Am I an empty wife?

November 12, 2022

10:59 PM.

Hello guys. A late evening to all. I hope you had a great Saturday 😘

Earlier I am browsing my Facebook feed and I saw a post with a topic about "indicators that your wife is empty" and I got interested to read it. Based on what I read seems that the creator of the post is a counselor for married couples and he stated that during counseling session 99 percent of wife were empty.

So whats the indicator that a wife is empty. I will also do a self evaluation as a wife in this article.

SHE DOESN’T DREAM ANYMORE

On the very first question. I am not this one as I have many dreams in life and you know that. Sometimes I feel discouraged and demotivated but it doesn't mean that I don't dream anymore.

SHE’S BECOMING MORE INSECURE

I'm not relatable to this as I am not a fan of comparing oneself to others in terms of beauty and body. I have my own beauty and Im happy and contented with it though I know in myself that I changed a lot when I became a mother its fine with me.

NOTHING SEEMS TO EXCITE HER ANYMORE

I am always feel the excitement during my husband's rest day as I know I will have him the whole day. I still feel the excitement on everything we did and as I was typing this I am looking at him. He is sleeping now 🤣

**SHE AUTO-PILOTS**

Sometimes I feel this especially when you are so bored with your everyday routine as a mom. So what I did is to think of something that can change my daily routine. For me it's up to the person when you want to have this kind of auto pilot thingy.

SHE ISOLATES HERSELF

Im guilty with this but it's my choice because I am an introvert. And you know I have you all guys ❤️ that's why even if I isolated myself in real life, I have a virtual life.

SHE’S DEPRESSED AND LONELY

I feel anxious and depressed but I never felt that I'm alone. If my husband is not around I have my son who cares for me. Maybe Im depressed but it's on other things not on our marriage.

SHE DEVELOPED A ROTTEN ATTITUDE

Thank God I have a Godly husband who taught me to be a better person. I know I'm talkative at times but that's all. You never see us fighting and cursing each other even if we are having a misunderstanding. Sometimes I am having a breakdown and I'm exploding but it's not a rotten attitude.

SHE LOOKS 20 OR 30 YEARS OLDER

Do I look 30? or older? Anyways I'm 30 years old now and I know I look older because of stress that's why I am taking stress tabs 🤣

This is me last year. See the difference 🤣

Based on my answer am I an empty wife?