Do it with all honesty
A life that is full of honesty is a progressive one,that creates an authentic connections between people.
In every aspects of life that we are connected ,work,relationship,friendship,and other types of engagements,it's always good to do everything with all honesty.
But when an actions comes from lying ,cheating and dishonest it will always ends failure ,disappointed,and depressed.It can affects the family,relationship and our dignity.
Honesty comes from the heart
Honesty is not just a product that comes from training or any practices,but it starts from the heart.Do you believe that we have a called "conscience",it urges us not to do anything that is wrong.
Dishonesty can gives us a troubled heart,have you experienced it?Well,I already into this situation,when I commit mistake and telling a lie with anybody,it will caused being bothered and uneasy.
But with a heart with honesty comes peace,and tranquility.Dishonesty is like an open portal to other problems and conflict in the future.Honesty can gave us benefits both in physical and mental health.
Honesty can gives us more chances
Accomplishments which is a result of an actions that is done honestly,is lasting,and always admirable.When a person is a good steward of something,it willa always be rewarded with more opportunities and privileges .
Honesty can brings relationship closer
A relationship that is full of integrity lasts,and cultivate a strong bond with each other.As for me ,I'd rather receive and honest opinion,instead of a lot of flowering words but full of lies.Honesty is the foundation of trust in every relationship.
Honesty is the foundation of trust
If people knew that your honest,you can build their trust with how you deal with people.Many people will trust a person who is honest with his/her commitments and promises.
Honesty is related to transparency
There's a certain group which we belong ,and because people that are involved in handling financial matters were not transparent,it ends up into a conflict between the group,and within the family of the involved individual.
It's so stressful once there is dishonesty , mentally and emotionally there is a battle in our mind and heart,and full of assumptions of what was really happening.
The most crucial time that honesty is often tested like how we handle finances or money,once we are ought to handle it,like being a treasurer,cashier or even on our household budget.Honesty shows that we are responsible enough to handle things with integrity .
One of my learning today,as I have encounter situations that involves honesty,is to practice it consistently, and don't just ignore it everytime,maybe we can escape from the eyes of men on earth but,we can never escape someone above who knows everything that we did.
"When there's a fire,there's a smoke"
Once we become dishonest on a certain thing like money,if we keep on doing it more often,there is a possibility that we can do it more often.Or,it will just surprisingly result into shame and embarrassment .
Like what I said,when there is fire,there's a smoke,if we have done something in secret,sooner or later it will be shown.
Honesty is one of the key to a peaceful living in the family,so let's take some courage to always be honest in our daily encounters.In my case,as a wife I knew when my husband was lying to me,because he did a lot of alibi and couldn't have a constant eye contact.He can tell me every word that he likes but later on,I still find out the truth,and then it's starts an argument.In short,there's no peace with a family whose living in lies,but with honesty,everything will just flow smoothly.
Let me just quote few words from the song,"Honesty".
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you
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Honesty,is all we ask for from people that we are involve,even with the political candidates who run for a specific position in the government,honesty is we all ever want from them,and even with our spouse and children.
Thanks for having you here,kindly drop your comments ,about your thoughts in this topic .
Published:March 25,2022
By:Winx1988
Honesty is a result of fear of God. One can always change for the better if he chooses to.