The feeling of being ghosted. Ahuhuhu.
First of all I would like to thank users for giving me idea of what to write hahaha. You know thinking about topic everyday is hard and it's a relief when you find an article like question and answer portion that you can copy and answer too. As they say it's like a day saver. So yeah , I saw it on @ExpertWritter a couple of days ago and then as she said she saw it on @Zhyne06 and here I am sharing some of my experience but I will make it English instead of our native language.
So let's start!
Well , I don't know actually if I can call it ghost because he came back after a couple of years haha but I will share it here. So I met a guy on Facebook , he's from Pangasinan. I don't know exactly why we became friends in Facebook but I just find him commenting on my post and making a good advice like he's so matured. Then as the days go by we chatted each other and get to close with him but I always called him Kuya he's ahead on me like 5 years. We discovered that we are in working in Manila. He's working in one of the famous accounting firm in the Manila and I am working in Ayala that time. So we decided to meet in Pasay , it's only a short period of time because I am not comfortable. We just ate kwek kwek that time haha. Then after that meet up he asked me if we can meet again and he said he wants to go on BGC High Street. That time I thought that place is like a pasyalan ng mga sosyal and I am not comfortable hanging out there because I am just simple type of girl. I said no to his invitation and lied on my reason. He thought I don't want to see him just like that.
After than incident he became cold and disappear totally. I admit I missed him because he's been good to me but as a girl I cat asked him why. So years passed. He chatted me again on his new account. I have a boyfriend that time which is my husband now. We texted each other and asking how life after so many years. He asked me if he can go to my office after shift and he will give me a ride but still I said no because I have a boyfriend.
Our last conversation was when me and my boyfriend had a cool off and he said to me " bakit kasi hindi nalang ako , palagi naman ako nandyan for you " . To be honest I really admire this man because he's smart , he's accountancy graduate and that time he's working on JP Morgan and Chase Co. and that's my dream company. I dont know what wrong with me why I didn't entertain him maybe because he's kinda sosyal and I belittle myself.
I did it many times hahaha that's why I have 6 ex boyfriend but as for this I will share my experience of being friendzone haha. But I remembered I already shared this one so I will skipped this haha.
A little commercial..
Sadly I can't able to continue this one guys as I need to do something. I mean I wrote this earlier when the kids were sleeping and because the time of my publish change I save it as a draft and publish it 7 PM. I recieved an unexpected chat from my high school classmates inviting me to his son's birthday now that's why even if I want to continue to answer the remaining question I can't because as of this moment we will be preparing and waiting for my other classmates response and signal if we can go to the house of our classmates.
Maybe I will continue it tomorrow hehe. Thank you for reading and Godbless .
Pag life or social status na ang involved, mahirap yan kalabanin eh. May mga factors talaga na i consider kase pag ipilit, maraming mangialam.