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February 14: The Loneliest Day For The Single Ones
As the **Day of Love** is getting near, everyone is busy thinking about their special someone. Others are busy preparing gifts and surprises. Is this the loneliest day for the single ones? I always see **Valentine's Day** as the month of showing love and care. I do not see it as the month of dating and spending time with someone special only. A lot of people are being pressured by the fact that they have reached a matured age yet they still haven't found someone to be in their side. It's a matter of choice. Not everyone wants to be inside the relationship because some are already happy in their own way. We should respect everyone's choice in life. Not because someone is alone on Valentine's Day at the age of 40 doesn't mean they are unlovable and lonely. Think about your family and friends. Spend time and show them how important they are in your life. **Remember it is okay if..** **You are already near your 30s or 40s and you're still single** Nothing is bad with that and do not feel being outcasted. You are not alone and lonely. You have your own way of living your life to the fullest. Don't feel embarrass of being single at that age, do not let everyone's opinion to be your opinion too. Enjoy life and live with zero regrets. **You are doing self-love for so many years** You are not selfish for loving yourself before anyone else. Love yourself and know how worthy you are all the time. Once you start loving yourself, anything negative that you will hear about yourself doesn't matter anymore because you know who you are. You don't need to seek for validations and appreciations. **You are single because you have been rejected or cheated before** It's okay if your past still hurts you. Let the wound heal before you open your door for someone new. Being rejected doesn't mean you are unworthy or unlovable, it simply means the person is a wrong person for you and someone else better is waiting for you. Being cheated really sucks and you have to remember that you are not lacking something. Forget and forgive, one day the right person will heal all the pain you've been through and it's going to be worth it. **You have no luck in relationships** I don't know if there is such thing as bad luck or being unfortunate towards having a love life but if you found yourself failing all the time, I guess it's the time for you to rest yourself from entering different relationships. Maybe now is not the right time for you yet. Not because you are always unlucky on having a love life, doesn't mean you won't find the right one. Only time can tell and one day it will reveal you the right one. **You have never been on a relationships** There's nothing wrong about it. What now if you haven't kiss someone yet? Haven't dated anyone? Haven't been asked once? Haven't been called in a special way? There's nothing wrong with these and there is nothing you should be embarrass. Being a human doesn't mean you need to deal with different relationships just to see yourself better. It is never like that and won't never be that way. There are so many reasons why someone is single on the Valentine's Day but does it even matter? You should be worried about living your life without seeing your worth. Do not let it be the reason to feel envious, different, alone and do not feel unworthy if you are living a single life throughout the years. You are a human and you are valid. Your choices, your preferences and your perspectives are valuable. So, I disagree that February is the loneliest day for the single ones. ***"Remember you are always worthy and you matter."*** **February 5, 2022**
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No matter what they say, I personally believe that single people are blessed ones. There's nothing wrong of being single. What's wrong is, whne you force yourself to a relationship that you aren't ready about.
True Sequoia. That's exactly the reason why there are so many break-ups because everyone is rushing themselves.
Hndi naman loneliest. Dpende lng sa tao yun haha
Hindi din lonely para sakin Jane basta mag-pump si bch matik na yung Valentine's day
I think just because someone doesn't have a partner during the valentine's doesn't mean he/she is lonely. There are people who just want to be single and have fun too.
Yes and I am one of those who enjoyed a single life. It just so fun and amazing.
very well said beh, bki ba kasi pressureda ng mga single kapag Feb 14, hehe
Madami po yung bigla nagka jowa ate Pachuchay and nakakatakot isipin yung iba di nila alam yung pinasukan nila hahahah.
nagjojowa lang for the sake of Feb 14 eh..
Buti hindi ako ganun ate pachuchay hahahah ang dami ko pa kasing gustong gawin sa buhay.
Indeed, true love is within yourself! It's not about the people who makes your heart happy instead its you, yourself will gonna have a true love and self satisfaction.
Thanks for reading again Kleah. That's why I chose to love myself before anyone else.
If single parin sa 30's 40's walang bad don, as long as we enjoy life diba? Dibalimg single ka, soon makikilala mo syabhehehe
Yeah and sa edad na yan ka talaga mapapatanong kung may nakatadhana ba talaga sayo hahahah pero it's happy to be single.
I'm in my 30s, I've had relationships in the past but now I'm single and happy. It's okay to be alone on the special day and I'm not looking for someone to be a part of my life. When the right time is the right person, my destiny will come my way, and I don't understand those who are obsessed with it.
That's very inspiring to hear from you. I believe in the "perfect timing" and there is always a destiny and right person. May we find ours one day! 💖
My dear friend, you raised a different and interesting discussion. Many people like to be alone, and are happier with their loneliness. So such people shouldn't think they are unlucky, because they choose to be alone.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Ellen. Alone but not lonely. That's the most important thing and also find ways to be happy in this world no matter what.
The way people take the Valentine's day serious baffles me alot. Is that the only day meant for lovers? Lol🤣. Being single and happy is a big blessing
Same here, I am a little intimidated by the people putting Valentine's day as the biggest event of the world and as if they will die being a single on that day. I found it so very funny.
Well as I'd always say, being single doesn't mean you're bad or not worth someone. In some relationship, there's no happiness in it. Just be happy in your own way and remember you'll always be in someone's heart and you're loved by someone.
Yeah I agree with you. Not everyone inside the relationship are happy, some are stuck in a toxic one and I would chose to be single forever rather than be in a toxic relationship.
I have seen different people who are from age 30s up ward who loves to be single just because of what they had face . I really think the Valentine's day is meant to show love to others but I don't understand how does who loves to me singles and alone show love to others when I asked some of them how they show love they usually reply that I show love to myself
Thanks for reading my article I appreciate it. I don't really want to enter a relationship because I am not ready and we can show love to our family and friends in any ways we can so Valentine's day is not meant for couples only.
I've been in many relationships during junior high school, pero nothing's serious. Kumbaga, plaything ganun. Teen eh kaya medjo aggressive, hehe. Ssshhh! Though, that's not a secret. Nagugulat lang talaga mga nakakakilala sa akin na nagkajowa na pala ako kasi prim and proper daw ako. Ewan ba pero enjoy ako sa pagiging single, no need to rush. If there's someone na darating na at this point, go and try at baka s'ya na 'yung "the one." Who knows di'ba? Pero sana 'yung pang-matagalan na 'yung dadating. Di big deal sa'ken si Valentine's Day kasi di naman ako bitter na single. 🤣 Pwede namang i-celebrate with the fam eh, mas tipid pa. Hihi
Di din ako makapaniwala na nagkajowa ka kasi napaka-formal mong tao Imanag. Ako focus lang talaga ako sa side hustle and studies kaya laban lang mga single.