It Doesn't got Easier you just gotten Stronger

Had you asked yourself how strong you are, come on asked now then tell to yourself the reasons how did you become that strong. Then I know you'll be proud of yourselfs because it's not easy to makes things easier but we never realized that we changed because we gain enough because we're now good enough.

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For a full time mom like me I thought of my self as a failure because I don't have siblings to look at me when I'm needed specially with my first child. But because of the pure loved I had for my child I learned it from myself. Imagine after the pain of giving birth I still need to took care of my baby. To changing his clothes and nappys I almost thought I would break his arms or even bones, I was thought by my mother in law but she was also afraid. To feed her with milk and make her burp I thought I would kill her. I was crying when the milk will flow on her nose. To having her first bath I thought her ears will be filled with water her eyes will have soap I might dropped because shes slippery.

All of my nightmare before were turned to lessons in my second third child it was all easy nothing i can manage. My life was an unexpected roller coaster the first thing that I experienced was full wealth then after I found a love I had hardships I never knew I could learn things that I wasn't in the City.

I had but it was so different, my husband was a simple fisherman after he caught fish I just looked at how he cleaned it then I realized that I also need to learn those stuff. I've been torned, cut my fingers but it didn't stop me I was more eager to learn and now I can clean all kinds of fish like; tilapia, milkfish (bangus) mud fish (bulig) catfish (hito) and many more

I can even make daing or dried fish at first It was hard because my husband told me when he was kid he knows a lot of chores so cleaning fish is easy on him. I never thought I could even sell inside our barrio it's like I was amazed by myself thinking those things at the start makes me more stronger now. It wasn't easy to get the trust of other person but ofcourse if they know how good is your heart you will be rewarded.

I also don't care of how my relatives think about me what important to me now is my family, they could think I made a mistake before but making another mistake will not solve it. After the years that we been through we learn to stand on our own provide what our needs and somehow our wants so we owe some respect to others. But we cannot please others we cannot tell them to like us so the more they hate us or judge us the more we became stronger, because why we need to understand them if they can't understand us. So remember that things aren't always easy but we are stronger now compared to before.

I may be a young mom before didn't finished my studies but I had a better intentions because I was gifted with four lovely kids and I know they are my reward my hardships were all paid off because of their love for me. If I can see my self stronger now I'm willing to share my courage to my kids I want them to threat things easier I know it will a long way for them but im always here to guide and teach them.

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