You're right, looking good is everyones responsibility, both men and women.

I don't think that would be great because everyone is different and we shouldn't make them look a certain way just because that's what we like, some men like make up and others don't, there are also women who don't like make up and those who love it. If you want to date someone who is natural and doesn't wear makeup that's great there are a lot of women out there like that, no need to try to make everyone do what you prefer especially if they don't want to. As for the bill splitting it is fine when you're already in a relationship with the person, I think for the first date the man should pay, I think whoever invited the other person out should pay for the date.

i never once said in my comment i would make anyone do anything, not sure where you got that from, i agree everyone is different and each situation is different, also every culture is different, i guess this is an open ended debate according to each persons likes/dislikes, etc

I mean generally not you in particular, it's totally up to the people involved and what makes them happy, I think people that have been together for a long time have these things figured out already and won't have to think about who pays, once you know each other well, you understand each other better. Thanks for the tip 🤗

Exactly, the first date should be the guys responsibility especially if he invited her out. For me I think if you're inviting me out then you should pay the bills, If I'm inviting you out I will pay for it too except you want to pay then I won't mind.

Taking turns to pay the bill is fine, but we can't force people to split the bill, what if they don't have?

Why?

He's the man! Where I come from, men stay in front

I agree I think men should pay but not because you had to look good for him, looking good should be for yourself. If he is inviting you out then he should pay, If you're inviting him out you should pay if he can't afford it. Most men will never allow a woman pay for a date.

Looking for a guy, is more like the responsibility of the lady

We dress up to go out every day with friends and family and don't expect anything so what's the difference.

The difference is the person involved. In this case you and a guy alone

If you're dressing up differently cause of the guy, that's your choice, you want him to see you in a particular way, you feel like if you dress up like that he may be more attracted to you. Women want to look good for men too not just ourselves, I don't think the man should pay for that. If you can't afford to dress up and look the way you want maybe don't go for the date but if you really like each other I'm sure however you look would not matter ❤️

Me! I want my lady to dress well

Thank you! men never ask for all that, they just want your presence and your company. As women, we like to look good for ourselves and also to attract men so I don't understand why any woman will say that.

yes women love to do that...but while paying why they make excuse of that expense... one surely can spend for her beauty...but she should also have some pays in date

Exactly! I and my partner split the bill sometimes, and some times when I'm taking him out I pay but most times he pays 😄

Same here, I always try to contribute in one way or another but most times I let him do everything cause he loves it and i love it when he does things for me.

I do that too. I tell him that I'll pay for the bill but if he insists, then I'll let him be. 😅

Always works 😂

Trueee. All the time 🙈☺️