Our Fields Are Different, Although Same Earth

I do try to pass across the people how not to judge others using your life scenarios only. Recently overheard someone say to another man "you are too lazy", I kept watching as they both argued, until the young man began to explain how much work he had done just this morning before he came to sleep outside, after much explanation the first man kept silent, then he said something that stuck with me, he said "Truly it appears like I didn't work, you can only know from what you see, but that doesn't make it the truth, you can't know someone else's truth, you only know your truth". I've learnt to encourage everyone in the things they do, different factors applies to different people.

My plans should be different from yours, oh infact my plans can't be similar to yours, although we might both be intentional about getting a more productive day, or a better accumulated week in general, but even at that we can't possibly be having the same approach to it, cause already life has it ways of placing us in different case scenarios, I could decide to treat matters as a single man, while you can't do that, cause you have a wife involved, or then you're single but as a lady, while creates a different ball game entirely for you too. However we all must plan for the week ahead.

Its paramount we understand what works for us as well as what don't. I have spoken to many experts in same field endeavors and they differently have their manual to go by, apparently they all have their mentors, and since it worked for them they stayed and built with that school of thought, no wonder you'll hear them say often, that following their personal approach doesn't ensure it'll work out for everyone equally as some things differentiates and changes our game entirely, well it doesn't mean we'll stop looking for better days, we got to try.

A very good example has been the issue of sharing finances to cater for home affairs between the husband and wife, so both the husband and the wife are earners, how then do they ensure their money Is distributed to cater for the home, normally you'll think its simple, as they both must contribute and have a singular pause, I think they are in love so they should pump it into their purse, then carefully sort out things from there. Well, we can't be blinded to the fact that this has caused serious issues for some families, cause most times there's need for accountability, where one feels the other is outsmarting him or her in ratio spending.

Others might just delegate areas for either to take care of, you settle the fees, and I'll settle the feeding, but then sometimes when ones pay is slow to come and you had to step in cause of the urgency, do you demand for the money back, wait how can a man demand his money from his wife, I can picture a wife needing her money back, but men with all the ego and love, it might feel we are angry, others families we see the men take it up regardless of the wife earning or not, and yet it still goes crazy sometimes, all this varies between homes, basically owing to the understanding between the couples, but then ones approach might not be your approach, or just the time isn't the right time for that approach yet. We need to know and know what works for us, therefore we plan.

Beginning the new week, especially on a Sunday where we are expected to be resting against the Monday to Friday duties, is undoubtedly the best time to put your head to work, think and plan. It doesn't necessarily need to be until something strange or you meet up with someone who just opens up your mind to crazy possibilities, already it'll be better if we cultured it as soon as possible, make it an habit to ponder on life this far and life from henceforth. if it isn't yet going as planned, then believe me something can be done, we are humans but up there in our heads lies the power house of possibilities, we probably having gotten enough time to trash out the issue.

It's no jokes this cut across all across of people, from young to old, the quest of success is an inbuilt human need, we've needed it from time past up till present and we would keep seeking it. As students we've been in a closed space with other people and have hoped to come out best, this we worked towards, as parents we have the sole responsibilities of seeing we train that child we brought to the world, this we worked towards, and it's normal we want to compare and ensure our kids are better than the rest we know, especially that of our close friends. At work, the competition continues, so we seek success everywhere and the human mind has mostly judge success from the angle of comparing to people around.

So its time to start thinking ahead for the week, it has to get better, let's plan it out, for me I have my plans and I know I'll kick start it. However if it doesn't go as plan, I'll retreat, regroup and replan, the push again with double the energy, cause I feel like now it's going to work, my mindset is programmed to success this week, a lot of positive vibe I'm swallowing up, a lot of smiling to create a nice aura around me, a lot of growth learning process I'm willing to take. All I see is better, I know where I stand right now might not be where I hope to be, but then all i see is better and that better is what i plan for to get. God help us.

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