Respect Is More Important Than Showing Off Love

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Sometimes we are so helpless to our heart and allow ourselves to be used even where respect does matter. A person who loves you why he/she will be so worried about the world when you should be his/her world! Just giving respect according to religious views is important. A person who loves you never should have excuses to make you a part of life. You know you can't be a part of his/her life but you can't leave it. This kind of situation make you feel like you are a sinner who getting punishment for a very big sin you’ve committed in your life.

These days its hard for young generation to follow religious rules that helps them to be characteristic. Holding a good character is important. Law of respect seems very simple, give it and get it but many people made it complicated. Respect can't be given, it should be earned. If you have good character you'll earn it and your sweet words does not going to define your character but your efforts does. So show your efforts than expressing love and respect by words. If you really love, you stop caring about everything else and you really pay respect should be feel by the person you paying respect. Your love is useless without respect so don't show useless love to make things useful only, show respect to make other feels that you are good by character.

Life shows us so many things where we met or meeting colorful people with different character and colors. Only your bad time shows that who is the real one. If you ever fall into trap, you can identify some of them but you can't leave them because you are in love and ready to accept all bad of a person you love. Women has a problem that they easily convinced with sweet words and doesn’t pay much attention to the efforts as a result she hardly can realized that she has no respect there and she was only for use.

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My words may sounds odd for many but reality is bitter and it always will be. If you can't give respect to a woman/man in your life, make it clear and force him/her to leave because no one wants a life like boat at the middle of ocean. If you release the person you can get reward from Almighty, according to religious view you'll get honor of releasing a servant in your life who is waiting for your respect for long time but you can't afford to give respect.

Our words never going to work on them until Almighty gives them the wisdom. So here also we are helpless that our words are useless to make other understand what are we going through and our feelings. Naturally we can't respect those who can't respect us. Just telling that I respect you doesn’t always mean that I do, you need to feel the respect I do. Your sweet words make me fallen love with you but your respect make a place in my heart for you that will remain until you stop giving respect and make me feel that you respect with love. Love is important but without respect there is no real love and this is the truth. So ask yourself again and again do you really love me? If yes why I can't feel your respect? Why your love makes me feel like I'm going to be used?

Many couple found doing romance in public. They are showing off love to his/her partner or showing that how hungry he/she is that can't control even in public. Many times we can see couple walking holding hands tight but at the end hardly found some holding the relationship tight till the end. Respect and love is not a matter to show off in public, if you really love you'll be scared to lose and respect according to the religious rules as you scared to lose the faith of your Almighty on you. You will be trustworthy for your Almighty along for your partner and that will bring respect for you. That's all I believe.

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"No one wants a life like boat in the middle of an ocean" I love these words. What I've learnt in life is that the respect you want has to be earned... To be respected, you need to respect others. Honor people; your agemates, younger ones, parents, just everyone that comes across your way... Until then can you be a role model

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Mixing between respect and love is a hard mathematical resolution because for example let mom of the other partner interfere in your private life and the other partner you have to respect her decision, in this point life becomes complicated.

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Loyalty and respect do come with love and if I am to choose between loyal/respect or love, I will surely respect,.

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2 years ago

Respect is the main foundation of love, if we truly love a person we show them the respect and that love without respect can't be called as love.

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2 years ago

You're right when you say respect is not only in words but in action and deeds. Nice one!

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Respect is love on its own, if you don't respect someone you can't love them....Respect is actually about the freedom to be yourself and to be loved for who you are. In a healthy relationship, respect looks like: Talking openly and honestly with each other. Listening to each other. Valuing each other's feelings and needs.

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Love and respect both has good grip if we have by heart. To show it to public never looks good because we have love for certain person which is not for others.

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Respect is among the founding element of every relationship. It matters more than love. Every relationship demands respect before love

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