How Bad Are Over-Excitements

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Have you ever been over excited, and took actions while you were over excited, what happened, how was the experience. Where your choices smart, did it make you do things you normally wouldn't do? A lot of things can indeed be learnt from Over excitements, it's one of those times you don't need to intoxicated with alcohol or hard drugs before you won't be in your right frame of mind, being over excited takes us away from our right state of mind too without drugs or alcohol, and this must also be looked into, it's hard to want to return to your right state of mind when you're already happy and joyful, does this mean we shouldn't be too happy, well no. Just don't make crucial decisions at that time, it's no ideal.

Many times I've seen people make crazy decisions because they were too happy, especially making promises they couldn't keep and doing things they would regret later. After a good time with friends or family or after being hyped or congratulated, they get so head over heels, and as they feel on top of the world little they realize the earth is always rotating though we are walking, this times are dangerous times to talk and take actions, be calm, be calm. You're happy, but be calm. You just won a million dollars, do you dance on the streets to attract robbers or you hide even more. The more the good news the wiser our approach should be.

Don't be shocked how many people have benefited and are still benefiting from this. It's a good strategy to exploit money off someone, especially a wealthy person. If the governor is coming for an occasion, you bet I would have already planned on how to make that day blow his mind. Do everything in my power to make his very excited, get the musicians to chant his name, get some good looking girls to sit close to him or usher him in with outmost utmost elegance, his wine and food would be well presented. You bet he would feel like he's in a palace. Just then the mc would say " let's call on our governor to donate for the successful execution of this program or project, you know what I mean, his advisor might want to call his attention to reduce the figure, but he wouldn't want to reduce that excitement, except he has learnt to deal with it.

Ladies are expert in this field of exploiting our excitement. Its not an insult, as its not bad, it's a God given gift to them. Everything about them gets us excited, even when we are fighting with the one we love, we can still love the fight, it's that crazy. Now imagine your crush, someone who your heart truly beats for, treating you like a king, and just when you're on top of the world, she changes are mood and start feeling down. My brother, I bet you can kill a lion at that moment, if the lion was her problem. You don't want to see that happy face gone. Whatever demands is placed on the table at that moment of your excitement being tampered, you wouldn't mind giving it all.

No wonder Herod had to kill the John the Baptist and offer his head to the dancer who please him so well. Oh no wonder esther was able to enter the court of a king and still found favour, oh no wonder Samson didn't care about his secret and told delilah anyways, no wonder Jezebel was able to convince her husband into doing her biddings. One thing is really common about this men, they were in a state of overexcirement with the woman, while so happy with them, they gave in to their wishes. What I'm I trying to say? As a lady, you can get that thing you want from him, just treat him as a king and see the magic, well unless he knows what's going on already and his prepared too. Lol.

How many of our promises made when we were so happy have we been able to fulfill now, those times you said, don't worry I'll buy you a car, or you say I'll take you to that country, and the next day you are wondering what got over you. One time a friend of mine came around and we all had a nice time, then it was time to go home and the other friend didn't have enough to take a cab home, he too didn't have much but he has been so hyped and happy that he felt like he can't embarrass himself now, so he took his little and gave it to our other friend, who went his way, I too went my way, hoping our happy friend too would go his way, well my happy friend had to walk hours to his house. We got to know days later.

It wasn't pride if I may say, Cause it wasn't the first time one of us wouldn't have enough and he would say I just have few to take me home, some times we just hiss and find a way out together, but that day he was so happy, so happy that he didn't want anything ruining the mood. Good guy right, well he paid for it . Think through your actions, don't let too much happiness lead you into actions that would cause sadness later. Use your head, same way you've got to be careful when drunk, also when you're too happy then you're intoxicated too and should be careful the actions you take then.

Would it be easy, certainly not. Even I that is writing too is not guaranteed that I'll make the right choice when I'm so happy. Imagine I wake up to a huge some of money in my account, i may forget there's someone i need to correct or shout at, and just let it slide, then they feel I'm cool and keep trying it. Imagine waking up next to my sweetheart, I may forget my boss needs me at work and just call in sick in other to spend more time. So when you're too happy. Keep being happy, keep the blood pumping with joy, but then be careful of the actions you want to take then. More preferred wait and take actions later when you're calmer and thinking straight.

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Seen plenty human beings doing wrong things in over excitement.

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2 years ago

Yes, I've seen a lot too. 🤣

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2 years ago

An entertaining read even made me laugh, what you express is correct when we are extremely happy we say and do things without analyzing caused by the adrenaline of that moment where your heart beats so strong and you feel important and powerful emotionally and even that emotion is contagious. we transmit to the people around us .. in my country when a person is extremely happy we tell him that this electric is like saying unstoppable.

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2 years ago

I'm glad you enjoyed the read also. The adrenaline gushing is not ideal to make crucial decisions.

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2 years ago

I agree,sometimes I also feel sad to hear the decisions I made while I was happy but later it turned out so bad. No matter how happy we are,we should never let our excitement to hold on our senses.

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2 years ago

That's right, we have to be in control of how we take actions.

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2 years ago

Don't make decisions when you're angry and don't make promises when you are happy. Over-excitement leads to disappointment. We want things to be happen but then it wouldn't turn the way we want. As for us (overthinker) we didn't get disappoint when things went well because we already see it coming it just kinda sad because it didn't went the way we want. But still we're prepared on it

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2 years ago

I agree to this, over excitements has often lead to disappointment. Let's take things easy and cautious.

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2 years ago

Over excitements are linked to expectations that leads to disappointment.

Over excitement makes you want to rush things and you end up doing things quickly and not slowlu but surely

Over excitement makes you jump into conclusions and take a no wise decision. You end up doing things haphazardly

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2 years ago

You're so right, more reason for this article, so we can act with utmost caution.

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