When to Keep our Mouth Shut

How time flies were already on the sixth month of the year i didn't not notice it well because my kid's still stayed in our house to have their home study or modular learning. My Eldest is an upcoming grade eleven and still no further announcement on whats the plan of our DEPED, or Department of Education, but she and my son next to her is already fully vaccinated.

My son is an upcoming grade seven and his been late to his pictorial for their graduation. He and his classmates are allowed to go to school If the parents will agree to the agreement and we're just waiting for one more week he can go to school once more. My intro is too long and let's start the main topic and I know everybody will be familiar by this.

When to keep our mouth shut

In the heat of Anger

I heard a lot of people forgotten to shut their mouth because of this, when we are a lot mad we slipt up words that are not meant for us to say. And I Know it's hard for us to shut our mouths in silence, we our provoked with our mad feelings everybody sure experienced this we can't control our anger we want to tell or to shuot others how mad are we so in the end we hurt the person we loved and care. For us to lessen the burden we must know whats the root of our anger we must not judge or blame others because we never know their innocent to recieve the painful words we said.

When you would be ashamed of your words later

For me it's after we said something awful to others but it's mostly after we realized that what we have said is cannot be undo or even sorry is not enough and that's how we will feel ashamed to ourselves and into the person we hurt. I've experienced hearing those awful words and it's really painful to hear so I know how it feels so whenever I was that monster I make assure that after I've told something hurtful I will never do it again or I'll make assure that I shut my mouth. One is enough the second could be the worse

When the issue Is none of our business

I know someone who really likes to intefere but shouldn't have too it's like his or her business is related to all but when it's comes to his or her private life it didn't want anyone to know about it's situation. It's really annoying to see this kind of people so we must take concerns on our actions because there a lot of things that are none of our business

If our words will destroy someone's reputation

This is something we often do either it's to our relatives, friends or enemies specially when we are talking to someone's back and shutting our mouth is the proof that we are destroying their reputation. We were judging someone without knowing their real identity and after we do it once or twice let's think how hey feel because it's painful to be judged specially when the definition about us is wrong

If you can't speak without yelling

This is familiar with everyone here I feel everyone has been yelled without further reasons and I admit that when my husband has a bad mood he will yell at us and we look stupid after we heard him shouting but of course a warm heart will always understand. But If I were so busy I wouldn't afford to yell at my someone without a good reason because I know how it feels so I don't want others to feel the same.

When your feeling critical

For me this only means that we need to shut not only our mouth but also to stopped for all while because all of us needs help. A shoulder to lean on, we don't to pretend that we are strong always but of course we need to listen to someone that is willing to help us. Talking is a lot of our to think so when we are feeling tired lets stopped and rest for a while.

When it's time to Listen

After we have misunderstood, argue or fight each other we must stopped because it's like to much its like we've done too much so we need to listen for us to realize our mistakes. Listening doesn't mean we are a failure but it's also the time where we need to listen the someone's advice to also refreshen our mind and hearts.

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