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Your Response Is What Matters

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We are faced with many crazy things day by day, some of which can drive us crazy, some of which can get us happy and excited dependent on what happened. If something bad happens, it's normal that we get so down, that it could affect our day. Then you could see someone flare up at the slightest of things, such insane provocations is being carried out throughout the day and taken out on innocent individuals. Other times it gets us so down that we drop everything we plan on doing, completely changing the mood, so wrong guys, in everything our response matters a lot too. Things must always happen, however how do we respond?

If we don't learn to control our response, then we might not be aware of the full extent at which we are capable of changing the situations around. Just a quick rethink and change of response can be the solution you need. It's ok to feel bad, to feel extra sad, however it doesn't mean we have to respond extra sad, we could be sad but still control our response to it, this way we get a faster solution or merely prevent more things from going bad too. Your response matters, life throw a lot at us, life truly happens, but how we respond to it is what matters more.

I'm someone who believes strongly on positive energy, I believe its necessary we learn to give off a positive energy to the environment, this way we can better expect more positive results to happen to us. Just like a seed planted and harvested, being positively minded is similar to planting positive events ahead. No wonders sometimes we experience the day go good, and we'll be like "today is a good day" multiple things has happened and they all happened pleasantly. Other times, some bad things happens and we are like can the day get any worst.

It's all about how we have responded to nature. Learn to guide your heart, shield it greatly, learn to feel good even amidst bad occurrences, learn to be happy and give a smile even when there is a tears about to pour out. It's all about response. A law in physics says " For every action, there is a reverse or backward reaction and this is so true, it's does not only apply to nature or business matters, it is also very applicable to our lives, so we have to learn to deal with our reactions to the done action. Life gives the action and expect us to give a reaction which becomes another action done, and life has to react and it keeps going back and forth.

The way to win at last is to be calm and calculated. Sometimes we don't go by feelings, not cause we don't feel or we are shy to be expressive, but because we know the feeling we have right now shouldn't be the feeling of the moment, it won't be beneficial at the time, rather there's another way we should feel, so we try to build up the right feelings for the moment, this way we can prepare ourselves better and send the right actions to get yourself happy. There are already thousands of people who practice this meditation process of being positive and giving off positive energy to the environment and it works.

I was outside the house one time and I saw two young men playing the game of dice and I decided to watch, as the game kept moving, I had already seen a winner, I could see that one has already gotten better chance to win than the other who is far behind. The little challenge was that the guy loosing was the most joyful, one would think he is the one losing is the one winning, but no. So he kept playing the game, still positive and full of life, I guess this pressured got the winner, and the tables began to turn, and before we knew It , the loser began to win. Yes he won at last.

It is a major life phenomenon, we must seek to be happy with positive energy, this way we are ready and we are changing things. It may seem unreal but it does really work. Christians are taught quite similarly about this. How never to feel down and frustrated, the only difference is that we Christians are having this positive reactions because we believe in our God watching and changing things, which of course is true, but it also works for many other. So we need to learn to Influence our atmosphere and seize the day of being bad.

Ever since that old time movie, and India movie called 3 idiots. That particular movie shed more light to help my point. Although its become a causal slang to say all is well, however its still more powerful than that, especially when you believe and you keep walking with the believe that all is well. Something bad might just have happened, but we still keeping our day with positive vibes. All is well is what we say and yes we believe it. We work with this believe and we would be more powerful. All would truly be well. Respond how you want the environment to treat you in return. Respond happy, respond rightly.

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If you can perfect your response, gauge your reaction, you are a perfect man. I am a firm believer of the fact that perfection is achievable. If you miss it, you might hurt yourself and others. So you are correct , response is all that matters.

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Thanks for such awesome comment. We need to truly gauge our response.

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In life, we encounter negative things. It is okay because it is part of life. Best thing to do is control our feelings and not be carried away with negative things.

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That's right, we need to be able to control our response even in our negative times.

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1 month ago

"All izz well", that song stuck with me for years, whenever things got difficult, I would just say it and would feel better.

I'm not one of those peace keepers, I like to think if emotions as a mirror, your actions are reflected back to you through me. If you blast me with negative thoughts, that is exactly what you would be getting. I don't like violence but sometimes it is necessary, embrace it (my opinion)

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Yeah I feel you, and that's true. You obviously don't take nonsense from anyone.

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Sometimes, It's okay not to be okay but we should not make this as an excuse to continue not to be okay. 💙

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That's right, just continue to stay good. And sane in thoughts.

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Sometimes being negative is inevitable. But we should keep in mind not to live with it.

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That's so right too. We bear in mind we are in control. And control our response.

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1 month ago

It is alright to have negative responses. It isn't unexpected however we ought not harp on it. Our reactions really matter a great deal, out of the bounty of the heart, and the mouth

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1 month ago

This is so right, our response speaks a lot of our in depth thoughts.

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1 month ago

Dear you watched 3 idiots movie? My favourite. Exactly it will change people's life, if they understand it. Just put your hand on heart and say 'All izz well'.

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Yes, I love the movie a lot also, It really helps too.

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1 month ago

I agree too

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It is okay to have negative reactions. It is normal but we should not dwell on it. Instead we should always look at the brighter side. What we think, we attract.

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What we think we truly attract, we must always see to be positive. Positivity conquers all.

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Our responses actually matter a lot, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh

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1 month ago

So true, it's how we truly feel and think of, are the things we often say.

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I saw a quote years ago, it says, we can't control what happens to the world, but we can control our reactions to it. It is true. 👌

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It is so true indeed, and our reactions determine how it all ends up for us.

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