If I were a Boy

It's 3'o clock now guys, and I'm thinking of my topic today but I didn't come up with anything, but as I have read some articles here, I have come up with this topic. How does it feel to be a boy, strong, and a muscle man who can do different things?

*This article is not meant to hurt you boys,it's just my opinion based on my life experienced and views.

Some girls cried because of boys, because of love and disappointment, but some are happy because they found the right guy.

How does it feel being a boy? Why did some boys like to play with the girls? Do boys don't cry? That's a lot of questions to ask for, it's not the topic anyway.

Boys are not very open with their emotions, am I right boys? They are straight to the point, they don't like many talks like girls, but there were some boys also who often talk. My husband is not a talkative person, he just likes to stay silent unless he will start a conversation, he answers questions directly. Some boys are gentlemen, and they have also the called "charisma", which something cannot be explained directly, it's the appeal that they have which some boys also didn't have.

Boys are a great masterpiece, they can make girls happy and they can also make them cry. I met some boys whom I find playboy, religious, cool, friendly, and nice. This article is based on the song," If I were a boy".

Here's the song if I were a boy;

IF I were a boy even just for a day

I would help my father carry his heavy loads every day towards the mountain if I will be given a chance to become a boy for one day because ever since I was a kid I saw my father's handwork. If I were a boy I will not drink as my father did, he never drinks that's why I would like to copy him. But some boys also like to drink, it's their choice.

If given a chance to become a boy for a day, I will hang out with my brother, and ride a motorcycle towards a straight highway with them, we didn't have bonding with my brothers because I can't relate with them, that's how sad being the only girl in the family. I'm gonna be a friendly man who never hurt or kick anybody unless they will kick me too.

• If I were a boy, I think I would understand, and feel to be a better man.

Yes, f I was a boy I would be a better man indeed, I will never play with girls because I know how it feels. A better man will love the girl with all of his heart and never allow her to be hurt by him. I have watched a video lately with a man who has lots of girlfriends, he doesn't want to marry or want any commitment like signing a marriage contract. If I were the girl with a boy like that, I will not allow myself to be one of the girls despite a good life he can promise I'm a jealous girl and so when I'm a boy, I would be jealous too. I want to be the only one, despite how people will react with this opinion, that's what I want to be. If a man couldn't be satisfied with one girl only, we'll I'll let him find another girl except me to be kept by a man who has a lot of girls. Though sometimes girls don't react but deep within our hearts, as always have the longing to be the only one with our boy.

If I were a boy, I'd listen to her, coz I know how it hurts

Sometimes boys just want their opinion to be heard, or maybe it was just my experience but most of the time my husband won't listen to my opinion. When I suggest he thinks that I'm overpowering his rights as a man. He prefers to listen to others' opinions than me. G girls need to be heard, most of the time girls love to talk but never heard.

But your just a boy

You don't listen to her,

you don't understand,

until you lose the one you want,

because you've taken her for granted,

and everything you had got destroyed

Your just a boy, and your created not like with girls, sometimes you don't understand, or are even not willing to understand. But when the day comes at she will be gone, you'll realize her worth and why did you make her cry.

Boys are still boys. We do have different characters, strengths, and weaknesses. Boys have a masculine image which they like to be respected by girls.

It's not easy may be to become a boy but if I become one of the boys, I would struggle the same as what boys do.

Girls just want to be beloved, and love. Boys want respect.

Girls mind are always grounded, but boys are direct to the point.

Girls are described as weak, but boys are strong.

Girls just want to be secure, and boys give them security.

Girls can be excellent and boys too.

Girls can love a boy, and boys can love them too.

No two the same people are created we all are different and the difference that we had can make us united because we need each other.

Lead image; credit to Saragrit Wongsa from unsplash.

Until then, thanks for the comments and upvotes everyone.

Yours,

Winx1988,