Sad reality

Life is beautiful. It's full of wonderful things to unravel and discover. But when reality hits us it's makes us sad.

Monday is over and Tuesday is waiting for us tomorrow and few more days another week will end. Time flies so fast that we couldn't seem to gasp the sad reality that we are not getting any younger anymore. Therefore let's face the reality of the world and enjoy every moments of it.

There are few sad reality that hits me this days. I don't know if it's just me or some of you could relate to this few things that I will be mentioning. I know we all experience different in this life but we all pass struggles, challenges and difficulties. Different experience but we could feel the same emotion maybe at different level and different ways of handling or expression yet there is one universal truth, we all feel pain, anger, regrets, hatred, emptiness, rejection, betrayel and lot more negative feelings within those experiences. Upon pondering reality hits us and we realize it was a very sad reality.

No one will understand you better than yourself

Basically in this life you only have yourself. Your family will probably knows your struggle but they couldn't understand the pain the way you felt it. Sometimes they couldn't even understand you. Worse they will accuse you of pretending. Better be proficient in dealing with your emotions. Don't expect others to understand you when you tell them how you feel.

Not all things you dream of will be yours

It's free to dream, so dream big. But make sure that you won't put your whole life trying to reach those dreams cause sometimes your dream isn't your reality. Work on some side hassle cause sometimes those side hassles will be the thing that make you realize you are capable of doing even bigger than you dream.

You are not 100% sure that you are the best friend of your best friend

If you think you are the best friend of your best friend don't be too confident about it. You will realize you are not because he/she is not capable of waisting his/her time when you need them. Just like how you are to them. I know few who only used people of their own benifits and when things aren't benifial to their end, you can't find them.

We are not getting younger

Yes we aren't. So, let's make sure that we aren't wasting our time dwelling on things that do not matter. Things that already pass. Things that makes us recentful. Things that makes us regretful. There is no room for revenge and hatred in this life because we don't have lifetime. We only have borrowed time. The days are flying so fast and we cannot even seem to remember what we had in the table the last week or the previous days. When I ask you, how you live your life? I hope I don't make you sad.

People will judge you even when you give your best. They wouldn't see your struggles and your success but only your failure.

There are more reality in this life that makes us sad. Just like how the world seem so inhumane. How the nature have been destroyed. How the rich gets more richer and the poor become poorer. How the politician plays us all in their hands. And the rest continues to be discuss without end. But should we live this sad reality of the world until we die?

I hope not. I hope you are not just looking unto it without any hope. Your emotions is valid. Whatever it is, it's valid. However you feel it's valid. I congratulate you for realizing those things and making sad about them because I could know that you are living life with reflection. I believe soon you will accept that that's part of the reality of this world and that's feeling sad about it makes you more human. But there are more to be grateful than to be sad. A hundred reason to be sad has a thousand more reason to smile. If and if, you wanted to find them, they are just around you. They are maybe sad reality of the world but I believe you are doing something about it that makes you bounce back from that sadness. Look at the sun rises and how it sets. There's more than those realities that makes you sad.

That's all for today. Happy reading. Thank you and God bless.