Earn Respect

There are so many things we should earn, as much as our minds drift towards money, there are other things we should seek to earn, and respect should be prioritized as one of these. Everyone wants to earn their respect from people, I don't like it when someone talks bad to me or in an insulting manner to me, I also on my part try to speak right to people irrespective of the age difference or social level, we all have emotions, emotions which can be hurt at any slight words or actions and we must respect each other feelings.

However its sad that many people don't care about the feeling of their next neighbor, they just satisfy their own feelings, do what they want and say what they like, not caring how the recipient receives the message. The streets are worst, full of insults and mockery, and its almost like there's no hard feelings, its becoming a normal way of interacting. Its popularly echoed that we do unto others what we want them to do to us, so if we for one like our respects, don't we know that the next person also like his, and certainly deserves to be respected.

Respect is a necessary requirement for inter personal relationship, two or more people would walk farther when each of them see the need of keeping the mood right, when one of the person is bridging the respect, it can be insighting strive, and anger, this is the beginning of conflict. The young should respect as well as the old, it's not a way sided act, its a must for everyone. The younger people don't lack emotions, nor do the older people grow iron hearts, being disrespected would still hurt so bad any day anytime, its a reason people might not like to come around you, we all want to be in a place with someone who isn't making us feel bad.

Respect should never get out of trend, formerly a child is trained by the full community, we are taught on the necessity to respect older people, our words to them are engulfed with respect, should we forget to greet, we'll feel like we are loosing our good values, how rapid things are changing, now its called freedom, that a child doesn't need to greet the older people of the environment, we didn't see the adverse effect of such actions of letting the children behave like adult when they should be taught of norms and tradition. When a child is told that its not important to respect older people its a good as telling them we are all equal, not minding that one is more experienced, this in turn has a way to say you should relate with them as you relate with your peers, you can insult them and its fine.

Organizations needs to uphold the need to inter persons respect on all levels of hierarchy, a business that has its staff feeling good to work would in turn produce better result, respect offers peace as well as it leads to better communication, more percent of the conflict experienced in work place is mainly rising when someone disrespect another maybe unknowingly or could be intentional, the boss are not left out, a boss can choose to be strict but must never choose to be disrespectful.

A loyal employees would start building his or her guts to someday confront you from the day you choose to disrespect them. The money is important but happiness too is important, some people however don't mind loosing their job the day you choose to disrespect them, giving a taste of your medicine, few others are either quiet or simply choosing to tolerate as they need the pay. However whats bad is bad and cannot be painted good, disrespect is bad, no matter if you're the president of the country, you must respect people's emotion.

No jokes that the world would be a better place when every respect each other, parents respect their kids and vice versa, respect their talent and ambition, thereby helping and supporting them to seeing they improve in it. The teachers respects the students and vice versa, this ensures that demeaning words would not be said to a child, words capable of bringing down their self esteem. Insults between friends can't be stopped, its part of the fun but there are extents to which we know we can go, some words are definitely pass what we should say, for instance words to insult a friends family how you know it'll surely hurt is no longer fun, it's a clear act of disrespect.

We in turn should help our selves to be happier by choosing to be around better people who are emotionally intelligent, they know what to do or say that would foster a better relationship and likely growth. Everyone can change, humans are dynamic but some people would take a long time or are rather too stubborn to change as they are fully grown in disrespect as a norm. Being around emotionally intelligent people is a self preservative measures that would help us control what happens to some extent at least. Respect is reciprocal guys, respect so in turn you'll be respected.

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