Can't Imagine Their Psychology

Mostly not visit social media for seeing social dramas. Some dramas are extremely irritating and I found one today in this morning. I was randomly visit timeline and I found a girl in my friend list (met personally two years ago) posted a photo of ambulance and ask for prayer to Almighty for her father's early recovery. Well, when our close one or family member got serious ill, how we can manage time for posting it to social media? How their psychology works I really don't understand.

Don't get me wrong please! Here I wonder that how anything else could be our concern when our family member is hospitalized? We should be busy with the patient and if prayers needed we should directly says prayers and they post in social media like Almighty using social media to see our posts though Almighty is everywhere but why this share so much important when our family member is in a critical situation?

What is the psychology of these kind people? He/she wants to show off to the world that how caring he/she is? If really caring why social media to share instead praying in a religious way? Almighty surely not like show off and we should pray to him individually and personally. We may ask for praying others to Almighty but sharing such critical situation in social media, how does it sounds? Don't get me wrong because I'm not judging these people but I wondering about their psychology.

Just for a moment I put myself on their situation. I can't imagine myself doing social media even I may stay away from phone or social media in such situations. Many people take pictures of their dead relatives, take selfies with them and share in social media. If the person is really in grief shouldn’t share such sad stories from their life just like a cool stuff. Their psychology wondering me, how could they do this? Does they want sympathy from public or friends in social media list? Does this sympathy more important than the recovery of the family member?

The time they spending writing social media post about their grief, they can spend the time with their family member who going through such critical situation. Virtual people not going to offer their shoulder to support you when you crying for serious illness of your parents or family member. Virtual friends can react sad emoticon, write some words to console you and that's it. They also can pray to Almighty for you but that rarely happen. If you want to inform your friends and relative about the illness you can text them personally when situations are under control but social media show off is not necessary to overcome tough situation.

Sharing happiness, good news and events are really good to see virtually but some shares in social media can pull down our image right there and people may have question marks on our psychology. Many people doesn’t care about their image and try to open up themselves in public, they feel very proud for being so open but other audiences in public put a question mark on their personality and psychology. Are they psychologically disturbed? What insist them for doing these nonsense?