Everyone has a story

Live your story to the fullest........

Some days when I lay on my bed and wish if life was never going to go bad... If we could absent ourselves from the surface of planet earth when we are about to be hit with diverse problem and reappear when it is gone... If only life could be filled with total laughter and celebration.... If only life could be like a calm night surrounded with peace and calmness. But suddenly, the clock turns the other way, life doesn't go the way we wish. Everyone including me has a share of the ups and downs it is pregnant with. We cannot run away from the cloud of despair it brings with it.

Our story fully begins the moment we are brought out from our mothers womb, and it can only end when we send out that last breath. Just the stories our grandparents would tell us when we were kids, it will have the funny part, sorrowful part, romance part, and many more. "I really noticed something spectacular with my grandma, no matter how tragic the story is, she will always find a way to twist it to become interesting". That was my grandma and we are not talking about her today. Life has all if this characteristics in it, from the tragic part, comedy, good relationship, etc. It is our life, and at the same time it is a necessity that we make it interesting no matter what season we find ourselves. Shying away from the tragic part of it will never make it go or stop it from coming. My mentor use to say "what we don't fight today, we will always fight it some other day".

Remember this is our story....... If we continue avoiding those issues that makes us uncomfortable, we are giving it the chance to make it a difficult unsolvable issue. Let me use a book to further explain what I really mean. You can never understand a book if you keep skipping some of the pages in the book. Information is power, and it also makes things interesting or otherwise. If we skip the information on this page of a book, the next page will never make sense and that's how the skipping will continue. Same thing with life, avoiding certain chapters of life will make life difficult to understand. The ripple of confusion will set in as we keep skipping the pages of life.

What makes life interesting is when we accept our shortcomings work towards making it interesting instead of complaining and wallowing in self-pity. Escapism is a pathetic way to lead a life. The very moment we are conscious of what is happening around us, that's when those difficult part of our life's will start loosing the grip the had on us. We shouldn't lay low, keep dealing with those complications as they come to us. Deal with complicated issues and observe life to get the best out of it. We only wish life to be a bed of roses. No one knows what tomorrow brings. Do you know what's in store for you?. What ever you see now is exactly what it is. If we live our life in the consciousness of what will happen to us in coming time, we may not get the chance to have a total control and enjoy the moment. It is so good to think about the future, but what I am saying is that, don't waste the whole of your life doing that.

You have a story...... Do all you can to live it to the fullest. We have all been given just one opportunity to do that, there won't be a second chance if we mess up. Let's fill our story with sweet memories and also make it a colorful one. The length of life can never be guess, hence it's up to us to value every moment we have while we're still breathing.

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