for four years, my friend Maria (not her real name) thought that her three -year romance with her bf was going straight to the wedding. The wind changed when she felt the heat gradually disappear. of the man's arrogance towards her. He rarely texts her, and dating is rare. He tries to ignore it (maybe just really busy). Until he receives his Bf's sentence that there is no real "spark" of love in his heart.a few weeks passed without communication. The man could not give any reason for the disappearance of love. maria could not imagine that she did something wrong to leave her Bf. She started to struggle with depression. Their love story ended without proper closure. maria was hurt so much, she couldn't concentrate on work and she was overwhelmed by what happened.

Like maria's experience, there are many zombies in the lovelife of many. Other loves do not want to die even if you want to bury them in the deepest part of the ocean. It is said that it is difficult to bury living things. They will rise and rise again and again. They will visit again.

It's torture for many to move on because of good memories that are hard to shake from your brain. It's hard to just throw them in the trash. Separation anxiety kills especially if you've always been together before and it's part of your system to see his face. Mannerisms and even his weaknesses.You have been attached emotionally.Your souls have been cleaved together that you find separation as ripping your whole personality apart.An inevitable effect of separation is the feeling of "bankruptcy" .Feeling you have been robbed of so much time, emotions and money because the relationship lasted but also had no destination.

Love Germs

Sometimes the relationship becomes like a newspaper or magazine publication, Issues multiply! Why do so many separate and what are the reasons for separation?

A relationship dissolves because something is Wrong

First, there is a wrong perspective and attitude. Entering into a relationship not because you want to get married in the future but to solve immediate needs.

second, we also make mistakes with the person we love. they are the ones who don't know how to appreciate the love we give. As a rule of thumb, avoid pouring and relying your personality on your partner. save for yourself. Love yourself first. you must realize your worth in the eyes of god.

Third, there are also wrong times and opportunities. Even if love is right, if it is not in the timing, there will definitely be a problem to follow. it is difficult to insist on something when it is not yet time to bear bitter and bitter fruit.

Falling out of love is a conscious choice.not all relationships end because it is not "lord's will" let's remember that the lord's plan is good for all lovers only and many follow their own will, selfishness prevails and forgets loyalty to the lover so -eend the relationship.

• Caring for a relationship is like growing a plant. You need to water it every day if possible, talk about it so that it will bear fruit easily. When one is tired of showing love and it continues and gets used to it, watch out for death signs. also "germs" that need to be killed in that relationship if we want it to be stable and last.

Thank you for reading!