Flying Without Wings

This title was actually extracted from a song by Westlife band which is a good song that I like, but this article focuses on something different which I think the phrase ‘flying without wings’ describes perfectly.

It amazes me how people want to do or aspire to be a particular thing but try so hard to avoid following the due process or procedure, thinking that they are superman or superwoman capable of taking a quantum leap from bottom to the top. You want to win a game, but you do not want to play by the set rules. You rather create anew one like you own the game.

An eagle that is not daft enough to try to fly just like its peers when it's just a month old. procedure, its kind is the most powerful animal in the air, but that won't excuse it from crashing down if it tries to skip the process of developing all that Yes, needs before it , but.

People try to fly without wings in many areas of their OT maybe because of a stereotype they've got in their mind and some even do it without even knowing. Here are some major areas people fly without wings

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1. One Only Saves When There's Abundance But Try To Survive When There's Little: A lot of people have this notion and have so many reasons to back it upflies lives, tell you it's actually not true. How? If you only learn to survive when there's little, you didn't learn to save from the little you , but how then will you be able to save when there's abundance? Let's say a person who has been surviving from the little he or she has and then boom someone ab alert of millions in his or her bank account. For sure the person would think of saving some funds but would he/she be able to I it?

The percentage is close to a Zero.

Why? Because it takes only 2 weeks for that person to adjust to the new lifestyle the money has brought. In no distant time he/she will be aiming for more actualize as the money previously received is not as huge as perceived earlier. The person will continue to survive and end up not , he expecting bigger funds. This goes on and on.

2. I Will Give When There's Abundance - money, think I've talked about this in one of my articles. It's logical not to give when you have little savings, that ain't an excuse for not giving at all. One can give in a little way. A friend of mine was telling me about her boyfriend and how she takes care of things in the relationship because he's not too stable yet. When I asked., but she's doing that again. She said because she loves himI he has given her enough assurance that he'll do even more for her once his stable. I smiled inwardly and Why asked again. How do you this? And she said because He told her so. That's when , and said you believed what wordsIwhat about action? She was mute. I'm not a fan of dating for material gain even though it's not bad if he has itI in this case it is actually not wise for her to believe just words. I asked her if he has ever bought her chocolates before, ice cream, Cologne or any small item his money can buy and there was no reply which meant he hasn't done that. Then . said How then do you expect him to give you the world when he hasn't given you as little as these things?

Everything in life starts small. We don't just suddenly learn how walk; we started by crawling first, taking baby steps to stand and fall and then we started using the wall or something else as a support when we walk and finally we no longer needed the support as we could now walk on our own. And if you can't , but that attitude when you have I then you won't do it when you have enough.

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