea to swimming.Many of us are accustomed to doing this.*
*About me ?*
by the way I'm just a simple woman. Wala ako hilig sa gala mas gusto ko pang mag stay sa Bahay kesa Umalis kahit saan.I have a child And I have a kind husband who even though I always fight with him still doesn't fight me hahaha.He knows that when I'm angry because I don't talk to him no matter what question he asks I don't answer.Even though I laugh at what I'm doing but I don't show it to him sometimes he makes me laugh but I just don't pay attention.Looks im Crazy LOL!
I used to be really very shy, so sometimes my mom scolds me because she says there's nothing to be ashamed of!I remember when we are leaving at the province before,someone is courting me i think im 17 years old that time ,If I'm shy, the one who is courting me is even more shy hahaha.he just looked quiet and smiled at the same time.so when I remember that, I just think that it's not really good to be too shy, you won't get anything hahaha.And the result was i Basted him.
someone else courting me, he was kind, after a few months of courting with me, i decided to answer him yes ,Then we became BF/GF.ou
I think I was young then hahaha I don't know why I thought of breaking up with him, we were on for just 1 month and then I broke up hahaha. I realized I wasn't ready to enter into relationships yet.I was too bad at that time .I make him cry.but now we are Friends .
My last boyfriend before I came here to cavite He courting with me for a long time so I answered him when we were on, he wanted us to be together I told him I want to work because I will help my parents my age was 21 I told him that I could wait until I was 25 years old and I would agree to have a marriage with him. But when I left there we had no contact with each other. he also made way, we had no formal break up, until I met the man who became my husband now.
I met him because he was with me at work. I was a machine operator and then he was the head maintenance inside. He was a widow and he had one child.Many of my co-workers are asking me why i choose him , I answered them that what is bad there is important to be trustworthy.I didnt make a mistake when im choose him Because his a loving husband and a loving father of his kids.
My stepdaugher was in province ,before because when we weren't together, his daughter was always alone at home because he had work, then he had no one to go to school with.
So he decided to stay there with his grandparents first so that she could have someone with him. He agreed. , so he studied there first grade 12 and we plan to take her and here to continue his studies. because he also wants to be with her papa and his sister, she also complains to me that hir aunts are always fighting her.Thats why she wants to came back here.
Thats all for today thanks to all readers!
#14th
"Single And Ready to Mingle"
#14th Blog
April 13,2022
Many have asked how they can find a potential life partner. you can see where there are many singles. according to the sexy statistical and coordination board (NSCB), as of 2007 NCR and ARMM have the most singles in the country aged 25 and over when we say single including those who are not yet married separated from their spouses divorced and annulled the marriage and widows and widowers.
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The fact of the matter is there is no "magic formula" on how to find a mate. The first thing we should do is bring our feelings closer to the Lord. We, however, should never over-romanticize our relationship with god. we spiritualize when it comes to this matter, we lose wisdom.There are things that can increase your chances of getting married.Here are three major recommendations.
*Be intentional in meeting other singles*
Have an active social life.Many singles have their own bat cave at home. they don't seem to want the sun. They are always in front of the TV and computer and that is their forever companion in life.Singles should not only know where the opposite s-- are but also when they are there .Also ,singled who do not get married often work during odd hours.This is one reason why they do not have time to socialize with others. So advice, if you want to get married, do not take a job that will reduce your chances of meeting potential life partners. You need to make an effort to socialize with eligible men/women.You must make time to meet people so that you can widen your horizon and increase the number of your options.
***Take care of your appearance and character***
all relationships begin with attraction.Because men are visually-oriented, the visually-appealing are the first you notice.don't irritate the horizontally-endowed.A woman's weight is inversely proportional to their ability to attract men. Many are turned off to fat.this is not a satire but a statistical fact.Adjust the diet to be physically fit.Take care of yourself, don't expect to be a guy/girl magnet if your fashion is lotion or baduy during the season. If you have good hygiene habits you could garner few admirers. habit.In men, a pleasing personality and being a gentleman can provide you more pogi points.
*Be realistic about your expectations for your future Partner*
Don't have too high standards. You may be disillusioned and just wait for nothing to be right. Unreasonable expectations will decrease your chances of finding a spouse.There is no perfect guy/lady. Also, don't be too low or you have almost no standard.Desperation often results in impatience.Impatience leads to wrong Decisions.
*Is he really "THE ONE"?*
***when will you know if he is really the one for you?*** I contwmd that you can't really know for certain until you say "I DO" in front of god and many people at the wedding ceremony.Until you can't tell your partner that you are ready to live with him and only death can separate you, it is unlikely to say you already found the one. But if what you are asking is your feeling if he really is, we have a few things to look at.Before you say your vows,you have to die to yourself.It is not only your well -being that will be followed in the relationship but the well -being of both of you.
*CONVICTION*
This is the belief in how you feel. You really love him. Even if you turn the world upside down. Even if some others discourage you from leaving him, he really is. You have known each other for a significant amount of time And you accept each other's weaknesses, strengths and past.You cannot see yourself satisfied without having him/her as your life partner.You will not be comfortable if he is not always with you. The saying is true, "***You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you can't live without.***
*COUNSELLING*
Not everything is reached by the radar of your emotions and mind. There are things that others see that you do not notice. This is why you need to seek advice from them. A wise person seeks counsel. your parents, counselor, pastor or friends will give you a bigger picture of what is already going on in your lovelife. Seek advice from people you trust.Foremost, seek God's wisdom through prayer and reading his word.while asking for advice, be teachable.
*CIRCUMSTANCES*
There are things that happen in our lives that we never plan but they happen. That's the type of anything other people do to destroy your relationship, it stays strong. There are couples who separate temporarily but they still eventually. Many believe in "DESTINY", because they feel that all the forces of the universe and the sky are united to bring them to the situation where they can be with a specific person and nobody else.Discern these events, What you have in mind is the will of god,"All things will work together for your benefits".
