Questions you should not asked?

Have you heard the word ethical and unethical questions?This topic was shared by my husband and he always remind me whenever I forgot what he said.Unethical questions like"May asawa ka na ba?"(Are you already married).I've come to think why is this question becomes unethical.In my own understanding,it's asking our life's privacy and disrespecting people whose choice is to stay single.Especially when the person is not really in a relationship,that he/she might bullied after answering this question.

When we say unethical ,it refers to asking questions that can be offensive and makes the other offended,questions that are beyond what is proper morally.As a human being we have the behavior that somehow referred to unethical ,just the desire to have a lot of money which can leads a person to commit a crime like stealing.If we agree with our deepest desires what kind of life can we live on earth.That's why when we turn back in the time of Moses,God has given them the 10 commandments ,to make them realized what are the proper and improper actions that they have done.

For example;

During the final examination,you have seen your friend cheated on her tests by using her phone secretly,and you have see it.And your friend told you not to tell her parents and even your teacher.What will you do?Is it ethical to agree with what she said?Knowing what is proper and improper.Its the matter of balancing,her relationship between her parents and her wrongdoings in school.

Some of the unethical questions;

• What days do you worship?

As we all know,that we have different religions and we are not following the same exact time and days.And it can also sometimes lead to argument and debate if we further asked more questions about that certain issue.There are groups that worship on Sunday,Saturday,Friday ,Thursday and many more.

• Are you pregnant ?

I have been asked this question many times,since I get married.Well,maybe because my body figure really changed when I gave birth.My waistline is now 29 from 26 and most of all my belly have already developed ,because I'm lack of exercise and always stay at home,there's no time for exercise .Some people really asked me face to face ,"if I am pregnant ?Honestly,it hurts me,hehe.But I just show a fake smile at them,and answered "No,I'm not.One of the reason that I didn't wear any fit clothes unlike before it's because of my belly,so that it will not be shown.And I have a friend too who become depressed because she's been always asked and she cannot didn't recover easily ,that's why she starved herself,and cause trouble in her family.

• What is your disability that will affect your productivity?

This question is seemingly sound like discriminating a person's capacity for a certain job or task that is given to him.Anyone's disability should not be a ground for anything to avail in any privileges.

Relationship is very important,inside the group,a family,a set of friends .There's no perfect formula that specifically determine unethical and ethical questions,for as long as you never hurt someone's feelings .We should be careful in selecting the fairest questions for all,especially when we asked in public that can affect the self-esteem,respect and value as a person.

In my experience here is the question that I consider unethical;

• Didn't you graduate,why didn't you get a job,your smart?

As if ,I need to explain myself to all,it's just makes me stressed when they don't even contribute a single cents in my school days.You know the feeling ,that someone asked this questions,and then another person is approaching and asked also"did you know her,she's smart,but she get married early and didn't get a job.It seems like my biography was suddenly changed,and my description as a person is based on any accomplishment.

Lastly,the issue here is being sensitive with others feelings ,that the conversations will run smoothly morally and the sense of morality.We should not only asked questions out of our own curiousity without validating the emotions and reactions it can give to the certain respondents.

It's so hard to become a reason for someone's teary eyes,"when we asked ,think twice".

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