Observed the right timing

When I was still single and young,I always heard this words from our elder friends,to wait on the right timing,which means,no need to rush in everything.Like entering into a relationship,it must be done in a right timing.In tagalog we called it,"tamang tiyempo",it's a time where everything was done in a right pace and place.

Ask at the right time or else there's a war at home

One thing that I want to relate this topic,is about a situation where my husband got home at 6 pm.And,I was asking him about the the load for a digital box with his friend.And he said that,the box has a defect,it doesn't runs well,and then load didn't take effect yet,that's why the customer doesn't pay the load amounting 100 pesos,and because sometimes I'm a nagger wife I was blaming him why did he allow that man to be loaded when his box was not in good condition.I forgot that his tired from worked,and he had an overtime on that day because of holiday season and he was left on their assigned worked.

He got mad at me,and his replied was,"do you want war".And because I'm also tired,I also replied,"I'm also tired,you can do war alone with a low tone voice,and I was literally tired on that day because I am cleaning the house for a half day.Then,our conversation ended that way,but we didn't argued much,and I just calmed and don't talk anymore.

After we ate our dinner,he started a conversation and told me,that I should place my confrontation to him on a right time,when he was already relaxed,and rested already to avoid explosion of his emotions,which almost happened on that day.I was a kind of impulsive person sometimes,when I want to make things done right way,now na agad,not later.

But I was wrong because humans have the changes of their mood,depends upon physical activities that they have done for the whole day.

One advice that I heard from an elder people is that,"a very nice conversation can happened when both are relaxed and calmed physically as well.I took her advice and learned from it,to have a peaceful home.

Be mindful with words everytime

We don't know everyone's battle in the secret,which means everyone has its own problem that they have to faced each day,emotionally or financially and many more.Even if sometimes we don't have an intention to hurt people but through the words we speak we can hurt them.

Always consider that there are a lot of sensitive people around us,and if our words can touches their struggle,we may never know but they will keep distant from us.

Make joke with the drunk but not with the newly wakeup

This is a famous expression in tagalog"magbiro ka sa lasing wag lang sa bagong gising".Have you tried to make a joke,with a person who just got up from bed,how was that?

For me,it was not really right to make a joke with people who just woke up,they can be mad,angry,and wil make you also feel the same way.

Just like,throwing a joke to the one who is angry,or hungry,weary,can sometimes create a fight,or misunderstanding.

When a person is emotional or in pain,it's not appropriate tell them a joke,not unless they want us to.

It's also the same with singing,if we are not on the right timing we maybe having a flat or sharp tone.And it's not good to hear,when the song was sang in a wrong timing.

Wrong timing is done when we don't think first

It's just like making a move instantly,without thinking twice.Also,when we are overwhelmed with our emotions,and too much of everything like tiredness,impulsiveness and discontented.

We should be responsible in every moved that we make,either in relationship,at home,casual conversation and many more.

Learn to discern

Discernment or the ability to judge well is a good factor to develope,because humans have different types of emotions everyday,either they are angry,emotional,fearful ,restless or tired.If we are aware of it,we can helped others with their burdened,and not to make them feel bad.

It can also be related with financial matters,or with spending.Always consider the income and expenses,if we bought something that is not in an appropriate allocated budget ,it can create a problem in the long run.

In relationship also,the right timing is very important.A man might ask himself,when is the right time to say, I love,to ask forgiveness,and to get married,proposed,or say good bye.

A right time to say sorry,to travel,to buy things,to go abroad,to apply for a new loan,and to invest.

Things that are done in a right time can be progressive,gives peace,and will last longer.

Read.cash comes my way in just a right time when it was a pandemic season,when I'm hunger for something to do online.

The right time takes time to happened ,it's not sudden,but for sure it will be for good.

Am I in the right time for today?Heheh,it's already 4:33 pm here.

Thanks for always being here.

Published:APRIL 17,2022
AT :4:34 PM,Beside the road