*I won't tire of thanking you both for the support you gave me. Even though I'm not good at writing articles, I can do it. As long as you keep working and don't lose hope, all you really need is diligence and perseverance*.
*Is "DESTINY" really true?*
Is there really a "ONE and ONLY" that the lord has for each of us? This issue is complicated because of the conflict of two positions those who say we have no choice because the sky has already set everything (Fatalism), and the we believe in shaping our future.(The power of free will).
We need to refine the answer to this question.The lord has sovereign wisdom and power.He knows the beginning and ending of our life.He is charge We weregiven the freedom of choice.We have the power to obey or disobey his will.you can have the best partner god has reserved for you. What will dictate this is whether you follow his will or let yourself. in this situation, you may not get the "the best" he has intended for you.You may have engaged in wrong relationships in the past .Whatever mistakes we have made, the lord can fix our lives.He can make all things can work together for ypur good if you really Love him.
Thank you so Much for reading!!
I was Hopping that everyOne is ok !
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Typoon Agaton
#13th BLOG
April 12,2022
***TYPOON PRAYER BRIGADE***
*Loving Father,creator and lord of the universe,your providence sustains the foundation of the earth and your wisdom guides the courses of nature.We humbly implore you to spare us from the eminent threat of the typoon,to keep us safe from all dangers,and to calm the Storms of life that threaten us.May we be secure in your loving hands,seek your will in all our experiences,and serve you.As steawards of your vreation,with grateful hearts,we ask this through JESUS CHRIST our LORD Amen.🙏🏼🙏🏼.*
Lord god guide all my loved ones in leyte, typhoon agaton did severe damage in leyte huhuhu. The events are scary so I don't want to watch the news because my tears fell huhuhu pity the people Especially the brgy. kantagnos that was covered by a landslide I was shocked when I opened Facebook ,and i saw those vedios and Photos .
I was really shocked because my sister chatted with me and she said that the person we know who lives in brgy. Kantagnos is dead, I was really shocked because the other day I saw her live on facebook and then the next day I found out that she was gone.I really couldn't believe it when I found out. Unfortunately, her son is also dead🙏🏼.
Many more still missing ,Not even able to recover from typhoon odette this is what happened again,.Lord god please heal them.!
Im so much thankful to god that our family are ok in there area right now.It was said that it was just raining hard there, there were also some damage near the river, the size of the flood was severe, it was good that they were really far from the river.
That river is the one we used to go through when we were still in elementary school, when it flooded, it was really big, so when it rained, that was the problem there because there were many more plants there near the river, it was wasted because it was washed away by the flood. Dad also can't work because he can't cross the water there because on the other side of the mountain his job is ,he has plants there he can't visit.so I said let it go first, don't force me to go there because it's scary to cross the flood. the first thing to think about is safety.
That's our river there, even the buga river is gone because typhoon agaton has already destroyed.Typoon AGATON destroyed a lot ,Hopping that everything will be ok soon in gods will.The hardships of life after this has yet to happen.
I just chatted with my mother, I'm happy to know that they're ok but she has bad news because there was another landslide near us huhuhu in Brgy. Pilar in Abuyog leyte I'm nervous because I have relatives in the neighboring brgy who are left behind there just yesterday I saw my nephew post that the size of the flood there is scary because they are on an island just near the sea. I haven't seen them online yet huhuhu I hope they are ok.mama said there were many dead because the landslide went straight to the sea due to the continuous heavy rain.
***WEATHER FORECAST***
Issued at: 4:00 PM, APRIL 12 2022
Source: DOST-PAGASA
SYNOPSIS: : At 3:00 PM today, the center of Tropical Depression "AGATON" [MEGI] was estimated based on all available data over Llorente, Eastern Samar (11.4°N, 125.5°E) with maximum sustained winds of 45 km/h near the center and gustiness of up to 75 km/h. It is almost stationary.
ACTIVE TROPICAL CYCLONE OUTSIDE PAR AS OF 3:00 PM TODAY
TYPHOON MALAKAS [FORMERLY "BASYANG"] (2201)
LOCATION: 1,390 KM EAST OF CENTRAL LUZON (15.9N, 135.1E)
MAXIMUM SUSTAINED WINDS: 130 KPH
GUSTINESS: UP TO 160 KPH
MOVEMENT: NORTH NORTHWEST SLOWLY
FORECAST: Western Visayas including Negros Occidental and Bacolod City will have cloudy skies with scattered to widespread rainshowers and thunderstorms due to TD AGATON.
Moderate to strong winds blowing from the Northeast to Northwest will prevail over Negros Island and the coastal waters are moderate to rough seas with an average height of 1.2 to 3.4 m.
High Tide: 08:15 PM 1.2 m.
Low Tide: 04:02 AM 0.1 m. (Apr 13)
Sunrise: 5:35 AM
Sunset: 5:55 PM
Temp. Range 23-27 ºC (73.4-80.6 ºF).
LET'S PRAY FOR LEYTE and to all the AREAS passed by Typoon AGATON.
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Bonding with My Love Ones(Family)
#12th BLOG
Arpril 11,2022
The pandemic started last January, 2020 first was the Taal volcano erupted and then the covid and until now it has not disappeared.My daughter was only 1 month old when the pandemic started, it's a good thing we thought of baptizing her on December. sHe was only 25 days old when we baptized her and I didn't think that it would be our last time out of the house. Even going to church we could not, because we are fear of the covid spreading.
We just go out when her Scheduled injection in center.That's all and then go home right away. Because it's forbidden to stay outside for a long time.so we were very careful that she didn't get sick because it was very difficult to go to the hospital.With God's mercy, we just thank him because he won't get sick.
And when she was 3 months old .I went back to my work.It's very hard because I'm breastfeeding, especially when I left her for the first time. My sister took care of her first. I also have no choice, so I give her formula first.She still doesn't want to drink formula because she is used to breastfeeding. So she always drinks a little.
