Sorry I Can't Please Everyone

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Trying to make everyone happy, trying so much to please the crowd, I just want everyone around me to be happy, well not so bad, as long as you don't expect everyone to do same to you. Overtime we've seen those who care so much, those with a pure heart get unappreciated. A thousand good you could have done yet that one singular wrong is what gets analyzed. People would always do what pleases them on the long run, regardless of what you or anyone feel, you could try so hard to live your life pleasing others or you could already sense it'll be a wasted journey cause you're likely going to be unappreciated by someone so insensitive.

Truthfully this Mission is rather Impossible, when you're trying to please everyone, no one has fully accomplished this task, and not sure any one would. To achieve some great heights, we are sure to step on some toes, we are going to anger some people who are prepared to fight it out with us. Its a reason why many has made enemies, to get to the top some people has to go down, its not a wicked statement, no it's not, it's just a fact. Most of the corrections that the world has made till date to make the world a better place has always met opposition from people who were previously benefiting from the wrong happenings.

When you try to please everyone by doing good, then expect a fight from those doing bad. And if vice versa, if you want to please those who are bad then remember that you'll hurt those who are good. The government might be elected to serve everyone but they are those who step on people toes more often. Have you ever realized that the government are always being criticized even when they are trying, yes sometimes its from an opposition party, but also it comes from the general public too. That goes as far to show that the government elected for the people still can't please all the people, so how much you who don't really care.

The best we can do is to create product and services that would generally be good and serve humanity, this is the only legit way to please everyone. The inventors of mind blowing technology like electricity, aeroplane, vehicles,musical instruments, and the likes has very much Contributed to the happiness of the world, their works are currently vital to us as a nation and as individuals, they can choose to say " I pleased everyone and they would not be wrong ", but certainly there must be someone who would say " hey, you didn't please me, in fact its quite the opposite, I hate your invention ".

Remember people have died from electrocution already, people have died from plane crashes, people have accidents and for the music instruments, some take it as noise and expect everyone to spend their time doing more useful things than music. Do you agree with me?, for these selected few, they wouldn't be happy with this inventions, though its has done more good yet it has got some side effects. The inventors are aware of the bad effect of their findings, but still decide to go ahead and make it, because truly its a great idea and has accepted the fact that not everyone would be pleased.

What's that next big step you're trying to achieve, who are you trying so hard to not offend, how best can you help the situation, if there is no other alternative, I suggest you just go on with it. For example, as a newly employed staff in a company, you are likely going to step on some toes as you Stive to ascend the ladder of hierarchy, no more wants to remain on one position, Everyone wish to earn more, just as you are wishing, your colleagues too would. Now some were employed before you and some after you, some were employed together with you, so what makes you special to being selected for promotion.

Do you wait when you have the key to unlocking something better because someone might be unhappy, how about the people who would be happy. If for no one, how about your family who are always praying and hoping on your success. Do you wait when you are burdened with a task to accomplish. Do you care to stop singing because someone said that your style of music is bad. Do you stop dancing because someone said he doesn't like your dance. Do you stop working because someone says you are disturbing her, if yes then you should stop eating because someone says you don't chew well.

If God did not please everyone and a devil decided that he is not okay with the way things are going on around here, let's change it, plus a host a angels agreed to back him up, then you should know and understand that its rather impossible to please everyone, and you might never head anywhere if you seek the approval of every single person, you want their opinion in every matter, making your heart come second to what people say. Learn to act for yourself, others would try for themselves. No one has successfully pleased everyone, and no one would.

Finding peace in rejection of some, knowing its okay for others to hate is good ideology. If everyone loves you then something is wrong, for Jesus who was the Prince of peace to be hated, then why would they like you who is also good, if the devil who is evil is hated, then why would they like you who is bad too?, wherever you fall in life, you have your fair share of opposition and it's fine. We were never created to please everyone, you can only try to make or support the creation of a product that serves humanity, but even the harmless product constitute environmental pollution, so its still have some criticism.

Do what you have to do, if it's what you really want to do, then let nothing hinder you, moreover everyone else is doing their bid, no minding you too, so be yourself and do you. There would be people who are happy and forever grateful to you too, let that be your focus. So do you!

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I do agree with your title friend. One of the most difficult aspect. Pleasing one means taking the wrath of another. Good or bad, it's better to do our job.

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Yea. In the long run just do the job, cause be it good or bad people would condemn, so just do the right thing.

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It's the reality in life. Sometimes I really think it's so useless to make effort in doing good for others because it's never gonna be appreciated. There will always gonna be negative things they are going to say about you. It's always the flaws that are noticed easily rather than the good things you can do to others.

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Such a sad reality indeed, the world is that insensitive and self centered, however we personally can see better and act better, appreciating everyone for their little and their differences.

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2 years ago

This is one fact a lot of people are yet to understand in life. No matter how good you are, you can not please everyone and the earlier you know this the better for you. Just like you said, if God was not able to please everyone then we should not kill ourselves trying to do so.

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2 years ago

What's that slogan again, "know this and know peace". We simply can't please everyone, let's stop trying so hard to do so.

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2 years ago

the same concept is depicted in the book the subtle art of not giving a f**k of which I even published a review here, anyway @willtravis your writings are always very insightful for a rationalise thoughts.

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Oh thanks Trofi, I'll do well to check that out, 😁

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