Is there a secret that women keep that they do not reveal to any of the men? It's a dangerous secret men should know. I will tell you a story now, which you may find somewhat familiar to you, except that it contains a strange thing that puts many men in confusion and questions and the reasons for its occurrence. Let's start the story...
Once upon a time, there was a man who accidentally met a beautiful woman, and this man admired that woman very much.
At the beginning of that relationship, this young woman was not in the eyes of this young man but a beautiful woman like other women, but the more time elapsed on that relationship and the more he got to know her, the more he became attached to and admired her.
But there was no problem with that man.
When his feelings were getting stronger day after day, he was feeling at the same time some psychological anxiety and insecurity growing inside him little by little.
Why? What is going on?
This young man was confused about whether his girl had the same feelings and admiration for him or not.
Sometimes she would say to him phrases such as: "You are a very important person to me", "I am really happy that you are in my life" ... etc.
But there was no progress reported in that relationship beyond just "normal friendship."
Something unusual was apparently going on in this story
The beautiful woman was not acting as if she was his "mistress" and was in love with him, she was acting as if she was only a "friend".
The anxiety and insecurity that our friend felt was increasing, and the higher his anxiety, the more he feared that he would "spoil things" for himself if he wanted to kiss her, for example, or he wanted to ask her to be his girlfriend and companion.
In addition to the above, the greater this anxiety, the less that girl wants to spend more time with him.
After several days and nights had passed while he was being taken in thinking about that woman, he finally came to the conclusion that if this girl knew the nature of the feelings that he had in his heart for her, she would reciprocate the same feelings as well.
So our man decided to take this bold step:
He told her everything he felt about her
Yes ... he confessed to her that he is in love with her and in love with her and that he is willing to do anything "aaaaaa anything" to be with her and live beside her.
She looked at him with pity evident in her eyes, then said to him:
Thank you, dear, I really appreciate your feelings towards me, but I honestly do not want to spoil our friendship, because you are a very important person to me.
This speech confused that young man and made him more confused. He did not have any clear explanation of the nature of the situation, so he started talking to himself saying:
Do her words mean that she is in love with me too, but is afraid of something?
Does this mean that she was not ready for a long-term relationship with me?
Did she not like me at all, and wanted her words to indicate that to me?
Does this mean that I haven't tried it enough?
At the time, he only wanted to assure her of how much he needed her and needed to be with her. So what was from him except that he took another step:
He bought her a gift, and wrote for her a long love letter, admitting to her again his feelings and expressing to her his love and longings.
But what was not in mind happened
That girl didn't send him any response.
He's been calling her on the phone three times a day for more than a week to get to her once. She always made up for him excuses and arguments about being too busy or her circumstances did not allow her, she would tell him:
"I will call you soon, sorry, I want to go now," the call ends.
He did not receive any calls from her any longer, as she had promised.
After weeks and months passed, this poor man lost hope of knowing the real reason behind what happened to him, and what was wrong that led to the end of this relationship in this mysterious and controversial way.
Story ended.
Here we are again ... a painful story? is not it?
I know ... I must continue my work for the day and stop telling romance stories and novels.
Let us then talk about this story, which revolves around reality with a large number of men, a common story that occurs in every time and place, a story that resonates on a deep level with many because it is simply known that does not need an identifier.
Why do you think this story resonates with the vast majority?
Answer: Because we all have, for the most part, going through such an experience in some way or another during a period of time.
But the question that arises now:
Are there solutions ???
I think that there is a solution to avoid us falling into such a situation that our friend, the hero of the previous story, passed through.
This secret is reflected in a secret that women unfortunately know, but not men.
So what is this secret ???
The secret is that if a woman is not attracted to a man, then all the attempts of this man to express his love and feelings and to woo her in order to convince her of his love will fail.
In other words, these attempts will not only be useless, they will make matters worse. Because if she does not have a "good friend", she will most likely never want to be friends with you. It will go away from you forever.
So, do not admit your love and express your feelings anymore unless you have the opportunity to find attraction and admiration for you.
Doing nice things and wooing a woman who is not interested in you distorts your image and robs you of your energy. Men make this mistake over and over again in their lives because, from their point of view, this behavior is logical and reasonable. If you have a friend you love and one day you want to increase the bonds of this love, then any kind action you take with this friend will work to make you more close and loving to him.
On the contrary, this does not give the same result in dealing with women who do not feel attracted to you.
Ok ... what is the beneficial solution to this intractable problem?
I actually have two answers to this question:
The first solution is if you like a woman but you do not know in return if she feels the same to you or not, you should:
1. Do not burden them.
2. Do not buy her gifts or write love letters to her.
3. Don't call her three times a day.
4. Do not share your feelings with her.
The second solution is that you do not put yourself in this situation from the beginning, I advise you to avoid it completely.
But how does one do that?
1. You must learn to get her attention and interest in you.
2. You must know how and why women respond emotionally and sexually to one man over the other.
3. You must honestly know what to do from the start.
What is the best way to learn this skill
I wish you didn't ask me this question
I will explain techniques and skills in the next articles
wish benefit to you and health in your relationship
Your friend Sobex.
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