Happiness depends upon us. We are living our whole life chasing happiness. Others believe that having material things makes them happy. Some people think having a degree, having a perfect job, friends and family is a life. There are also people who believe that financially stable is a real thing that makes them happy. We can see that there are people have this all, but still they can't find the real happiness in life.
This is because, while you are busy searching for more happiness, the more you forgot about being contented for the things that you have. You neglect to celebrate small things that happening around you. You rejected the things in front of you. The more you chase for happiness, the more you cannot find it. Happiness depends on yourself, and how you see things matters.
So if you’re searching for true happiness in life, you need to:
Be positive!
Being positive means is being hopeful and confident. Thinking about the good aspects of situation rather than the bad ones. What you think is what you become, so if you choose to be happy then you’ll be happy and if you choose to be sad then you’ll be sad. You should start your day with a positive vibes. Positive vibes attracts positive auras. Happiness depends on you, so if you want to be happy, stay positive and be positive always and in all ways.
Do what you want to do on life!
Being happy is somehow doing something you want to do in life. Life is stressful if we don’t love what we are doing. This stress can give you lack of interests for everything. So it’s very necessary for you to do what you want to make yourself happy in every single day. Do everything with passion.
Live the moment!
Stop worrying about the past and the things that will happen for the next more days. Live your life to the fullest, love your life at the moment! Try to cherish every minute, every hour that you have. Focus on reality and your presence in that specific time. Enjoy every seconds of your life.
Be with the people you love!
Being happy is being with your love ones. And everything is worth living for because of them. Your happiness depends on them. They are indeed your strength that gives meaning for everything. They are inspirations that give you reasons to pursue everything you want and need. So being around them can really make your life happy.
Celebrate the little moments!
Being contented to everything is a key to happiness. If you’re happy about little things then you’re deserve to something bigger. Even if we face a lot of struggles and hardships you should not ignore the little things that you have. Cherish everything and choose to be happy all the time.
Being happy depends on your mindset. Happiness is not about having material things in this world; happiness is about being contented to anything. Happiness is about listening to your heart and following your desires in life. Do not be hard on yourself in finding happiness, happiness is always about embracing the person you we’re becoming because of your mindset. You cannot find happiness to others, but yourself. It was always about you.
Thank you for reading! God bless you all. Smile and be happy! 😊
Then there are also those who depends their happiness on a particular person. I remember before when I got my heart broken, it was really hard for me to smile and live because it felt like he took it with him when we parted ways. Slowly, I tried to be that me again even if he's not there anymore. I know I have already published something about happiness. I forgot what I said there but I know I uploaded photos of those being happy quotes that I posted on my Instagram account. Hugot days. 🤣