I really dont want to give her formula.Because i just want her breastfeeding only.But i need to go to work again.I also thought about it a few times.Weeks later i looked at her her as if she had lost weight.She didn't really like the formula ,My sisters said that she drinks a little bit only.And i also try change the brand of the milk it might she want but still didnt.
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So i talked to my Husband that i really need to resign so that i can take care of her properly.He agreed,so the next day i immediatelywent to the office so i could say to our HR that i will file a resignation Letter.They didnt want to agree because there were not enough of workers at that time.
I explained to them the reasons that they agreed.But i still need to work for 1 month before i can leave there,cause thats their policy 1 month after the workers can leave.I would rather take care of my daughter than work ,because i can take good care of her.when I didn't have a job we decided to move to the house that my husband got here in general trias because it's a pity it might just break because no one lives so we moved here. My daughter was only 11 months old when we moved here.
When he was 1 year old on december 4 2021 we had a little party and my sister's also came here even far away. even if it was just a little food, at least we are successfully celebrated her 1st birthday.They cooked the food because I only know a little about cooking heheheh.
Im so happy This time even though we are not totally complete ,My 2 older brother's was that there .Because they are so with us and they have Difficulty of traveling specially this pandemic.
***Fast forward***
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Last month because it's not so strict anymore, the children can go for a walk so we thought of going to the mall so we went to the mall so that somehow she knows what the mall looks like because she's already 2 years old but she hasn't been around even once .we were just always at home.Feel pity to the children born during pandemic period,like my daughter.
When we arrived at the mall he was amazed by what he saw outside hahaha because it was his first time to go out.she wondered maybe why so many people and cars everywhere, poor kids just now came out.
When we were inside, he started approaching the ones displayed inside hahaha then he saw the escalator he just wanted to be there so we went back to the escalator we went down and then went up again hahaha.That was her first time seeing a ladder's running🤣.
We also played with her on the playground, only his papa came in with her because when I come inside, another payment.She really enjoyed playing there.Hopping soon we can Go back there.
This is all For today,thank you to all readers!Also to my Beloved sponsors,!
#12th
How do I Love Thee?
**Real commitment should start during the Boyfriend/Girlfriend stage.**
*The partner must decide to nurtire and grow the relationship.Falling in love is different from saying in Love.Loving person is a decision.*
Many have been inlove to the max ,in the beginning but the coldness of looking at each other drops below zero degrees over time.
Lets remember that true is a decisinon.You have to find a way to keep the heat of Love.Its not a your/her job to change your partner's behavior.It is His/her business,Your job is to teach ypurself how to understand him/her and how to get along with him/her!
**Keep on loving Your partner**
You musy always have time for your girlfriend/boyfriend.Everyone is busy even the ones hanging around the corner,busy hanging out .You must make time.The true lover is willing to make time for his beloved.Giving time is one of thw greatest expressions of love.And when you're together with ypur loved one,you should focus with him/her.
**Be an "I LOVE YOU"Enthusiast**
Make it a habbit to always tell your partner that "I love you".When my husband and i say "I love you"we have an answer ready for each other ofcourse "I Love you too"char!Seems embarassing to say right?but why are you ashamed if its true that you really love him/her.For the rest of your life ,dont get tired of telling your partner that you love him/her.!
**Have a term of Endearment for one another**
This will give identity to your relationships.Have a distinct to call each other,and exclusive should be the use of the term,which you cannot use to call others.There are many we can Adopt like sweetheart,honey,darling,sweetpea,bebe ,Babe or etc.!*How about you what do you call your partner??*
**Be an transparent about your feelings and struggles**
Be honest with yourself when it comes to your Feeling.when your angry and when you are tired just told him/her.Very important to the partners that they are working together specially problems.Confess when its your feeling is cold.Open rebuke is better than secret love .Never think that issues will just go away .If you dont confess its like you're saying you dont trust your boyfriend/girlfriend ability to understand yout situation.If your partner really loves you,he/she will be with you in times of trouble.
Be romantic Once in a while
***Guys***,Romance will make your partners love you more.Romantic songs ,singing love songs to her.If you have budget you can give her flowers.Very romantic to women are lovely surprises.Its also nice to learn to love the things your partner loves.***Ladies***,even if you dont know anything about your boyfriend's interest like basketball,you can google the definitions of PPG,assist,rebound,turn over and their other sports.In this way,you reinforce the feeling of your man that you value the things that are important to him!
Be Faithful
Do not betray your Partner.The true lover,not a supporter of "BUY ONE TAKE ONE",where imaginary blinders promos and focus on the one you love.He/she should be your standard of Beaty/Handsomeness.You will no longer be able to look at others,because you love him/her so much.Dont give in to temptations and Flies in the relationship.Avpid flirting and becoming emotionally-attached to others. remember When you play with fire,you will definitely get burned.Insist on having a monogamous relationship with your partner.You have to right to demand that ,because the relationship must be exclusive.
Love his/her Loved Ones
This preparation he/she loves.They have beem together longer,you are not in the life of your boyfriend/girlfriend the family he/she has first loved him/her.Dont put a fence like your boyfriend/girlfriend is your personal property.The relationship should never be a form of kidnapping!
**Be Proud of your Partner**
Declare in the public that you value your partner.But it should not be veneer.You do it because you indeed value your relationship.The pleasure of feeling when you know that your partner is very proud of you.It is confirmed that your existense raises sel-esteem.As you constantly declare your commitment to the one you love.You are also guarding your feelings.As you show other people your affection and love,You can teach him/her yo love sincerely that's contagious!
So that's all for today,I am so tired I felt pain in my Back.
To my Sponsors thank you so Much!
#11th
April 10,2022
"My experience when Im pregnant and Giving Her Birth Via Cesarian"
**Heyaa so Lets talk about my Experience before, when im giving birth my daughter via cesarian section .**
April 2019 i was pregnant i still have work in the factory that time,and We live in imus cavite at my sister.I choose to stay there because it's near at my work .Then my older sister ask me that where i want to get check up and i said i haven't know yet.And she told me to make Check up at Las piñas Public hospital,because that's where she gave birth before.So i choose to check up there,I just need to go there so early and get me lined up ,they have minimun there they are only accept 150 person.!
