We are faced with many crazy things day by day, some of which can drive us crazy, some of which can get us happy and excited dependent on what happened. If something bad happens, it's normal that we get so down, that it could affect our day. Then you could see someone flare up at the slightest of things, such insane provocations is being carried out throughout the day and taken out on innocent individuals. Other times it gets us so down that we drop everything we plan on doing, completely changing the mood, so wrong guys, in everything our response matters a lot too. Things must always happen, however how do we respond?
If we don't learn to control our response, then we might not be aware of the full extent at which we are capable of changing the situations around. Just a quick rethink and change of response can be the solution you need. It's ok to feel bad, to feel extra sad, however it doesn't mean we have to respond extra sad, we could be sad but still control our response to it, this way we get a faster solution or merely prevent more things from going bad too. Your response matters, life throw a lot at us, life truly happens, but how we respond to it is what matters more.
I'm someone who believes strongly on positive energy, I believe its necessary we learn to give off a positive energy to the environment, this way we can better expect more positive results to happen to us. Just like a seed planted and harvested, being positively minded is similar to planting positive events ahead. No wonders sometimes we experience the day go good, and we'll be like "today is a good day" multiple things has happened and they all happened pleasantly. Other times, some bad things happens and we are like can the day get any worst.
It's all about how we have responded to nature. Learn to guide your heart, shield it greatly, learn to feel good even amidst bad occurrences, learn to be happy and give a smile even when there is a tears about to pour out. It's all about response. A law in physics says " For every action, there is a reverse or backward reaction and this is so true, it's does not only apply to nature or business matters, it is also very applicable to our lives, so we have to learn to deal with our reactions to the done action. Life gives the action and expect us to give a reaction which becomes another action done, and life has to react and it keeps going back and forth.
The way to win at last is to be calm and calculated. Sometimes we don't go by feelings, not cause we don't feel or we are shy to be expressive, but because we know the feeling we have right now shouldn't be the feeling of the moment, it won't be beneficial at the time, rather there's another way we should feel, so we try to build up the right feelings for the moment, this way we can prepare ourselves better and send the right actions to get yourself happy. There are already thousands of people who practice this meditation process of being positive and giving off positive energy to the environment and it works.
I was outside the house one time and I saw two young men playing the game of dice and I decided to watch, as the game kept moving, I had already seen a winner, I could see that one has already gotten better chance to win than the other who is far behind. The little challenge was that the guy loosing was the most joyful, one would think he is the one losing is the one winning, but no. So he kept playing the game, still positive and full of life, I guess this pressured got the winner, and the tables began to turn, and before we knew It , the loser began to win. Yes he won at last.
It is a major life phenomenon, we must seek to be happy with positive energy, this way we are ready and we are changing things. It may seem unreal but it does really work. Christians are taught quite similarly about this. How never to feel down and frustrated, the only difference is that we Christians are having this positive reactions because we believe in our God watching and changing things, which of course is true, but it also works for many other. So we need to learn to Influence our atmosphere and seize the day of being bad.
Ever since that old time movie, and India movie called 3 idiots. That particular movie shed more light to help my point. Although its become a causal slang to say all is well, however its still more powerful than that, especially when you believe and you keep walking with the believe that all is well. Something bad might just have happened, but we still keeping our day with positive vibes. All is well is what we say and yes we believe it. We work with this believe and we would be more powerful. All would truly be well. Respond how you want the environment to treat you in return. Respond happy, respond rightly.
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If you can perfect your response, gauge your reaction, you are a perfect man. I am a firm believer of the fact that perfection is achievable. If you miss it, you might hurt yourself and others. So you are correct , response is all that matters.