@Xzeon
Are You being unsatisfied with your Appearance?
This is @Xzeon again my beloved readcash friends. Let me greet you with a shining shimmering splendid day/night everyone. 😁 Everyday, when you face the mirror, do you somehow not satisfied the way you look in your reflection in the mirror? When sometimes, on the other side of your mind you think that some parts of your body isn't right? Well, there are people who thinks the same as you do.They are never satisfied the way they look. That on some point they envy their friends on having such beautiful face, nice body shape, light skin complexion, etc. Everything we see in the mirror, are the things we need to accept. If there are some that can be change, well, good but don't get obsessed on something you can't change. In the first place why do you think you are ugly, or why do you find your figure so thin or too fat? Reasons why we find ourselves imperfect: 👉 Parents' influence - If a mother/father is obsessed with their image, that happens to their son and daughter also. 👉 Peers - young people mostly influence their peers by commenting negative views about their looks. This drives them to change themselves into something they think is desirable to fit in with the group. 👉 Low self-esteem- one who adores his/her own body image always expect positive reaction from others about his/her look. 👉 Strong influence of media - Media has a strong magnet that pulls young people and contaminates their mind. Being a fan of a certain celebrity with desirable image makes the young ones to copy them and resulting to frustration when they realize that the possibility is impossible. You don't need to change anyway. The most important is you are healthy. Being overly concerned about how you look can be dangerous. Watch your attitude and be realistic, if you have insecurities you will feel bad about thinking negative thoughts about yourself. Remember that "Man sees what appears to the eyes; but God sees what the heart is." Being pretty/handsome can attract attention easily but that is just an outside quality. What people remember the most is your inner beautiful quality. And you can find true friends through that qualities. Because no matter how you look like there are always some people who thinks you are beautiful inside and out. What's in you that you think you wanna change? Mind sharing it here in the comment box. I want to hear from you 😊 Happy reading!!!
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No.. I am not. Im satisfied with what i have. Because God give me this and i accept this even im ugly for the other i know i beautiful in my own. Nice article by the way. Keep it up
Thats good to hear from you dear. 😊
I would emphasize more on the influence of social media. A lot of people nowadays in this modern world, validate themselves through likes and compliments on their profile pictures. While others, pretend to discourage everyone not to body shame but are bullies in reality. Others lose self-esteem because of their actions 💔
You're right... So with the one thats being idolized for mistakenly viewed as a good model but in behind they are hypocrites.
Right. Somehow, this is related to my article Christian hypocrisy 😅
Hmmm yeah it is 😁
We should help our children grow with confidence on what they are.
Yes we should.. So that in their early age they know how to value their self importance apart from being desirable in outside appearance
i think, insecurities is one among that influenced others to do so.. even with a beautiful looks, seems like its not enough... change would be good if its their internal they should change,,
😅How can they change their internal? 😁 I got your point.. its in the heart.
😁😁😁yeah they need to change their internal organs..😂😂,
Creepy😁
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I don't even care what will other people say. I don't need them so it doesn't bother me at all. Friends just be yourself, being beautiful is not only seen within your skin. But also in good things that you do. Good morning friend.
Good noon 😊.in my part, i need true people who can accept me for who and what i am. But i don't need those who doesn't fit to be one. I can manage to live without them anyway. Thanks for stopping by😊
Always remember my friend, I will always do the same to your article if you visit mine. Yes and I just noticed you didn't ask for subs I know you already followed me. And I did the same. Thanks also for sharing these ideas of yours.