My first check up there ,I was with my husband there at 2:30AM in the morning so early but many Pregnant also there ,ill count maybe im at number 120 that time.I thought i wouldn't be able to reach it .What the other were doing was at 10 pm they said they were already lined up there then they were sleeping there OMG!I almost didn't make it even i was too early in the morning we went .And Check up start at 9:00Am we need to wait a Long time!
Then before it starting a lot more to do ,i told to myself i didn't want to go back here ,because the queue is too long.I didnt bring food that time then my husband left me there because he have work.Im alone i Feel hungry but i dont want to go out because maybe someone will take my Line there.So i just endured my Hunger and waited for me to be called.
I ended up at about 1:30pm and i was very Hungry ,i was shivering with hunger.So when i got out of the hospital i went immediately at the canteen to eat.So difficult of being Alone.
So when i got home i told to my Husband that i would never go back there.Its still hard to find a ride home because there are only a few jeeps passing by there.When i checked up for the second time ,i didnt go back there,we looked for lying in.
Whe we found a lying in near at the place were i stayed,i was happy because there was no long queue there i can go home early i said ,And then they start checking my Results on my Laboratory.Then they said i need also to got checked up at Hospital because my Sugar was Also high.I was feeling sad that time ,cause i have no choice to go back at the hospital where i Got checked up first.
So when i had my 3rd check up ,i was there to go to my First check up at Las piñas public hospital.Im still lazy to get up,we left at the house at 4:00 am ,im thinking i might not be in the queue anymore.Then when i was there ,waaah too many pregnant there hahahah im at number 200 wooot .Can i still participate the checked up?i was asking at the security guard.Then the guard answered mo that,just lined up because might be they included me.
So when the Doctor was in,good thing because they announced that they increased the number of pregnant women they accepted,That time i already brought food because i knowit will be too late to go home again and that's when i got home at 4:00pm that' a tiring day for me.But i have to endure cause when the time comes for mu birth there is something to go right away.
So I checked up there ,I didnt go to another hospital or lying in Even if it takes too long to get home ,its ok i can do it.In the 4th checked up we go there at 1:00am in the morning i have companion my sister ,i was so sleepy that time but again no choice ,its really need for my baby .We got home early because i was put at high risk of being pregnant because i have a high sugar.so i got home a little early cause they give priority to high risk pregnant women.I also found out what gender my baby is and its a girl yay my wish .My husband wants a boy but sorry its a girl haha.
My Due date was dec 15,2019 i am still continued working that time ,I still choose to go to work so that i can make exercise everyday.Tiring but manageable as well.until the day came when suddenly water came out in front of me,my water source burst,im thinking that its not already my due date cause its dec 02,2019 . I just ate a bunch of pineapple and then after i ate i went to the cr and i was surprised that it happened.Everyone in the house was shoched too.My older sister said we need to call an ambulance but we dont have a # to them hahaha,they are really shocked ,i havent feel any pain that time thats why i am calmed.
Its a good thing because the owner of the house that where we live is a Brgy captain there and he gave the phone number of the ambulance.I didnt really feel any pain but still continued water came out.Then there was a typoon coming that day the rain was already heavy,them the ambulance arrived a long time ,they were many more interviews at my husband before they came 😂My husbands feels angry to them!
When ambulance arrived ,we boarded immediately and when got to the hospital we went to emergency room directly.And the doctor I.E me immediately then when it finish he said its only at 2Cm.But i was admitted immediately because i ran out of water.Then when i was in the patient room,The doctor put a pang pahilab sa tiyan so that the baby will go down.But its not working still at 2CM only.
I was admitted at 5Pm still waiting for the baby to come down but she really didnt want to come down looks like she didnt want to go out my tummy hahaha.After a few hours ago the doctor visit me and asking if im ok or i feel what?i told that i havent feel any pain doc!and she I.E me again and still at 2CM.I have waited a long time .
In the morning my Husband came at the room asking why hasn't my baby come out yet.I was given pangpahilab sa tiyan a few times but nothing happened.So he was feel worried.The doctor said wait a little longer until it came down .Until noon but still dont really want to !So the doctor talked to my Husband again and said that its need to be cesarian.I was so hungry that time because it is forbidden to eat.Because they schedule me to an operation vie Cesarian-section.I
I felt so nervous when i heard Cesarian word hahaha i was thinking that they're going to cut my stomach .And also im thinking about the pain I'll feel when they start the operation.9:00pm is my operation schedule.And when that time came I was taken to the operating room ,and when im on the bed waaah i saw the things What the doctors used to cut my tummy Feeling so,so nervous !and the doctor was injected my back so that i wouldnt feel the pain when they start cutting My tummy so that my baby get them out.
Makes me scream when they injected my back hahaha.And after thet i feel.My whole body is numb and im feeling dizzy.I didnt know that they already begun the operation .I didnt felt the pain but i felt the incision in my stomach.Until i heard a child crying Finally my baby'out!At a weight of 3.6kg .I was really awake while they doing the operation.And then when the operation is done .I was taken to the room of those who gave birth.I also felt the pain at my stomach because anesthesia was gone already.
Its really hurts i cant move,the bed was cramped because i one bed 2 person lying there.Because there are only few beds there,and the others 3.When we were in bed,the doctor let my Husband out,because companions are not allowed there!which started the hardship i experienced.My stomach really hurts so much ,Then my baby started crying and then i couldn't move.They said maybe my baby was hungry thats why shes crying.Bottled milk is not allowed there its really need breastfeed.I endured the pain so that my baby could breastfeed.
