Be firm about your choices!

Be firm about your choices!

Hey friends, how are you today?

Have you ever been in a situation where you feel like you it’s so hard to put yourself first over everything?

And a feeling where it is so hard to make decisions and choose situations for your good?

So, here is my article to remind you that….

You must close the window that hurts you no matter what and how beautiful the view is.

You should be firm about your choices. You should not go back to situations and habits that are not good for you and not helping you to evolve. You must remind yourself why you have decided to look and move forward. You should be positive to come by being consistent with your changes, and with your choices now.

It can indeed be so hard to put yourself first over everything. To make and do decisions that are right for your own sake. It’s so hard to meet your own needs and listen to your own heart. It’s so difficult when you have put others' needs before your own. It’s so hard when you tiptoed someone else’s feelings. It is so hard to have this kind of feeling without even asking ourselves:

What do I want, what do I need and How do I feel?

Make decisions to do so to finally start living life for yourself…

Stand up and speak up for your worth and integrity when times you are not being respected or being valued. Because there are times that people tend to disregard your words if that time comes never hesitate to use your power to walk away.

Value your time, value your energy…

You must do your best to let go of what others are doing and saying. You should know that we don’t have control over their intentions, plans, and what they are going to do. But we have control over our thoughts and our well-being. So if someone and something doesn’t feel and give any good, do your best to let go and just focus on the things or someone that are good for you and your life.

If you want to be emotionally free if you want to have peace in mind and your heart, you should lean into the feelings that you don’t want to feel when they arise. You should allow your difficult feelings to exist without hesitations, shame, or judgments, because for sure, everything will pass, and everything will heal in time. The feelings you resist will surely persist.

You should never stop everything from happening. Sometimes, you’re supposed to be vulnerable in front of everybody. These are all necessary because it’s all part of you getting to the next part of yourself, you’re getting into a place where you should be and you deserve to have.

You should learn how to love the sound of your own feet while walking away from things that are not meant for you. You deserve all the goodness in this world, you are worthy, and everything about you matters.  

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