Being An Open Book Can Be Dangerous

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You can call this random realization or learn from life story around mine. Many of us say proudly that their life is an open book, nothing is hidden and as nothing is hidden so he/she is crystal clear, LOL. Few months ago I've seen some celebrity trolls get viral in social media and this was absolutely expected. When we become open book, we open up like our private parts. This may sounds awkward but we can't deny this truth.

I still believe, we shouldn’t open up in public that people find us cheap and dare to make trolls. We all have more or less darkest parts in our life that we feel embarrassed to share. I'm not saying that being open book is bad but be selective about choosing area that where you should open up and where not. Its true that life of celebrities always public and they just kept themselves public to show off their talent. Others like to know sensitive issues about your life and when you share like open book they get chance to hit you someday when they get chance.

According to personal experience of course we should not be a open book everywhere even we can be wrong when trust because snakes can be hidden inside of any person and when they mess they surely bite you and that bite could be poisonous like snakes bite so we need to be careful to trust someone around you. This is not always necessary to be open up so try to avoid being open book and be a open book when its necessary.

There is a one place where being a open book never going to be worse and that one place is our prayers to Almighty where nothing is hidden, Just share your happiness and sorrows and feel good when something disturbing you inside. People around us sometimes get jealous seeing our happiness and burst out with jealousy so as an open book you shared happiness and people become jealous so its not good right?

Sometimes we share sorrows and haters who pretend to be our lover mostly laugh inside at our worse conditions or feelings. So here we also repeat the mistake. Not all the people around us are our friends and not always enemies too. So either we stop being a open book or we can be more careful about sharing personal life issues with others.

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©SHOHANA 2021

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Hello my dear long time friend I'm so happy to see you here :) All I can say is there should be a limitation in if life is an open book.

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2 years ago

Glad to see you here after such a long time. I'll never forget you as we are together since bubblews and steemit days. Take love! 💖

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2 years ago

Interesting memories. Some bad luck. Keep writing.

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2 years ago

Просто научиться открываться, не рискуя, и не вступая в контакт с людьми невохможно. Это как хотеть научится плавать, не заходя в воду. Но с другой стороны мудрые люди знают, чтобы быть счастливым, некоторые вещи нужно держать в тайне. Вывод: храните чужие секреты и окружающие будут хранить ваши откровения!

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2 years ago

Being open isnokay, as long as the pages or chapter that you open to then public are the chapters that can be disclosed to public.you need to properly choose what pages of your life that can be exposed or not.

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2 years ago

Wel, I agree with this. Being an open book people may harm you more. Why? Because they may have more scope as they know about you.

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2 years ago

I really do flow with this and it’s necessary to know when and how to act… so many things shouldn’t be opened to the wrong set of people… this is a beautiful write up and I’ve learnt something new.

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