And when it was my baby's check up time ,we found out that she needed antibiotics for 7 days ,because she had an infection.Its a pity that when the nurse start inject my daugher with swero because she cant fint the vien of my baby .Left and right they injected and when they cant find the vein at her hand they tried at her foot ,i felt crying that time seeing my Daughter.I could not handle that time ,so i went out of the room and only the nurse was Holding my baby.!She was crying so hard,I feel sorry for him that time!
When they successfully put swero at my baby ,the nurse returned it to me.We reached there for 2 weeks and that 2 weeks i havent sleep even hours cant ,bacause i need to watch here ,always and she's skin turned like yellow too so i need her to go out the room at pailawan nasa kabilang kawarto kasi yon.!Even though my stomach hurts so much,I try to stand up so that i can carry her!
I always carry her ,after when im tired i just sit down in the chair.!one day while i was carrying her,and i was sitting that time,I was so tired that i felt like i had fallen asleep.I was shocked because suddenly someone shouted that my baby was About to fall.Good thing that they saw!Its ok ,if you have companion there para may kapalitan naman sana sa pagbabantay ,but sad to say its not allowed.They can visit for a while only.
And finally when my baby's antibiotics is done ,i feel happy because we can Go home na.The suffering i experienced there will end finally.!So i said to my self that im not really going back there anymore.But we didnt pay anything there thats the exchange for suffering there because we didnt spend Anything!
**By the mercy of god we Also survived!**
Sometimes my Husband Fools me that he wants another baby,he wants a boy ,Hahaah but i answered him You can make It to other girls hahaha its not easy being pregnant!
Thats All thank you for reading!
#10th
April 09,2019!
Why i Choose SmartBCH than Other's?
So im Here again writing My 9th Article here in read.cash I hope everyone is Ok!I was just awake and thinking about what to write today.
I was starting joining about crypto year 2020 i guess.I saw a post in Facebook about airdrop so ill commented her post then She add me in her Group on messenger,I dont have any idea what is crypto one Of the member in her Messenger group asking if who wants to learn about crypto then i said i am interested about it!so he teached me Good thing that he's a kind person he is willing to teach other person even though im just new in there group at that time!he Told me about BSC network or bep20 !even though I'm having a hard time understanding but I'm forcing myself so that I know what I'm going to do with the newly released tokens, then I also don't need to just buy, look at the status of that token first and if it safe to buy.
Thanks god and somehow I understand a little bit, you're just inspired by the one who taught me, because he didn't really give me up even though I learned for a long time, I still have a lot of questions for him, I'm really thankful and I met that person.so that's how it was when I knew how to buy ill try it I went with them even though I had a small investment. My highest investment since then, buy token in bnb is 200 pesos, then the lowest is 50 pesos hahaha, I'm lucky that its value will increase, but sometimes I lose, I lose more times than I'm lucky,I just laughed when I remembered that, I said that my strong hands aren't always right, so now the contents of my trust wallet are all broken, but I'm still not losing Hope!I just kept saying that i will hold it because they just said hold and wait for it to rise. I have a lot of Hold tokens on the bnb network, like Feg, pig, freecoin, pitbull, surge, juld and etc.
There's a lot more to mention because those prices aren't there anymore, they're completely broken. One time the Feg I hold suddenly went up. I used to buy him for 100 pesos and then suddenly it reached 9000. I didn't sell them because they said there was still a chance to fly,so I let my pig token go up first, then it reached 13000 pesos, that's only 100 pesos, I'll invest it there, I was happy at that time, but what I did I didn't sell either because I told myself strong hands first until it fell, I really regretted that time ,but im not lossing my hope im still here waiting for it to increased again someday.
Looks all red hahahha poor wallet.It makes me feel bored to wait but no choice.For now i haven't buy any token on Bep20 because might be unlucky again !it is also difficult to negotiate randomly with the purchase so stop first to avoid scams.Then the gasfee at Bep20 is also high, the gasfee is even bigger than my investment hahaha.
Then One day SmartBCH was release .I said to myself that i will try it who knows i will be Lucky in there.I think Cats token was the first token release by the SmartBCH network.Sadly ived missed to join the free airdrop that time .The creator gave free Cats to everyone who wants waaahh Im sleeping that time,they are lucky to those whot got!Then ill join other telegram Of smartbch then one day One person asking if Who wants Free token then i drop my address immediately.
I was so surprised when i saw it in the morning Because its already have A price Wooot.That time it make me Jump because the price was not in a small amount yah not a small amount because that amount has reached 1 BCH yeah .Finally i have 1 BCH for the first time thats my Wish and goal to have 1 BCH the price of 1 bch that time was at 38,000 pesos.I was so lucky That day!
My first ever 1 BCH in my Wallet yeah and i was Shocked when i Have that i was so blessed !So i was did is i also gave to all my friends a Small amount Called Balato to them hehehe!After that i was continued exploring At smartBch network.finally I recovered the ones I lost on the Bep20 network, I really don't have the lucky ones there because it's just on smartbch💚The good thing about smartBCH is that its gas fee is super small every time you buy and sell tokens so you can afford it so smartbch isn't very well known yet because it's new but soon it will be recognized all over the world liKe Btc and others.
**My Achivements In SmartBCH(BitcoinCash)**
Yes and because I saved up with smartbch I was able to buy household items somehow I helped my husband with our daily needs.SmartBCh(bitcoinCash)really helped me a lot specially on this pandemic its really hard ,cause sometimes my husband dont have Work.
My first acvhivements ,I bought a sofa because of bitcoincash yeah so much thankful to god and Smartbch came our situation was very difficult at that time we were always running out of money because my husband's salary was not enough to pay the house bills.As in we are running out of money so i have no choise At Mangutang nalang store Even though i am Shy hehehe!Sa Madaliang salita Makapalan na ng Mukha🤣Kesa naman You will have nothing to Eat kaya UTANG is Life Me!
I bought durabox/wardrobe at my second achievesments yeah.Because we really dont have no place to put clothes Formally,so what i did i just put it into the cartoons,so as not to get messy .Thats why i also want to buy a durabox/wardrobe.When i saved up again I bought it!
