Is it Ok for a woman to Make Court a Man?

A girl of eight years when she liked her friend. Now that she has graduated from college, she is now ready to "bring the ship into the shore". Her question is, Is it ok if i told him my feelings? to the man how does she feel? times have changed.Many women no longer believe that they should be the ones approached and wait for the initiative of guys when it comes to courtship.

Maybe they grow old , when they don't want to. So others, start flirting online. To the progressive women I know, they won't hesitate to tell you, "can you be my boyfriend? Maybe it's not bad for a woman to flirt with a man. were born with equal rights and freedom.this includes suungin the things that will bring happiness to us.I have always maintained that courting is a social construct, a cultural practice.There are some countries like (Bangladesh, india, Sri Lanka ) performs ARRANGED MARRIAGE that are not acceptable in our culture. It occurs where there are more women and fewer men in the community. One reason why this type of marriage persists is because it is considered an effective way to last. relationship, due to the involvement of the parents in their child’s marriage.

Women give DOWRY or gifts to the man's family. And when you don't have it, it will be difficult for you to get married. On the other hand, many are relieved because this cultural practice limits the family life of many women. Their slogan : "I just want you, I don't want dowry! Only time will tell when this tradition will break.

But this is my advice to Filipinos in the country: You must be sensitive to the culture of your community.

You must be prepared for the consequences that you will take and the stigma that aggression can bring to you.the terms "SLUT" may be applied to you, flirting, or female release. In the current condition of the Filipino culture, it remains ugly in the eyes of many that the woman will crawl to get the sweet "Yes" of the man.

Most filipino men are not approved of women's blatant sarcasm.men call it machismo,but for them courtship is the guy's business .The womans are created adam's ribs.Adam is the one to look for,of his missing rib.This is the supported by the common attitude of many women.Although they declare that they should also have the right to woo,many of them are not willing to do what they say,easier said than done.

• Think girls,

when you're a lover,can you handle what you do?

Are you ready to free up and pay for food on the date?

Are you ready to pick up the boys at their homes and let the parents know?

can you also give in to the passions of men?

Can your ride with the trip of there life?

you have the decision you must also be ready to be basted!

NOTE:

There also a lot of choosy guys and dont casually give their sweet "YES".Also be ware of guys who are exploitative.Tell your inlive but they will just make you s** playmate.

Lover's Online

The world has become a much smaller place.You have more choices if you can enter the world of online dating.Now,you just go to the computer/mobile phone and register on a dating website and you can find your future partner.Not everyone looking for partner other is just desperate ,bored with life or just hunting se* buddy.I have some friends who found their significant other through yahoo chat/messenger.They are now happily married although there have been no extensive studies on the impact of online relationships on the resilienceof marriages ,it remains a popular eay to have a relationship.

But we warned,Its hard to have a relationshio through simple text and chat.What you think is the gentlemen/lady in the picture and SMS is probably a bad person in real life.lying is also a trend when answering online match survey-making websites.

We should be aware of several guidelines

• FIRST, do not give trust and your personal information while there is no proper relationshio.Remain anonymous until you are sure of the true identity of the person you are talking to.Our technology is so strong now that you think its human,but the truth is its a robot.

• SECOND, go slow dont fall inlove quickly.Many teenagers say that they have fallin inlove with a guy/girl they only met on facebook or forwarded to text them on their celphone.Do not immediately believe the information given to you.Avoid meet-up without knowing fully the personality of the person you are talking online.

• THIRD, there needs to be offline interaction as well.The person you see is still different than the avatar product online.Start getting know each other in online vedio chat and if you ever meet,plan the meet-up properly.The first meeting should be in a public places to avoid bad incidents.Your goal is to get know each other more.

• OVERALL,you need to be careful when using social networking sites(SNS).Be smart and dont be overwhelmed by high-tech scammers.The internet is a juungl,you must know the strategies of survival so that you dont fall prey to bad people in cyberspace.

Thank you for Reading!

May 4,2022