I don't like flowers and chocolates on hearts day. Most of us girls like being treat as special during Valentines day. Mostly we are expecting something from our loveones like flowers , chocolates , cakes and other sweet gestures like greeting card or even greeting you a happy hearts day. Am I weird if I will say I am not into like that? I don't want a flower during Valentines since it will withered after a couple of days. I don't want some chocolates because I am not into sweets. That's I always said to them but deep inside ofcourse I want to feel special but not in a ways of giving me flowers and chocolates. I am a person who loves DIY. I will appreciate if you will give me a valentine's card that made with love or a hand made letter on Valentine's day or anything DIY stuffs. I have long intros you know , it's three paragraph already hahaha. My topic for today is about the first valentine's day with my husband before we are in relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. Like what I said I always said that I don't want flowers and chocolates on Valentines. That time he asked me about it and I said I don't want. When I say I don't want it doesn't mean that you will not put an effort on that day haha. Like us the flowers and chocolates are the only thing that can make a girl happy that day? So after my shift in my work me and my officemate went to Glorietta because we are walking in the bridge of the mall going to EDSA and while we were walking I bought some valentine's cupcake in brownies unlimited and I will give it to boyfriend. The cupcake is so cute because there's a lot on the top of it and put endearment is love.
He will go out to work by 4 PM that's why I will wait him in the Market Market Taguig. As a girl I am thinking that time if he has some gifts and surprise for me but when he came it's looks like an ordinary day haha. My mood changed and my husband knew me very well. He knows that I am not okay that's why he asked me why I am not okay , even if I told him I'm okay he will said I am not. Then he said is that because I have no flowers and chocolates for you? You said you don't want that that's why I didn't buy. I remain silent and not answering him. He said I will buy you some flowers now but I told him no needs because I don't want flowers. He asked me if I want to eat in giligans because he knows that I love sisig there. We went to Giligans and order some sisig and chicken barbecue then give him the cupcake. He said sorry to me but he also said don't get mad and tell him frankly what I feel.
We also went to blue magic but I told him not to but me any stuff toys. Then we went to the heart statue and took a picture on it so that we have remembrance for Valentines.
Also last February 2018 , I am already pregnant with my son but didn't know it yet. That's the moment when people noticed that I'm getting fatter. And maybe because of that I became too emotional.
Last night he said Love I don't have any gifts for you this coming Valentines and I said it s okay and I understand. I am not that kind of girl before who will make tantrums just because he didn't give any gifts. Last year he surprise me with love box and a heart donuts and made an article last year.
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Same sis. Gusto ko rin mga DIY π Buti pinaranas sakin ng partner ko. Same lang din tayo, di nagtatantrums kapag walang nabigay ang partner. Malawak pag iisip natin sis para sa partner natin βΊοΈ
Oo dina Tayo immature haha.
Yezzz sis hahaha.
Pabebe talaga tayong mga babae minsan noh, hahaha.. Ang cute nyo dun sa heart photo nyo.
Dinga nakacenter mommy. Nagpapicture lang Kasi kamii sa tao dyan haha
That's exactly, a picture of social media where girls shared a post of their BF giving gift or expensive material, I found some comments in there that says, It just pressure to their BF, is really that matters that man should bring something special?. Nowadays people will just define the relationship that could be worth sharing on their social media, it's not themself but what others think to react upon posting it. Hard reality again.
That's me a couple of years ago hahaha. When I thought everyone needs to know what's my life going π€£
I also love receiving letters in any occasions instead of material things β€οΈ
That's more sweet diba hehe
I'm not fond of chocolates too miss yen but I love flowers. I don't know but I felt it miss yen. Last year my partner gave me a chocolate even I don't like it but he didn't aware. It's not important that your partner giving you some surprise gifts or not miss yen. The most important you are happy celebrating the love month even in a simple way and having also a healthy relationship.
Totoo Yun. Importante e kayong dalawa
Di rin ako mahilig sa chocolates or anythimg na sweet madam. If flowers naman, pwede na rin. Lakas maka babae. Preferably, we'll go to the cinemas nlng and watch movie or just a movie date nga lang sa bahay.
Mahilig ka sa movies no..
I'm not fond or flowers and sweets on valentines day haha or hindi talaga ko sis sanay na tumatanggap ng mga ganyan galing sa iba hahah nakatanggap namn na ko nyan pero di ako ang kumain kundi magagling kong friends hahaha.
Sana all diba binibigyan din ng friends hehe
Ai Mali pala basa ko. Friends mo Ang nakain haha
Hahahhaa oo sis pero namimigsy din namn sis yung isa kong friend lahat kami di nalilimutan bigyan psg Valentines haha pati letter jusko inaasar na namin sabi ba naman samin babawiin na lang nya kung magrereklamo pa kami hahaa cute.
Di ako materialistic na tao din. Haha ayoko din ng flowers or ano paman sa Valentine's day pero kung sa chocolate okay haha favorite ko kasi talaga yung dark chocolate e. Ang mahalaga naman sainyo ate yen eh mahal ninyo ang isa't-isa.
Totoo hehe.
Whatsoever i am being given on valentines day i accept it with joy no matte how small it is
Make it a family day n lng to go out together khit sa park or wherever you want to spend the day filling it with memries
I watched a movie and there was this guy that did a steel flower for his girlfriend it won't fade off
Naku sissy 8 yrs kaming mag bf/gf ni husband ko now, never akong nakatikim ng kahit na ano sa tuwing valentines day..hahaha..pero hindi din kasi ako materialistic..meron o wala keribels lang..hindi din ako nag eexpect na from him kasi hindi sya talaga romantic type na tao...hahaha..
May ganon talagang guy e
Truth...heheh..pero sa akin, yung loyalty ang pinakaimportante...