At sa pang third achivements naman ay Napa simento ko ,tagalog na sulat ko kasi nahihirapan nako sa kalisod kaka english eh hindi naman ako magaling mag english parang Dudugo na ilang ko dito Mygod! So ayan naipaayos ko yong sa harap namin,dati kasi half lang nakasimento niyan kaya pag umulan naanggi .Kaya sabi ko talaga pag nagkaroon ulit ako ng savings ay ipapa ayos ko siya,And then because i was continued exploring with SmartBCH ,I was got saved bitcoinCash ,At yun naipaayos ko siya hindi pa siya totally finished Favorite ko talaga yong Kulay green kaya yan ang pinapintora ko sa labas .Balak namin lagyan pa ng Bakal sa labas papaclosed sana hehehe Soon yun na naman next target!.
Kahit di ako marunong magdrawing hahaha ,kaya tinry ko din ayan ang kinalabasan parang hindi pa pantay !
So thats all guys Because its already afternoon But we haven't eat our breakfast i was busy writing my Article hehehe i haven't cooked dish OMG!But i dont feel hungry for now !
*Sa Mga Taong Katulad ko na may Mga Gustong Gawin Sa Buhay wag lang Mawalan ng Pag-Asa Go lang Tayo Hanggang sa Makuha natin ang Gusto natin💚*
#9th
April 08,2022
*THANK YOU READER'S*
Talks About M.U
*With the passage of time the level and categories of relationships have increased there is what is called steady, officially they are on together, Also M u or so flirtatition status more than friends, less than lovers let's explore now the complex world of contemporary relationships.*
The Mysterious M.U
I have a co-worker who used to be my friend, he always talks about her lovelife, she said he has a crush on the guy, that guy is also his friend, she said that his feelings for him seem to grow-up .And the boy said too that they have a same feelings ,in short they love Each other.The actions that the boy is showing are like a boyfriend that they really are. It's just that they don't have a commitment because the boy still doesn't want to have a girlfriend because he might get hurt because the boy doesn't have as much time to allocate to him because he's busy with work.
But when the boy found out that someone was flirting with my friend, the boy got angry why my friend was flirting and he just didn't answer, she didn't want the issue to get worse because she said she had no intention of answering the person who courting her.
They also didn't talk for a few weeks when that happened. But they still got along. The boy also said to just wait. Sometimes I asked who his girlfriend really is. His answer was that I will be successful. ***The question is will I hold on to the words he left me that I will wait for him?****my friend Said.*
What is M.U?
*Make a relationship unofficially*
There is a feeling each other but no formal relationship. They are emotionally involved but can't be called boyfriend/girlfriend. Potential to just partner and wait for the right time to become true lovers. You can't be for many reasons if you're confused. in this set-up that's really it. because, there is no clear commitment.
Blurred/Chaotic conversation
Romance is only implicit or implied. It is not said directly. What is confusing in the situation is the attitude of the woman or man that they are already in a relationship but denies that they are not.*if you don't, why do you always text or call each other? why do you say i love you and i miss you? if not you why fence each other's emotional territory? the guy gets angry when a woman entertains another lover and the girl also gets angry when guy talks to others?* MU or multiple understandaing that the two are mentally unstable. don't know what really wants to happen.
**It's hard to hope**
This is because there is no real relationship. just assume you really are. no matter what happens you shouldn't be hurt because you haven't been a boyfriend don't be emo me in case someone's feelings change. "double-mindedness is dangerous", the doubt is the doubt.
**It's easy to say no**
This is why you shouldn't expect the relationship to last. There is no proper discussion.what is happening is that everyone is indebted to each other because there is no guarantee that their love will be returned.
**Intense hurts feelings**
This is what people will experience but their partner left because not everything is clear. They may just want to taste the excitement of this set-up. They believe for the moment what they don't know is that the girl/boy serious even if they are not serious about the solution. this intricate relationship is also M.U!
**Sober brain and temperament**
Adjust the attitude when it comes to relationships. Either you are serious about how you feel or not. No middle ground, I have a sign that you want to jump into relationships With boys: you don't flirt anymore why do you flirt with others if you plan to love him ? to girls: you won't mislead me why would you entertain others I want you to be your M U? stop the pseudo-relationship!
**Good talk**
I want you to have a destination MU needs to have clear expectations. talk about what is expected of each other. must be willing to show commitment to each other. if there is no relationship, there should be no special calls, exclusive walks, mushy texts and fencing each other .if you are, you are !if not you are not, don't torture yourself.
**Separate "U"**
yes, U! both of U do this if you need to stop the nonsense you started so you don't want to get hurt. Why can't wonder woman and superman be related? answer: Because they are not meant to be lovers but rather to be *"SUPERFRIENDS*"! if friendzone kayo, friendzoned! really don't insist on this just friends, no more no less. if you only want friends with him e di friends don't rely on yourself and your Ka-M.U!
#8th
April 07,2022
*Thank you for Reading!*
#1st-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-nfts-collectionopensea-589b94a0
#2nd-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/its-all-about-friendships-3ef03ea5
#3rd-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/life-in-province-school-days-5a42febf
#4th-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-experience-working-at-a-factory-fc074e57
#5th-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-first-earning-here-in-readcash-c7b813c3
#6th-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/before-you-say-i-do-e0a01922
#7th-https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/i-was-start-working-at-the-age-of-15-a9d7ac67
*LoveLots READERS* !!💚
"I was Start working At the Age of 15"
Hello everyOne i just want to share about my experiences working before .we have a neighbor who is looking for someone who wants to work as a maid in cebu so she asks me if I might want to work so I immediately answered him that yes because I can't go to school at that time because we were having a hard time then!so the next day we will travel immediately so that we can start work.
I also boarded a ship for the first time hahaha so the fear I felt at that time and the duration of the trip is still one night are you on the ship jusko really scary what I was thinking at that time was how come when a storm suddenly came to me we really had no escape because we were in the middle of the ocean, one night we were on a trip one night I also had no sleep because the waves were strong so I could feel the movement of the ship so I told myself I won't really go here again hahaha It's ok if it's 1 to 5 hours because it's fast, it's not like one night.
