Life is not black and white
Life is constant suffering. If you are feeling bitter, harsh, happy,down, motivated and mixed kind of emotions then you are living because life is mixture of these all things. These all things make our life in wave form and it looks that life is going on. There is nothing constant in life.
Everyone borns with narrative and narrative are stories. So, you can say that every human being is surrounded with so many stories which can be written. There are as many perceptions as many humans. Humans are hypocrite regarding their own narrative. They just want to listen according to their own will.
These days life is not changing like a revolution. People are indulge in political things and everyone is having gossip about political issues. There is matter of priority even in these kind of issues. People think that if they are saying "yes" then other people should also accept that it is truly "yes" similarly, they think , if they are saying "no"then again people should consider this "no". These elements of "yes" & no" are common in every human being. These things are making our life toxic and reason to thrumble our relationships with other human beings.
At the end of the day, we all are humans and we all have priorities. So best thing is that we all should respect the priorities of others and we should give value them.
Life is not just revolving around these things. In picture, there are so many colours of life. It is not just sharing black and white colours. Life is throwing so many lights. You just have to see with your insight eye. You cannot be just sad and happy. There are so many intermediary things between these two terms so everyone must experience those things too. If you will remain enclosed in your box , then life will serve you nothing. Life will only give you something , if you are seeking for it. When you will have passion then you will have to focus on strategy. Having a passion is not a big deal but following the passion and achieving that particular thing is the big one in your life.
I saw people who are with pessimistic mindset, they always think that there is a negative energy which is pulling them from inside. Keep in mind, life will show you that side which you want to see. If you will turn on lights of your mind, then you will see all those things for which you ever desired.