The woman that I admire was being cheated

Love has no guarantee of forever. Cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice indeed.

The year 2019 was one of my favorite years of my life. There are lots of memories to be remembered that year. I graduated from college and at the same time, I got married in the same year.

One day, as I always listening to music, I was caught by one of the most popular singers of that year even up until now because of her "hugot" songs. She's Moira Dela Torre. I know that all Filipinos already know Moira. She is one of the best singers in the Philippines. She's a songwriter too. I started following her. Her social media accounts and I even stalked her now and then. I like her so much. Not by her angelic voice alone but also by her beautiful face. She's pretty in and out. What I admire her the most is that she's a Christian too. A worship leader of their church and I can see myself in her by that because I've been a worship leader before in our church. That's why I felt comfortable with her.

But behind her successful career, she's been suffering so much anxiety and depression too. There were times that she want to end her life because of what she was carrying too much. But because of her strong faith in God, she overcomes those. God helped her to lift from her downfall. She's been so grateful to God.

As I often stalk her on her social media accounts, she has a best friend named Jason. He is handsome, a songwriter and singer too. They became friends first before they became lovers. So, in short, they knew each other already before they decided to settle down. Jason loved Moira so much. He admits that Moira is one of his greatest blessings in life.

They got married in January 2019. They became one of the first months of the year. And because I'm addicted to Moira, I decided too to get married in the same year. (But before that, my husband and I decided to get married too but not in the year 2019. I was the one who choose that year and because Moira got married that year, I changed our plan. Instead of 2022, I changed to 2019 because of Moira. See? How addicted I am to her.) I just want that have the same year when we settled down. As a sign that I do admire her. Good thing my husband is ready to take the favor. Lol.

So, I got married in December 2019. See? We have the same year. Though not the same month but what's matters to me is that we have the same year to be counted as time goes by. Since Moira got married earlier to me, I watched her full wedding video. I loved watching it over and over again. I teared up to their exchange of vows. They indeed loved each other. I can see that I choose my wedding gown to look the same as her. (Not the same but it is still off shoulder) Even her hairstyle on her wedding day is my hairstyle too. I can't hide smiling now while I'm writing this. Lol. 😅

As I walked down the aisle, I decided to play the song of Moira and Jason "Ikaw at Ako". This song is right for lovers who want to be in a lifetime. Hays! Look how I became devoted to her during that time.

But bad news came just last night. Her husband confirmed that they were now parting ways because he became unfaithful to her. Here's the post from her husband.

I just can't believe now that they are now officially separated. I felt so pity for Moira because I know she's now in so much pain and hurt. She doesn't deserve to be cheated. She had trauma from her past regarding her family. She has a broken family. And I can't figure out why Jason did this to Moira when he knows what Moira had been through. Hays! I can't judge him because I'm not on his feet. All I can say is that the love of humanity is changing. Only the love of God remains the same. Therefore, cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice.

I'm so sad now because my favorite couple is now separated. The couple that I admire. The woman that I admire is being cheated. Is not okay. 😕 I am praying that somehow they will be settled and be united again and that love should prevail. ❤

Advice:

If we are already married, please let's be loyal to our partner. Let's forget the word " cheat" because it doesn't give a good influence hence it gives the worst outcome. Why not, stick to our partner and be contented. Be satisfied. That would be the best thing that we can offer or do to our lover. Let's think first about the outcome before we do the awful deed.

Photos: all from Facebook.