When we arrived at the house where we were working, our future employer spoke to us immediately. They are kind. They have three children. The eldest is 18 years old. The second is 17 years old. The youngest is 4 years old. They are also kind children. they and we were lucky to be there!My job there is to clean the house and when I'm done cleaning I watch over their youngest child at first I had a hard time taking care of her because he was so crying he didn't want to listen to me so his mom talked to her. her mom and dad were always away from home. cause they always visits their shops because they also have a poultry business and they also have a lot of staff who live in their house!
At first I had a hard time but after a long time I got used to it, because I also miss my parents especially its the first time I stay away from them.
When I see students going to school, I feel jealous of them because they can get in, but I work at a young age, I don't think I can do anything because I was born with nothing, it's just hard. I'm still lucky even though we were raised hard we and our parents are well and we are happy.And we are also A whole Family!
My cousins who are my co -workers are the one who cooks, when we finished our work we rested and we worked well there they were kind I reached there for a year my parents didn't let me go home I wouldn't leave there I was sent home because my mother got sick and needed someone to watch over her.My boss didn't want to send me home because there was no one to take care of their child, I couldn't do anything because my mother, I had to go home. I just told my boss that I would be back too.And when their daughter knoe that i was going to go home She cried!
When I got home, I saw that mama had lost weight. And we had to take her to the hospital because her back hurt and there was a lump on her back.
They said it started when they had a lump on Friday, they said they were washing in a cave and they said they saw a snake and then what they did they killed when they came home they said his back started to hurt.So we took mama to the Hospital, but sad to say we were not accepted at the hospital we took her to because they were not fully equipped so we needed to take her to the big Hospital fully equipped.We were very grateful when we were admitted to the hospital where we went for the second time, that was my first visit to the hospital, it was scary because we were right there in the emergency room. I saw a lot of bloody people.I am really afraid of Blood.
My mother also admitted for more than two months. The size of our bill at the hospital ,then we still don't have money anywhere we ask for help then we approach the municipality there well and Thanks god someone helped us.When we got out of the hospital, mama needed to maintain her medicine, her medicine was still expensive so papa thought of selling her small planted coconuts, to buy medicine.!so I told them I'll just work again so I can help someone buy medicine in case they run out, they agreed because one of our youngest was there to take care of him because my sister also worked.
so I couldn't go to school again, I planned to go to school at that time, but I had a problem so I worked again!
I got a job again in a store in Mac arthur samar It's a big store, a lot of customers are also tiring, especially on Sundays because there are so many people there, but I can still i always say to my self that i can do it for my parents. They had two stores when I was there for a long time. My boss told me that if i can manage there in the other store, they make my heart fat because they trust me.
I also stayed there for two years, even though it was tiring, I was still fighting there. I also celebrated my 18th birthday with them, it was fun because they still made an effort, we also spent half a day at work, the store closed because we went to the beach there we celebrated.I will never ever forget that day because it was my First time to drink Alak at nalasing ng Bongga ,hahaha at duon nag umpisa ang aking pagkalasinggera Joke🤣.
Im so tired today At naubusan nako ng English ,sumakit na ulo ko kaya tinagalog ko na i was using google translator though ayaw na niya sumonod sakin Looks it tired too like me!
I will end it up Here because my Husband called me and Laughing saying im ugly ,*he asked if did i sleep?why your face so Haggard??omy hahaha!!*
Thank you For Reading Fellas tell my next Article !
#7th
April 6,2022
#1st
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-nfts-collectionopensea-589b94a0**
#2nd
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/its-all-about-friendships-3ef03ea5**
#3rd
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/life-in-province-school-days-5a42febf**
#4th
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-experience-working-at-a-factory-fc074e57**
#5th
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-first-earning-here-in-readcash-c7b813c3**
#6th
**https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/before-you-say-i-do-e0a01922**
Before you Say "I DO"
Marriage should be the goal of every person who is dating .If one of the partners has no plans to get married,consider the relationship game over.Whatever the reason for those who do not believe in the idea of marriage ,it is still the way to make any relationship truly meaningful.Everyone belongs for someone whom they can grow old with.There is no real satisfaction in movable and dynamic relationships .People need to recognize the value of commitment.The decision to love someone with dedicatin and genuine loyalty.This can only thrive in the institution of marriage.
It is still true the Saying that marriage is not like a meal that,when it expires,is you can immediately spit out.When something is Broken,you fix rather you throw it away!Marriage s should not be solemnized if there is no intension to remain married for life,Many people get married without knowing its lifetime implication.!
Don't Rush into Marriage
Many of those who are eager to get married are not able to establish a good family due to lack of maturity in many things immature.People tend to be self-centered and incentive.I have witnessed many teenagers got married and immediately separate without even one person getting together.Meeting your wife/husband at a later age will decrease the prospects of you commiting a Mistake.Psychologist say that it is by the age of 25 that our personality stabilizes.
Many people make marriage an escape hatch.Some people suddenly get married because they broke up with their boyfriend/girlfriend,to escape family problems,Increase self-esteem ,are desperate to get marrie,because the rebel against their parents,and what other reasons.
*Can you just Live-in?*
According to the young adult fertility and sexuality (YAFS 3) survey of the UP population institute, Filipinos' perceptions of marriage have changed, 33 percent of men are in favor of live-in relationships compared to 10.8 percent of women. annulment cases in office-general every year.The rate increases by 40 percent over the past 10 years from 4,520 to 8,282 in 2020.more favor for women in the law to allow divorce in the country (40.2%) while only (8.4%) for men.
Cohabitation or Live-in partners is unstable.It undermines real commitment which can hurt the couple and thier children eventually.In my opinion, even having a pre-nuotial agreement is not good practice because there is an immediate presumption of preperation Many think that a relationship laboratory live-in set up That it is better to live-in than to get married to find out if it will really last the relationship because when separated it is said there are not too many hang-ups wrong wrong in a study done in america, more than 80% of those who live in end up in separation.
