@Yzza0625
Self Doubtfulness
**November 17, 2021** *Hello read family. How are you all today?* This article is kinda a rant from me. I will apologize in advance if you don't like this write up of mine, but I just want to let out what I feel. ***Have you tried to doubt yourself. I guess some of us doubted the capabilities and capacities in oneself in different things. But what are reasons or what triggered the doubtfulness of yourself? Is it an internal or external factors?*** Early this morning, when I opened my account here on readcash, I read articles that is in my notification. I like what I have read for it was really a pleasant one. When I read the comments below, there was a comment that caught my attention. In his or her comment, I don't know if his a boy or a girl, stated that he/she likes the content of the article (which I agreed too). But he or she added that "not like the other writers that only focuses on their selves and it is not worth reading for". Though its not what exactly he/she stated but the meaning or the thought was like that. What triggers me most was the word "**Worthless".** I was a little aback of what he/she stated. What's wrong with sharing about yourself or your daily activities? I didn't like the word he/she used there because for me it's kinda off. As a writer, we have the right to share or write whatever we like as long as it cannot hurt or degrade someone. With all honesty, I was hurt a little for I am a kind of writer here who always share most of my everyday activities. After reading the comment, it made me think that perhaps all my articles are worthless for it was all about me and my daily activities in life. I started to doubt my capabilities in writing. Well, everytime I hear or read something like that it always makes me feel and think that I am not good in writing. Comments like that were the reason why I didn't like to participate competitions before when I was in high school. All the time, I am afraid to judge by other people. To be judged is what I really don't like. I am a kind of person who always mind about what other people will say about me. That is why I always mindful of what I am doing. Always mindful of everything I do and say. Growing with much criticism around me made me lessened my self-esteem and confidence. The reasons why I deprived myself in doing what I loved. The deprivation that I made for myself leads me to much regrets. I should have done what I love before. I should have done dancing for that's what I love the most. But insecurities devour me for I am afraid to be criticize and be judged. But today, I want to say to all of you who read this, and to myself as well, don't mind what other people say. Let's continue what we are doing. Let's continue sharing our life because I believe that each one of us has beautiful stories to share. Let's not be affected by what other people's comments. If they don't like our article, they are free to skip and not read it. **Our stories are worth it not worthless.** I am deeply sorry if my article today is not that good. I am swayed by my emotion at the moment I write it. I seldomly rant or express my emotions. I hope you'll understand. Before I end this, I want to express my deepest gratitude to all of you who supported me continuously. I am deeply honored and thankful to all of you guys. Also, I like to extend my million thanks to sir @King_Gozie for renewing his sponsorship. Thank you so much sir for the continuous trust that you vested in me. Let's spread Love guys.🥰 **Lead image is mine with the use of Canva and Foto Grid app.**
25 comments
Each article that made by writer all of it are Worthy. It is the person who appreciate it or not. Not to the point that will hurt other writers. I feel bad when I read this, whoever that person says that, he/she should be mindful in all comments he/she wants to give.
True. Nakakabawas sa confidence kasi pagganyan. Why not appreciate na lang di ba. Pinaghirapan naman ng lahat ang bawat article na pinapublish.
True, ate pinaglaanan ng time at effort para makagawa ng article.
Nasaktan naman ako dito Sis, nakakalungkot na ito pala tingin niya if mag share tayo about sa life natin. Actually gustong-gusto kung basahin about personal life ng author, yung makakarelate ka.
May makukuha din naman tayong lessons pag ganun sis di ba. Baka mataas lang standards niya.
Na curious ako kung kinsa ate pero no need to worry ate. All articles are worth it to read. Depende lang talaga sa tao if di niya nagustuhan pwede naman niya dili basahon without saying anything as a respect nalang sad. Ang importante ang ato article nakapagpalipay sa uban tawo at wala ta nakapagpasakit.
Mao lagi Lang. Pasagdan na lang natu. Naa man gihapoy mamasa sa atung mga gipanghimo. Pasagdan na lang natu ng mga tag-as ug standards.
Mao gayud ate. Pasagdan nalang. Ganahan gani ko mubasa about sa life updates ate..
Self doubt doesn't lead to anything good. You don't know whether you're capable until you do it, stop doubting and do it
That is right. We should trust our capabilities.
The one who said that articles about our daily lives are stupid. Didn't s/he research what read.cash is? This is a crypto blogging platform, not an educational, informative, or news site. Naturally, since this is a blogging platform, we can share whatever we want to write. Don't get affected by what they say, as long as you're article wasn't plagiarized, that's fine.
Very correct. We can write anything we want as long as other readers can learn one or two things from them. I do learn a lot and apply them in my life.
Same. That's why I like articles which deals with life because I can learn and relate.
True sis. Bahala na sila kung hindi gusto ang article. Pwede naman nila hindi basahin.
Kaya nga, eh. Skip na lang nila kapag di nila trip.
Ouch naman! Grabe naman siya. Mapanakit ay..😅😂 Pero, keber, ma.stress ra atung bangs Mamsh uie..Pero, bitaw, nasakitan man sad ta'g bali wamport aning storyaha.. Paita..🥲
Mao lagi mamsh uy. Medyo nasakitan bitaw ko pagkabasa nako ganina. Pero duh sagdi ra lamang mamsh.
I am glad I came across this article of yours. Why would he or she says that? Does he or she not read personal stories of the richest men or women before? We get inspired and learn a lot when people tell us about their stories and daily activities. I personally love reading articles like that because I learn one or two things from them. Do not doubt yourself at all because whether you like it or not, People won't agree with you in any ways. Just let's continue to do what we know how to do and ignore whatever People say. If he or she do not learn from such article, that is his or her business.
Samok sie mem no? Unsaon na laman ko ani nga puro rajod story sa ahong kinabuhi jusko. Duh pasagdan oy waman ta gibawalan sa read mag share sa ato day to day na life
Mao nay giingon girl "we cannot please everybody". Pasagdan ui. Mas nindot ning atonf personal ang mashare ky from the heart jud. Makrelate ang kasagaran nato dinhi. Ok rna girl. Ajw tagda kay usa ra sija kita dghan ta. Hehehhe laban lang. 😁
Mao lagi girly..bahala na sila. Naa man gihapoy mamasa sa atung mga gipanghimo.
We are all entitled to our own opinions sis and we just have to ignore those opinions of others that don't serve us well or that make us doubt ourselves :) Hindi siguro mahilig sa personal stories yung nagcomment ng ganon hihi
Oo nga sis. Ignore na lang. Iba-iba din naman kasi taste ng mga tao. Kaya push pa rin.
Sometimes we have those kind of days nga mag emote ta and feel like we are not valid. Then again, we just have to get up and find our way back to positivity. ❤
mind their own business nalang unta sis noh.total wala my pugos if dli sila ganahan sa mga nabasa nila eh di dli nila tiwason ug basa.Mao ny giingon nga lahi lahi man ta ug trip ang ang pud ug mgsuwat ta ug mga articles nga dili ta suhito so much better kanang unsa gud gusto nato. maayo nalang gani ko wa koy kebs sa mga ipang istorya sa ubang tawo .Ako motto sis "this is my life I will roll it the way I want it"ug wa sila kaoyon problema na nah nila