I asked my bestfriend to pick some questions on this site https://www.teenvogue.com/story/20-questions-ask-best-friend-become-closer-relationships. I just want to know what are the things that she wanted to know more about me and she chose six questions out of seventy-two questions. These questions aim to have a closer relationship, and so that we can get to know each other better. Sometimes questions clarify everything and have the power of giving us knowledge about anything.
These are the chosen questions by my bestfriend and my answers:
1.What embarases you the most and/ or what's been your most embarrasing moment?
There are many actually, but the most embarrasing moment that I couldn't forget was that I accidentally texted or replied one my teacher in elementary, instead of sending the message to my frenemy who annoyed me that time I accidentally sent it to my teacher. The message went like this "Che walang hiya ka, sana di ka makapasa sa exam" " How dare you! I hope you won't pass the exam.". I thought I was replying to my friend, maybe I was confused to their names it almost similar florie and flory. My frenemy fooled me even more when she found out what happened.
2.What's your biggest fear?
My biggest fear is facing people. Most of the time I feel unwanted that's why I avoided being with other people. Also I am afraid of being used, I am the person who can't say no when someone ask me anything or what and I don't want to disappoint them. That are the things that I want to overcome, saying no, when I can't do or give their favor on me. I guest when you are shy, people will take the chance to use or abuse you.
3.How do you like to be comforted when you're sad or upset?
When I am sad or upset understand me, I want to be alone for sometime because I need space, time to think and asses myself. I know its a big help to talk with someone you trust but I don't want them to be sad also, I don't want to be a burden to them, but if I can't handle my problems anymore thats the time that I will open my problems. Who would want to be a burden right?
4. What's your all time favorite memory?
My favorite all time memory are that, climbing trees together with my siblings, taking a bath at the river, even the weather was hot, we don't care about it. Climbing mountains to get cashew, duhat, mango, cassava, and banana. Our uncles got mad at us because, the fruits that we got were not yet ripe. We also ignored our parents who were mad at us because we didn't notify them and they looked tired looking for us haha. They thought we had been kidnapped because that time uso ang kuhanan ng bata. We enjoyed taking fruits even its not for us, luckily it was owned by our uncles and they understand us, unlike our parents , they really got mad at us. Now that we are adult, I don't think that those things will happen again because some of my siblings already settled here in Manila.
When was the moment in your life you laughed the hardest?
My cousins and one my sister are talkative and joker I guest they got me with their jokes..
What do you do when no one else around?
When no one else around, I take the chance to sing and dance haha lol. I want to do the things that can't do when people are around me. I am wild when I am alone. I love silent place, that's the time that I'm going to bring out books that I want to read. Some people get easily bored when no one else around them but for me its okay for I know how to entertain myself but not all the time hehe lol.
I remember I accidentally texted my uncle and it was meant for my ex-boyfriend! I will not state what the message contains. Haha. About singing, makapal mukha ko e. Sa dance pag required sumasayaw naman din ako haha. Kaya ang ginagawa ko pag walang nakakakita, ewan ko. Hahaha umiiyak siguro. 🤣