Marriage is an honorable act.God instituted marriage,because he considered that it is not good for man/woman to be alone unless you are specially called to singlehood.It was god's idea and symbolized the relationships between christ and the Church.Cohabitation is a form of fornication which does not please god.Many who live in it should be tolerated if you want a lasting relationship, should not keep in mind that the relationship is only temporary there is no guarantee that a live-in relationship will continue in marriage because there is missing element real commitment.
*Checklist*
Need proper preparation if we want to enter married life .failure to prepare for marriage can weaken the foundation for your fiture family.find a person to love who shares same interests with you.stable marriages are those involving two people with many similarities. The more you have the same characteristics, the greater your satisfaction level when you get married. but before the wedding bells finally ring, there are things you need to look at.
*Your Commitment to your partner*
Ask yourself could i spend the rest of my life with this person? can you love him despite his weaknesses and bad experiences and weaknesses? do you find yourself unhappy if he is not in your life? are you sure have you proven that "he/she" is what the lord provides for you? if you answered "yes" to all these questions, you may now consider marrying that person. Part of a strong relationship is honesty and open acceptance of weakness of each other.Commitment in marriage means loving your partner faithfully.Marriage is permanent, nothing is left.You must also be ready to pay the price that the relationships may bring.
*Your decision to Leave yours parents*
Are you already emotionally-separated from your parents?You need to understand this principle because you will "cleave" to your spouse for life.
Mama's boys and papa's girls are not ready to get married yet. Parents also need to resolve their empty nest syndrome or separation anxieties. when their child is married, they are no longer the priority but their child's wife. However, this does not mean that children will forget the parents who nurtured and raised them. It is not a matter of amount of money but of the ability to stand on their own two feet.There must be an attitude of independence To be able to face the requirements of marriage. There is no Peter Pan Syndrome (for those who do not want to grow-up) The life of a young man/woman is no longer possible when you are married. There is no more vacancy for others in your heart. wife is the first focus. she should be your best friend and ultimate confidante.
*Your responsibilities as Husband/wife*
Internalize God's design in marriage as revealed i Ephesians 5.God has a definite role for the Husband and Wife.for a man, you must be willing to dedicate your life to your wife like the love that Christ showed on the Cross. To women, love your husbands and submit to them as you submit to the Lord. couples to raise their children morally. Part of the home mother's responsibility is to take care of the children as they grow up.
*Financial status*
One of being married life makes you stressfull is the issue of money. This is often the reason why people are hot-headed in the house. When you have a hole in your pocket, you have a lot to do and have to think hard about how to live.Also the couple who should be spending time with each oter may find themselves pressured to earn money.so there is no time for each other .The couple should just have a stable job and income source.Sadly, many prepare only for the wedding and not for marriage. Spend a lot of time and money preparing for a day at the event but look beggar afterwards.
Ideally,we should be deb't-free before marriage.You must think beyond the wedding day.After marriage, will you also live with your parents? Will they still feed you? Of course not right? Because you already have a family of your own, you should not depend on your parents. They can help you start your married life, but don't abuse their kindness. family planning is standing on our own two feet. Make sure you don't always depend on your parents because you also have a family of your own!
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*Thank you Again!*
My First Earning Here in Read.cash
have a good day everyone ,I am 1 week user of read.cash i have 4 article Im not good in writing but im Trying my best nothing is impossible ,someday i will learned ill just keep on writing!I'm really having a hard time making an article, I don't know what to write so I read another article first, when I read their English hahaha so I took my husband's cellphone and downloaded a google translator so I could start writing, it's really hard to write in English especially since I'm weak in English, I'm really thankful that I have a translator.I Wrote my First article about my NFTs **https://read.cash/@Zyrel04/my-nfts-collectionopensea-589b94a0 .**
And then todays ago ,i was so Much happy when Rusty visit my article ,i said finally he noticed me ,so i was inpired to write another article!I don't think he'll notice my article, but he's already visited me and I'm also thankful to my friends who supported me, sis @Indojongeren *who always tells me that I can do it,just keep your spirit Writing* !She's a supported friend even though we only met on Facebook but he is very kind, so I'm thankful that I have a friend who is kind!If you have good friend, don't let him go, especially the one who considers you a brother/sisters, when you have a problem, he/she is always there to talk to, even in the chat, he/she always gives advice. We are lucky if we have a friend like this.!
I was happy when im so this in my Notification ,beccause it was my first time hehehe.It's just a small thing for others but for me this is a huge help, because I don't expect him to notice me because of the number of users here on read.cash!so all of us who are new here, let's not lose hope, just trust ourself, just write and write until someone will appreciate you!I used to know nothing about read.cash before and I also don't have any plans to enter because I don't know how to write, especially since I need a long story to write, so I thought, *can I do anything, ?or maybe I'll try.*
And I'm happy with the result of my writing because someone can appreciate it, even if my English isn't straight hahaha sometimes it's different when the translator translates when maybe he's tired hehehe!
Then earlier when I woke up I looked at my account on read.cash and that's what surprised me rusty visited my article again!Hopefully it will continued .It's really inspiring when I see it like this, so I still push myself to write, Until I learn the type I can write even im not using translator hehe in my Dreams😆!
Up to here, I'm sorry to tell everyone, I can only write for a short article today because my head hurts thinking about what I'm going to write hahaha.I hope later or tomorrow I can think of something to write.
I also need to earn money to help my husband. It's hard when I run out of allowance, like now we're running out. It's good that I still have a little bit of bitcoin cash left, so I sold it first so I can buy food.also lacking in the budget because of The expensive price then Gas increased, my husband also has difficulty because of the expensive gas now !I hope one day the prices go down huhu it's hard to run out of budget, you don't know where to get it so you can buy food.
Thank you For reading!
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