Why keeping good news is better?

"Good news are worth to be shared, and we want to post it, and update on our social media accounts. But, what if you just keep it in secret, and be silent about the good things that you have. "

In human nature or instinct , we like to impart good news to people.Good news like the gasoline price is having a roll back is a nice story to share, and the inflation rate is going low, and we can finally buy basic products in a low price, is really a good news for all. 

This good news that I want to elaborate are the things about yourself, like for example you lost 10 pounds in a week, or 20 pounds for the next month. Your job application was approved,changing to a healthy diet of having a new things for yourself. Maybe keeping a little part of those good news with yourself can make you happier. 

Day by day, our feeds in social media accounts are more on accomplishments, and different kind of what they called success in their life have been posted.For a change, we can keep good news to ourselves and cherished it privately. 

Being Silent might just be the best choice of action

If there are new move, changes, and another milestone in life, it's better to consider keeping it quite. You know the feeling that you've done something but you were not bragging it online but it's all up to yourself, and the people will just see you having a smile and your eyes were happy,and you have the joy inside without making others informed about your success. 

New decision

If you have to make a new decision and this will make you happy for having a new encounter in your life, if you just keep it first, you will not receive any negative feedbacks and what if's from your friends who might be against your choice. 

No news is better news 

Whatever we say, whether good news or not, people have something to say, comment, or suggests. Keeping good news for yourself, is like giving time to celebrate your victories,maybe partly, you can share it, but perhaps you will not reveal everything to anyone. 

Take your time before revealing it

Just like when you planned to have a diet for a month, and you will post it right away on Facebook, that you have no carbs for a while. People may comment on your post, that having no carbohydrates is bad for your health, it can make you hot tempered and so on. It will cause you demotivated to pursue your goal, they might intervened your plans ahead,and if you cannot reached your desired weight, they will be disappointed with you too. 

But, once your keeping it secret, you can peacefully pursue your dreams without thinking what people will say, and they will be surprise with your body once you make it. In the end, you have to protect yourself from people who will say something against you, but once you already realized your aim, you know now how to deal with them, because you are already succeeding. 

We should be mindful too in sharing good news 

Good news for us may not be a good news for everybody, it might also be triggered or cause others to feel self pity. That is why there are some people who don't like to open Facebook feeds because they are stressed to see people who post their new big house, clothes, earrings, bags, and many more things that people are sharing to the world. Because they see the things which they don't have, even if they want it, they can't reach it. 

Keeping good news too for our safety

Posting a lot of luxury things, achievements and many more, can also put us into danger. As we all know, the people nowadays think differently, than the oldest times, life is getting hard, we can be a subject for the bad guys, if we post everything that we have online. They can do something in exchange of our property of money. But, it's your choice to make, my point is just to consider the safety of our family. 

Writer end notes:

This new age of generations seems like no having secret at all. Everything is informed and knows about everything around us. But, when we look back, our life without giving an update to the online world, is peaceful than we often post online. Yes, people may appreciate you if you have done something, but it also give a pressure of giving you a lot of expectations after they see you having your achievement.

Well, it's a choice.

Your life is your own keys to open and lock up, we have different views about this but I think sometimes it's good to give some space of our life to remain in private.

Your life is like a book, people will read it, day by day, but remember that you write your own story.

Thanks for reading my fellow readers and everyone who give up votes, sponsors, please accept my appreciation to all of you.

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