Fair look Is Important For Product, You Are Not A Product.

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The person will love you, will love you anyhow. Doesn’t matter how is your look and facial fairness. A brand or product need to have a fresh or fair face or model to explain the quality and attract others. But just imagine you have negative views to a particular product and a very handsome or fair face representing the product, will you purchase that? I'm not going go purchase rather no one going to purchase for sure.

But you are not a product or brand. Sometimes we don't like particular individual but we care for them and love them. For example, a girl doesn’t like his father for his over friendly attitude, the girl feels embarrassed when she introduce her father because he is impersonate. The girl don't like her father but she definitely loves her father. Whenever the father fall sick she surely get tensions and try to help her father to overcome illness.

Boys and girls feels crush on many celebrities and they act like crazy fans. But they never go to the celebrity when the celebrity is in trouble or some other situation. We may like or attract to many for their fairness and beauty but we hardly fall in serious love and care. When people judge you for you external beauty and nature they just don't deserve you.

Once a boy and girl fall in love when they talk over phone for a long time. One day they decide to meet each other and when they met, the boy got disappointed because his mother wants a bride for her son who has fair skin doesn’t matter how her son looks. The boy had brown skin and the girl had brown but glowing skin but the boy had over expectations. So they broke up before its turn to a serious relationship. The girl broke up because she doesn’t want someone judge her for her external look and she has no regret that she broke up. Hats off to her because she proves that she is not a product, she is a person who deserves to be loved. We should be valuable not available and our look only does matter when we are product to someone, if we treated with love and care for no reason that is true love we get. So stop showing off yourself like a product and love yourself as you are. When you accept yourself as you are, people who loves you will also accept you as you are. So need to push yourself to be a product, be a gem with your inner beauty and that is your character. Don't push yourself to be something that others wants to see in you. Many of us use fairness cream, make over and make up to enrich external beauty but one day you'll realize that all these things are useless. A person who will never gonna loves you will find thousands reasons to leave you or refuse you but the person will loves you will find a single reason to be with you and love you forever.

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Muchos sólo se dejan llevar por la belleza externa pero para mi el término belleza encierra algo más allá de la apariencia, de lo externo. Pero difícilmente pocos lo ven de este modo. He visto muchas personas con belleza externa, pero al conocerles carecen de una belleza interior que sin duda para mi es la más importante.

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I think for me beauty is what lies deep within. I have made many friends who are really beautiful but you know their beauty is just a facade and I've made friends with not so beautiful but their beauty truly shines. So, for me I don't look at the outer beauty I always look for the inner beauty because that's where the true character of a person lies.

Happy to be able to comment on your post here at read dear. I think I have to make an updated post here as well because it's been quite a while since i've made a post here.

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Its great to see you here too dearest joie. I'm glad that you read my words 💖

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2 years ago

Don't be born beautiful, but be born happy-it's a popular wisdom. There's even a movie "Don't be born beautiful" I recommend you watch. If you are truly loved, then your appearance is not important.

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2 years ago

Let people love you the way you are don't change because of what they think, don't try bleach because they don't like black. If they don't love you the way you're then move on don't try to force yourself on them. You might later regret it

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2 years ago

Neither skin color, nor hairstyle, nor appearance, the only things I care about are love, respect, honesty, loyalty and being a conscientious human being.

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2 years ago

Such a power packed and impactful writing. I strongly believe this. Nowadays people justify a girl as a product. They want a Barbie Doll with Bill Gates bank balance & Haward university's degree.

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2 years ago

Last Line example was good one 😂 Thanks for being around to support my work 😇

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2 years ago

I think colour does not matter from which colour and tribe he/she belongs. In the world million of couples from black and which families belong. I have seen so many people who are most beautiful and kind in looking but most dangerious. So we must have to judhe the people from their hearts, behavriors and their thinkings.

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2 years ago

Exactly what I mean, thanks for highlighting things I've indicated.

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2 years ago

Fair skin doesn't mean beauty, this is the reason most people buys bleaching product and end up regretting it.

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Yup exactly, mostly people take care of their external beauty and later regret for using wrong product too.

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