We can't always see kindness to People

This topic that I will write today is coming from a conversation with some friends in Noise.cash which we talk about kindness.

I read a posts says that,"It's always good to appreciate people who helped us(kind people)in our life,of whatever we achieve.Like for example saying,"thank you",is a very nice compliment already.

There's just one comment that makes me think that says,"it's hard to find people who are kind".

I don't know where did her statement came from,but it's also a reality in our suroundings, have you observed,not everyone is kind to us.Even with our own relatives sometimes,there are situations that sounds rude and unfair.

Kindness in tagalog means "kabaitan",if a person has a character like this,it refers to person who doesn't hurt his/her fellowmen ,in words or in action.

Every human has its own character which they learned or influenced by the community that they belong.They have their own reasons why do they are not kind to people,or treating other that they seems like an underdog.

I had an experienced with a person who is not kind to me,this happens many years ago.She is a person who has a good financial stability,and she has a lot of property.But it was too hard to lend with her even just a small amount of money.And I hear her say,"that she will not be kind especially with a poor relatives because they might get used to it,and will not work on their own way.

That's the reality that this world has,not everyone is good,not everyone is doing right,there are unfair situations that we can faced,and even a very rude treatment from others.

If kindness didn't exist with everyone,how did kindness be learned with our children and the coming generations.Can they find generous people when they grow old?Yes they can,because the good will always win,and it will always be a legacy of the upcoming youths.

If we can't receive kindness,we can still give kindness ,if we can't receive respect ,we can give respect.In short,we should fight bad things with good things.This simply shows,that there is always light and darkness that are keep on battling with each other.Not in the world alone but it is with in us,the humans who is the battlefield of good and evil.

Is it hard to be kind with a person who is not kind to us? There's a tendency that we can fight back or treat them badly.

But there's also a sayings that I've heard from the streets,"don't be too kind because,people might abuse your kindness".

Kindness is like a superpower

Even if we are not Spiderman,or any fiction character who have powers but we are more than that,if we are kind to our fellows.It can change someone's life,an impact to do better.What a nice feeling if we can share,care others,we can't explained it perfectly.For me,it's one ofm my our purpose of existence , to do good things for people.

Kindness is contagious

If the virus can contain the humanity ,kindness also is contagious.It can influenced our family in a good way,especially with kids,they can reflect and learn from us.

If the world is not kind to us what can we do?

Start kindness with yourself

We can't let or forced other people to be kind to us,but we can start it on our own,don't be too hard on yourself,by letting yourself down because others are unkind.

We can set ourselves an example

If we can't see kindness,we can be a kind person ,imagine if the people in the world will be kind with each other.There will be no wars,and crimes on earth.

By showing kindness to humanity is a sign of love for each other,and if we live with it,what a wonderful world it could be.

If it is impossible that the world will be kind altogether,we can start it on our own home,where we can teach our kids with this golden virtue of life.

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I'm grateful for everyone's kindness to me,for patiently reading my posts .

Salamat Po

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