Maintain the privacy of your personal life as it should be.

Published: July 31, 202

Time: 23:30 PM

Article #: 170

When I first started blogging, several of the articles I wrote were about my everyday activities. But there are other topics that I'm holding back from discussing since they are really confidential.

I made a lot of online pals, and I'm starting to feel a little closer to them, almost like I'm treating them like my brothers and sisters. But I came to the conclusion that there must still be a limit to it. Not everyone you know is genuinely kind. If you were a true follower of mine on the noise.cash platform, you would have noticed that I had been idle for some hours. I occasionally only upload two or three things. This is how I now communicate with some of my online acquaintances. If you're wondering why I've stopped interacting with people, I just learned that I don't want to talk about topics that are too personal for me. I started using noise.cash in 2021, and I've had a pretty great experience so far. I also made acquaintances with nice folks who are still around now. However, as I previously indicated, I no longer like developing close relationships with some individuals there since I preferred having a calm and tranquil private life.

"By exposing all of your story and personal information, you offer everyone a front-row ticket to your drama and encourage their judgment."

This is what I also remind myself every time that I will have an idea to post a random rant about something that is too confidential. I remember my “squammy” aunt who always ranted on Facebook about their personal fight with her husband and some of her friends are joining their quarrel as well. You see, posting a confidential issue is toxic. Before you post it on social media, try first to think if that specific content will benefit others. Or are they needed to know what your problem is? Would you care to share all the information from both sides? Of course not especially when you are the victim. 

This is something I too constantly remind myself of whenever I have the impulse to make an irrational tirade over a sensitive subject. 

To give you some story behind these thoughts, lemme have some story about it.

I can still picture my "squammy" aunt ranting on Facebook about her private argument with her husband and how some of her friends were jumping in. You see, it's toxic to post a private matter. Ask yourself if sharing that particular piece of material on social media would be helpful to others before you do so. Or do they need to understand your issue in order to help? Would you mind outlining everything from both sides? Naturally not, particularly if you feel that you are the victim. 

The same may be said for certain familial situations. I recognize that we occasionally have an emotional side, but sharing certain private information won't be of any use to you. You're just merely spilling some beans about your personal life.

To be really honest, I saw that social media is now having a significant impact on how private affairs are disseminated. Some individuals like fawning over the problems of others and exploit them as entertainment.

As you read this, keep in mind that living a happy life in private is important. There is nothing you need to broadcast. You realized you don't need a phony compliment to live your life when you wrote something that would obviously become a subject of conversation for others.

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